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guys are complete idiots.
16/f.
i liked this guy and he liked me. me n him go to the same school.
we both live "out of zone" for our school and should be going elsewhere.
well, he called me recently and told me that he didnt want a relationship with me because of lacrosse and his grades.
but come to find out, he lied to me and hes going out with one of my friends that goes to the school that we should be going to.
i really liked him and i spent my sweet 16 depressed over him. should i confront him about it? call him and tell him we need to talk? or should i just let it be, seeing as he's been ignoring me lately?
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Just let it be hun. No one should be a pussy and lie to your face about that. So leave him alone. He obviously was into this girl and you at the same time and then chose her over you. But dont be depressed about it. You guys werent even dating, and there are plenty of guys out there. Trust me, ignore him back. Lets just say it is like a game of cat and mouse. When he ignores you, he actually expects you to call. When you dont, guess who calls you? He does. Now if he doesnt, it is obvious that he has made his final desicion with this girl. But if he does call, he still likes you and is probably trying to string the two of you girls along, because he cant make up his mind, which is so wrong. So forget the guy and move on. He is not worth your time. And by the time he realizes what he fucked up, you will be with some one way better. Hope I helped hun.
~Sherah
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wel obviously that girl hes with now actually put out more. maybe she gave him head or something. did u? if not, thats what the problem was. thers not much you can do about it now, and i say leave it, coz hes already with that other girl. but if you see him again and you think he would want to do stuff with you give him head or have sex and maybe hell see you more. its what i do.
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Don't be typical. If he lied to you about not wanting a relationship, he obviously does not care about you or your feelings. At your age, you should not get depressed over ANYONE; they aren't worth getting upset about. You don't need to confront him or give him the time of your day; you'll only look desperate. Accept it & move on to someone who pays attention.
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Honestly, just let it go. He probably only lied to you because he was trying not to hurt your feelings. But he is a boy, and didn't realize that you would still be upset. Don't call him. It will only make things worse. Try writing him a letter and explain how you feel, and then throw it away. Wait for him to talk to you, becuase he may feel uncomfortable about making you upset.
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hey
sweetie, dont be upset over him. honestly.
if he lied to you, he's not worth your time.
i'm sorry that that happened to you- guys do that. girls dont know why, either.
if i were you, i'd suggest not bothering him about it or anything. i mean what's the point? actually, there is a point. if you were really REALLY upset, you can make him feel guilty by being like, "why did you lie to me." but if you guys have a friendship, it will mess up the friendship.
but you want to grow up out of his league, you know? dont sink down to his level just to 'get even.' in the long run, you'll be way ahead of him if you dont confront him about it.
calling & saying we need to talk? talk about what? how he lied to you and made you sad? it's just not gonna work, hun. i'm sorry... but the mirror of trust is seriously broken and if you try to "talk it out" like adults, which he's already proved that he cant do by lying to you like a 5-year-old, he will never be the same person to you because of what he did.
if he's been ignoring you lately, you ignore him back. you be the strong one. when he comes crying to you, dying to go out with you, you be the stronger one who says that he broke your trust & its not gonna be the same.
i'm sorry about your situation, but love, just move on and find better guys who dont lie to you.
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He obviously liked your other friend, but didn't know how to tell you. I'd just forget about him if I were you. Theres a ton of more boys out there.
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First off, I'm sorry for what he did to you. Not all guys are complete idiots though -- Most are :) But there are good guys out there and this one is definately not one of them. I wouldnt even bother calling and talking to him, he's not worth a second of your time since he treated you badly by lying to you. He could of just been honest when he broke up with you, that he liked someone else you know? But making it on his studies and sports is just an easy way out that he took. He's a loser. You deserve better. Stop stressing over him because seriously you're better off without him and guys like him. But not all guys are like that, keep searching for the right one ;)
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I would just let him be. If he came to the conclusion that he needed to think of a sorry excuse to tell you instead of the trutgh then obviously you dont need him anyways. Dont confront him, call him, or make it seem like you care. Cause the more you show you care, the more important he think`s he is. You gotta let him know that hes FAR* from it =d x3 _
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