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ok so i have this major crush and i told him i was gonna call him later on tonight [like soon!] just to talk and stuff and i never talked on the phone with him and i HATE the phone...im so scared of awkwardness and silences and of being boring....i just dont know what to say and all and hem ight be with his friends now and stuff so it cant be one of those deep...whatever...talk for hours conversations....I NEED HELP!
[16/f...hes 17]
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When you call him just tell him that you find it easier to talk to people from school on the Internet because the words just come more naturally that way.
He will understand completely because his heart will be pounding in his chest too (if he likes you which sounds evident) and thinking the same exact things 1) What do I say? 2) I hope I don't come across as an idiot and 3) I hope she will still like me and not think I'm boring because I found it hard to talk on the phone.
He's more concerned about what you think of him on the phone than he is with what he thinks about you. Just know that and have that in your head when you call him.
Before you do rehearse questions you want to ask him and write them down and use it as a guide on the phone. Ask about his interests, hobbies, passion, school, video games, movies and you'll soon see how easy it is to get a good conversation in.
Then conclude by giving him your contact info and IM and all that stuff. That will take it back to the enviornment you do best in when it comes to communication next time.
This call will be great for you because it will help you throughout life to talk on the phoneand loosen up with guys. Best to learn now rather than later right?
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It could sometime`s be awkward talking to new people on the phone. Especially boy`s that you have a crush on & tend to be shy around. Im sure he doesnt wanna make an idiot out of HiMSELF either so I would just call him & get it over with. Im sure he`ll have something to talk about if he`s the one who told you too call, and after all. If you call him, thing`s will progress from there x3 _
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