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Acceptance
Yesterday (Saturday) my mom and I were talking about clothes. I said to her; Do you remember when you said to me that you thought I lost weight because my beige pants looked big on me; she said; well they did look big; I then said; what about the white pants I am wearing today; and she said; they look fine; which made me say; well I feel that every time I wear a pair of pants you are or will be thinking they look big; and she said; That is in your mind, I would have told you if I thought your pants look big - again it is in your mind; AND again today I asked her about the blue pants I am wearing and she said they look fine. SO MY QUESTION: IF YOU WERE ME WOULD YOU FINALLY ACCEPT THE FACT IT WAS JUST THE BEIGE PANTS THAT DAY THAT MADE HER THINK THAT. AND HOW DO I FORGET (NOT DWELL) ABOUT THE COMMENT SHE MADE ABOUT THE BEIGE PANTS"
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All of your pants fit you differently.
The beige ones are the only ones your mom thinks are big. She is an honest person, she would have mentioned it if she thought all of your pants look big.
If you can't forget about it by yourself, I'm afraid there's really nothing anyone can say (other than a counselor/psychiatrist/psychologist) that can help you. You need to deal with this yourself.
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omfg. you go to a freaking pyschiatrist or get a life or get over it. you have asked a billion questions about this. i AM SO FREAKING SURE!! GET A LIFEEEE.... people gain weight and lose weight and look large some days and don't some days and some pants fit different and some shrink, but whatever, GET OVER IT!!! WEIRDDDDDDDDD.. im sorry but i just had to say this. you need to wake up and chill out.
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