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I'll try and make a long story ,short.
Theres this boy, we kinda hooked up and other stuff [if ya know what i mean] over the summer and he knew i liked him and i think he liked me.
Well,people found out about our hookup and we kinda stopped talking and just didnt act the same around eachother ,i still like him but he has a girlfriend.Now at my school,alot of the guys act like they dont like me because im never mean to them and i let them say whatever they want and so alot of people make alot of jokes about me.
His best friend told me that Josh[the boy i like]
really used to like me and says he doesnt like me anymore but he still talks about me all the time and his best friend thinks he still likes me but just says he doesnt because he has a girlfriend.[his bestfriends name is Jimmy]
Jimmy told me also that he just doesnt talk to me because all the others dont and he just wants to fit it and try to be cool,so he only messes with me if he gets the chance,or he'll make a little remark here and there but Jimmy said thats his way of saying he likes me.
I guess Jimmy wasnt supposed to tell me that or he was lying because Josh came up to me and said something about how Jimmy told me all that stuff and he said " did jimmy tell you that i liked you and stuff?" and i acted dumb [because he has a girlfriend] and i said " um no?" and then Josh said "good ,because that would be gross"
then that ended that and usually Josh would make a remark to me about something or say something to me and the last few days ,he hasn't.
Now I dont know whether to trust his best friend or to believe Josh himself, but Josh tends to be a liar and he's always trying to act cool and be like everyone else and Jimmy isnt like that ,and thats his best best friend and Jimmy is one guy who doesnt make fun of me,and he's not known to lie and on top of that ,Jimmy didnt know I used to like Josh until I told him , so he couldnt have been making that up to see if I admitted something.And Jimmy would tell me stuff that I told Josh, like how we used to hangout and stuff.
So I need help, I dont know what to believe and I'm really scared to talk to Josh because I don't know how he'll react to it and he'll think im really weird.
And I know your going to say "forget josh,hes immature" but i really like him and all the guys are like that and i know he'll mature.
What should i do?
15/California
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For get about him you can do better. Find a mor emature guy who isn't a following, liar because soemtimes that doesn't mature as quickly and as fast as we'd like it to.
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Personally I think you should forget about the pair of them. One is talking behind his friends back (or is telling you stuff his friend is telling him to tell you or whichever it might be) and the other is only interested in what he can get out of you! That's not immature that's scum! You can do a hell of a lot better than someone like that. For all you know, all you was to this guy was someone he can go to over the summer. Was he and you fooling around during the summer behind his gf? If you were then that only makes what I said even more true about this guy - all he's doing is using you.
I know you really like him but I really like tigers but I wouldn't hug one. :/ There's liking and their's being played and to be honest it just seems like this guy was playing you. Even if he wasn't to treat you like dirt just to fit in and seem 'cool' is a pretty lame and pathetic excuse. I won't say forget him because that's not easy to do but you DO need to get over him. You need to and you can find someone a hell of a lot better than this guy (no matter how much you try and convince me or yourself that you can't).
I wouldn't be surprised that on your next big break/holidays from school he'll be right back at your door to 'hang' out with you and 'stuff'. It would just go to priove my point about this guy. Get yourself a guy who deserves someone as nice as you are. :]
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