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okay well i have no problem with having guys as friends but i want them to notice me more in a "girlfriend" way i guess you could say do you have any ideas on how to get them to notice me thanks alot (Indeed)
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err well, I think (this is from a female prospective of course, so I've the same vantage point as you) that guys like girls more when they are acting natural and themselves. Its probably a total turn off when a girl throws herself at a guy and over-flirts, because thats a turn off for girls too. Try to determine whats attractive in guys to you and flip it around.
You should never change yourself to get noticed though - this is a horrible idea. If you have to change yourself for someone, then its not a real attraction. A guy will come along who likes you for you, and not something your pretending to be. So be yourself.
Sometimes guys don't notice the best girls because their idiots. Sometimes guys wont start to notice you 'in that way' until your 15 or 16, sometimes later. It all depends. If you would really like them to notice you, just stay good friends with them and see what happens. Be yourself and act natural, you'll get some attention soon enough.
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my sister is having a baby and she really loves symbolic and unique names so i was wondering if i could get some suggestions... thnx :-D (Indeed)
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Eulalia - which is pronounced - YouLayLeeAh
Shes a Saint, she was burned to death when she refused to deny God. Theres a lot more to the story but its long. Even if you aren't religious its a kick ass name because she just stood up for something she believed in and refused to give in to people who threatened her, even with death.
SO its a pretty cool name, unique and with meaning.
OR you could name the kid Pandora, so when they do something really wrong you can be like 'Way to open up another box of crap, Pandora.'
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well im 13 years old and i have strech marks on like the top of my legs near my but and when i wear a bathing suit you see them and i am so self consious of them it sucks do you have any ideas on how to get rid of them thanks! (Indeed)
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Vitamin E lotion will help give your skin some elasticity in those areas. Apply it once every day and after a while you will notice a lot of improvement.
Vitamin E works for scars as well.
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What if you moved away from ALL of your friends and you know you will make new ones, but you want to old ones now!? (Indeed)
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You won't ever lose your friendship with those people, but it will be different. Write them letters and emails and just make sure you keep in touch.
A good friend is never really gone, no matter what the distance. And hey, maybe one day they can come visit or you can go visit them.
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My friend has been dating this guy (he's 15 and she's 13)and he wants her to sleep with him. She keeps asking me what to do, but i don't know what to tell her. I know she doesn't love him (i don't even think she likes him) and when ever i tell her what she doen't want to hear(like "no") she gets really mad and goes to our other friend who keeps telling her to do it(but she doesn't even know what she's taking about.) She asks me every day and i'm sick of it! Sometimes i just want to tell her to do it to get her off my back. Please Help! (Indeed)
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Wow she asks you everyday and then gets mad when you're honest. Lame.
If you care about your friend, don't give up or in. Keep telling her not to do it, she will regret it after. Maybe you should consider writing down all of your reasons for not wanting her to and then giving them to her. Curiousity will force her to read it.
If she does it anyhow, well, don't beat yourself up about it. Just make sure you're there for her later when she feels crappy about herself.
As for this other friend who keeps telling her to do it - give that girl a piece of your mind. Tell her she isn't a very good friend and make her feel extremely guilty - pushing your friend to do this. If you make her feel bad enough, she might stop telling your friend to do it, and then your friend wouldn't have anyone giving her encouragement and she might change her mind.
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im baby sitting my sisters baby and she keeps crying ive fed her and changed her nappy wot else can i do? (Indeed)
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SHe probably just wants some attention, or her mother. Hold her and consider singing quietly to her or getting some toys and letting her play with them. You might want to try and tickle her. Just give her some attention.
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hi has ne 1 ne ideas how to put on a little weight. ppl say eat more but i eat like a horse can sum1 help me (Indeed)
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I'm actually doing the same thing myself, our problem is that although we eat like horses, our metabolism is incredibly fast. Which means that no matter what we eat, it moves through our body faster than a lot of other people and therefore fats and calories and carbohydrates arent completely absorbed into the body as it is with people with a slower metabolism.
If you really need to put on weight, I'd suggest trying to put it on in the form of muscle instead of just fat, because then you'll be unhappy with a few pockets of fat in selected places.
You can easily build muscle in your legs by running, and that won't decrease your body weight a lot because muscle weighs more than fat.
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I asked questions yesterday but I forgot to check the answers from them so i'm going to ask again. What is
1) oral
2) head
3) 69er
I'm 12/f/Canada and I really want to know because everyone is talking about it !! (Indeed)
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1) Oral - using your mouth, for either a guy or girl, for sexual pleasure on a partner.
2) Head - oral sex for a guy specifically.
3) 69 - Oral sex between two people but at the same time. So, you've got one person flipped with their head in the direction of the other persons feet so they can give oral sex to the other person while at the same time their partner is doing the same for them.
Canada rules.
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can you get pregnant if you have sex without a condom while on your period? (Indeed)
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Yes you sure can. You can ovulate at the same time as you get your period, which means you'd have an egg there ripe for the impregnating. You could also get some lovely diseases as a token present too.
There isn't ever a time where you can be absolutely certain that you won't get pregnant. ALWAYS use a condom.
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well every day after school an on fridayz i go to my friends house... an there are a bunch of guyz who are always grabin on me an stuff... well they really really like me an they always wana make out with me but i never made out b4 so im not sure what to do... we always play like spin the cell phone or bottle they always got tap kiss wit me cuz i refuse to makeout cuz im scared to an i really have no clue wut to do! an then when we play man hunt they always want like head or want to fuk me an im just really confused cuz yeah some of them are hott but i dont wana ruin my rep. at school or my parents to find out they never new i had a b/f or kissd yet.. im just REALLY REALLY confused... can someone plz help me?? :-/
-shellz (Indeed)
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What the hell? Thats really messed up.
If you aren't comfortable then don't go there when all of those guys are there. Don't do anything you don't feel ready to do.
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my mate came to my house and we really told each other our secrets. i told her not to tell ne 1 but she told the whole class them. i dont no if i should be mates wiv her or not. plz help (Indeed)
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She's not really a trustworthy friend if she told everyone.
Give her a chance to redeem herself and ask her about it. If she thinks she was allowed to tell other people then maybe she isn't really all that horrible a friend.
I'd reconsider ever telling her secrets again though.
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Anyone know some ways to get good scolarships. I have tp raise up my grades, they failed for some reasons. and was wondering if anyone knew some really good sclarships. for business (spelled wrong i know) accounting marine biology or oceanography. any scolarship will do.
thank you in advance (Indeed)
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go to the site www.studentawards.com
Once you register (fill in REAL information, its private and your info won't be used to come kill you or anything), you will asked a bunch of questions (answer them CORRECTLY) and then the site itself will determine scholarships that you could be eligible for.
Its cool.
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i really want a bf does ne 1 have ne advice on how i can get 1 (Indeed)
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You won't find one if you are looking. Really you won't. Just go out and have a good time with your friends and eventually, someone will come along.
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has ne 1 had there belly buttons pierced. i have had mine done and puss keeps cumin out of the holes and it bleeds can sum 1 help me is it infected (Indeed)
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Buy Bactine® at a pharmacy, or another cleaning agent like that.
Belly button piercings get infected extremely easily and its very common actually. Clean it with a product like Bactine at least 3 times a day. If the problem gets worse, I'd have a doctor check it out.
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ok look me and my boyfriend have been goin out 4 6 months and we are in a deep relationship and we are both in love wit each other(by the way im 14 es 16) but he said he wants 2 spend the rest of his life wit me and so do i and i believe him cuz he tells his siter everything and she tells e wat he said and he wats 2 have sex but he said if i dont want 2 he will wait but i kindof do want 2 should i or not? (Indeed)
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If you're going to have sex with someone you have to be sure with every fibre of your body that its what you want. Because if you're afraid or if you're unsure, then it isn't totally right. Right now it might feel like you want to spend the rest of your life with this guy, but you're still 14 and what you want or who you want might change. Not to say that for sure it will, but theres a good chance one of you will change your mind.
If he is willing to wait, then he can wait. Give yourself at least a few years to mature a little more. You might find that your feelings might be different. And if you find that you still want to spend the rest of your life with this guy, well then thats amazing and wonderful - but don't feel like you wasted a couple years of having sex because - you have the rest of your lives still.
I think that by asking for help, you are showing us that you are unsure and in this situation unsurity is a very bad thing. I'll say it again - every fibre in your body has to be certain before you do it. It'll hurt more if you're unsure and overly nervous. Seriously. And also, bringing sex into a relationship makes things really really really complicated. Sex actually ends a lot of strong relationships because those relationships just weren't ready for it yet. Love can be misleading at times, so if you give it more thought and more time, then maybe you won't have to make a mistake you might have made.
There is also the issue of pregnancy, later in life you can see yourself with a baby, and the father being this guy. But not now I would hope. If you're having sex you're going to need to think about that, even if you use protection. Is that something you want to add on top of the billion other things you need to worry about at 14? Do you really need to have sex now, is it so urgent that you can't wait?
And my last question to you is, why do you want to do it? Because you can or because theres something inside you telling you its right and the next step?
If you choose to have sex with this guy be safe, be responsible and don't let it bring your relationship to a crashing hault because once you've had sex with him, if the relationship ends, you won't be getting that back obviously.
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Lets see yesterday my bf and me were at the park and he told me that he kissed my best friend of all time.. it was just a peck though and he said it ment nothing at all im glad he came out and told me but should i break up with him? i mean i dont want to but i dont want to get hurt anymore and have it be worse... (Indeed)
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If it meant nothing then why did he do it? Thats something you need to find out.
You don't necessarily have to dump the guy but at least find out why it happened and let him know you won't accept it happening again.
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allright there's this guy that i like a lot. I really really want to go out with him. I just dont know if he likes me back because he just broke up with this one chick and she's like still obsessed with him. me and him went out before but it didnt really work out. but i think this time it would be different cause i think i have been able to rely on him more often now. i just dont know what to do. should i ask him back out? (Indeed)
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Just start talking to him casually. Don't walk up to him and say 'hey lets go out' because, well, you'll scare the hell out of him probably. Act friendly for a bit to get an indication of whether or not hes become more reliable and whether he still has feelings for his old girlfriend. You'll be able to pick up on that through casual conversations.
Once you've heard enough and are on a friendly level, I'd say move in for the kill.
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when u loose ur viginity i hear blood comes out? well is it really that much ? or is it somthing u can just ignore?
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Every woman is different, some don't bleed at all. Some do. It's all about your body I guess.
Here's a little blurb taken from www.scarletteen.com about this question, so at least its from an expert, I said the same thing though, but I'm cool cause I'm referencing stuff.
"As far as bleeding, some women bleed during their first intercourse. Some do not. According to sexpert Alice at Columbia University, "It is possible, and common, for a woman to be a virgin and not have pain or blood during her first intercourse." Again, this comes down to whether or not your hymen has been stretched or broken before intercourse, which, if you've been even moderately physically active or used tampons, it most likely has."
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What does it mean if you and your boyfriend are talking and you tell him you feel you dont meet up to his standards and he goes in otherwords you feel you arent good enough for me? so you say yeah your correct and he says if anything your to good for me... is that a bad or good thing? or does it just mean like dont let it get to you its not bad its not good its just a whatever thing. (Indeed)
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It means he appreciates that you're with him. It also means he thinks you are so amazing that he can't believe you put up with him.
You probably think the same thing for him. Its a good thing.
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I met a guy the other night and he's really nice and stuff. I was going through a rough time and he helped me out and made me feel better. But then yesturday I was talking to one of my friends who is friends with him and he said "he does that with all the girls that he talks to and he's just trying to get in your pants" I don't personnally think thats what he is trying to do...but I'm naive...should I listen to my friend instead? (Indeed)
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Give the guy a shot and if he tries anything - kick the shit out of him.
Just because other girls have fallen for the same thing doesn't mean you have to also. Heres a way to test his feelings about you:
If you give him the chance and you both get close and he tries to get physical, tell him politely that things are going a bit too fast. Heres the test part: gauge his reaction. If he sighs or gets upset then hes only after you for the physical, but if is ok with it and tells you he's sorry and that he'll take things slow then most likely he isnt just after some action.
Your guy friend might be jealous and lieing on purpose, but he also might be telling the truth, so dont let your guard down just because he treats you nicely and tells you what you want to hear. Make sure you remember what your friend told you and keep that in mind when you're with this guy - don't let things get out of hand. You're the one in control.
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