So there's this guy. I'm a 14 year old girl right now, going on 15, and he's 33, going on 34. I'm very mature for my age, mentally and physically, so naturally, I tend to like older men. Well, when I met him, I thought he was a really nice guy. We hung out, and in the course of a year, I began developing feelings for him. We hang out a lot. I've known his parents since I was small, and he comes from a very nice family. I kept having dreams of him, and cannot stop thinking of him, so soon I was going crazy. Just a week ago, I couldn't take it anymore so I nearly exploded with emotions, and blabbed out that I liked him. He took it very well, and I was surprised because he said that right now he likes me as a friend, but if I was 18 or 19, he would seriously like me as a girlfriend. He explained that obviously he cannot say he liked me back considering I'm only 15, but he would wait and see if I still had these feelings in a year, and he'd keep checking up on me and when I hit 18 or 19 he said that we'd definitely talk. I really like him, and I feel that he likes me back. He's very sweet, kind, a great listener, and fun to be around. I'm just a bit worried, because of the age difference, if it ever did work out, I'd probably lose him and be widowed. If you truly love someone, I've heard these marriages work. Can I get past the age difference if I truly love him?
Nevermind about your marriage working out, this is ILLEGAL.
It was completely inappropriate of this man to put these ideas in your head. I would advise you to keep your distance, as the fact that a 33-year-old man would even suggest being interested in someone your age should set alarm bells ringing.
Furthermore, it might also be a good idea to tell your parents what has been going on. I know you think he is amazing and have strong feelings for him but you need to understand that this is dangerous.
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I forgot to feed my cat before I left today. Will he be fine without water for a day and a half? I'm at my Dad's house and I can't get back home for a day and a half. I got here and then suddenly remembered that I didn't water my kitty cat. Will he be okay or should I tell my dad that I NEED to go back home right now?
If you keep a spare key at a neighbour's or hidden outside your house somewhere, is there any way you can contact someone to feed your cat for you?
If not, a day or so shouldn't hurt it too much. Just make sure you feed/water it as soon as you get in and try not to do it again.
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I'm a female, and 15 years old. should I forgive my boyfriend, if he thinks he got another girl pregnant? because this only happened one time, and he says he loves me, and it wasn't he's fault that this happened, because the girl forced him to do it with her.
I'd like to know how she 'forced' him to have sex. You can't force an erection out of someone. I suspect your boyfriend is lying to you.
It IS his fault that it happened and if he's lying about cheating on you in the first place, he's clearly not trustworthy at all. I would get out of this relationship now. This is not the type of person you want to be with.
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my boyfriend and i have been together on and off for about a year. we are together now. he is 21 and i am 19. i know it doesnt seen like much difference but to him it does. he sees me in his future and i see him in mine. we love each other as well. the only problem is that we dont really have anything in common. that is a problem for him. he likes sports and i kinda dont know what i like! but i go to his games, watch sports with him as much as i can. he does things for me too. but he asked me yesterday, 3 years down the road and we are married what will we talk about? that is his concern, that we have nothing in common and we wont have anything to talk about...(one of his concerns) so i guess i just want to know if we arent right for each other or what. thank you.
My boyfriend and I have entirely different 'hobbies'. You don't have to have things like that in common in order to have a relationship. Afterall, opposites attract.
What have you talked about over the past year?
Having nothing in common is different to having different interests. If you cannot find anything to talk about, then you could just be incompatible.
Try doing new things together like taking a class, visiting an art gallery etc. Find things you both enjoy together and see how it goes. If you still find that you have nothing to talk about, then perhaps you aren't right for each other, as you asked.
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I'm 15 years old and I'm known as the good girl. I am sexually active though. I always start my period after 29 days and today is day 31. My boyfriend and I have had sex about 3 times since my last period but always with a condom and it never broke. Except for one time we were messing around and didn't use one for like 2 seconds but we couldn't get his penis in and it just rubbed on me for a little while. This was before we had sex so there was no sperm on his penis from a previous encounter. I can't sleep at night because I'm worrying so much and I've been sick all day but not a flu sick more like a "I'm so nervous I can't function sick" This is all I have thought about for 3 days straight. Do you think I could be pregnant or is stress just delaying my period. I don't feel pregnant but I've never been pregnant before so I guess I wouldn't know what it feels like. Please write me back and let me know what you think about this. Thanks!
Take a pregnancy test. That's the only way you'll know for sure.
In future, if you're going to 'mess around' like that, then I'd advise you also use another form of birth control, such as the Pill as a back up.
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Does french kiss cause pregnancy?(tounge kiss)
I dread to think what's going on in my uterus if it does.
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sometimes i get these random balls of bulbs in my mouth that when i go to bite it, it pops and blood comes out. any ideas on what that might be? :(
It sounds like a blood blister.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blood_blister
They are commonly found on your skin, but can also occur inside your mouth:
http://www.bmj.com/cgi/content/extract/314/7094/1625
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As the long term girlfriend of 6 years and once engaged to this man, who's mother passed away. Tomorrow at the funneral he asked me to sit with them. Would it be proper if I also stood with him and his family to greet?
The fact that he asked you shows that he wants you to be there. As long as the rest of his family is comfortable with it too I don't see a problem. If you're uncomfortable then don't.
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Okay, so I'm looking to dye my hair a really,really bright platinum blonde.
I was wondering if there was any way to do this myself?
Currently my hair is red/purple.
Will I have to go to a salon in order to get hair that 'white'?
If so how do I ensure it becomes that colour and not just blonde?
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It will need bleaching. I HIGHLY reccomend you get it done professionally as your hair is currently so dark. I know it's not what you wanted to hear, but the chances of it going right if you do it yourself at home are slim. You are likely to badly damage your hair and/or turn it orange. You'll probably have to go to a professional to correct it anyway. Honestly, it's not worth it.
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My ex broke up with me because I asked him what he thought love was. And he got uncomfortable and scared. So now, a month later, we haven't talked since the break up because I was so upset with him because he made up a reason because he didn't want to admit his fear. And now he finally broke down and talked to me. And explained to me what was going on. And he's desperate to have me back because he made a huge mistake leaving me. And I am torn between sympathy and disappointment. I want to forgive him and for everything to be okay. But he hurt me so badly by doing what he did. I'm not sure if I should take the chance and risk having my heart broken again. Suggestions?
I think this guy made a stupid mistake and is truly sorry. I really do think it's worth giving the relationship another shot. It's actually more common than you'd think for people to get scared and walk away, even if it's not what they truly want.
Let him know that he really hurt you and that you won't forgive him if he does it again. One time is a mistake, twice is not acceptable. Of course there's a chance that he will hurt you again but if you care about him then it's worth the risk.
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does eating chocolate make people feel good? personally, it does not do much for me. i dont know if i even get happy doing anything. maybe i have an endorphin dysfunction??
From a scientific perspective, chocolate DOES make people feel good as it triggers endorphins, resulting in a natural high. However, everyone is different. Personally, chocolate makes me feel good because it tastes good, then bad as soon as I've swallowed it all due to the state of my thighs.
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Mae (pronounced May, just a cooler spelling), Rena, Lynette, Jesirae, Amira, Kiara, Lena, Kaylee, Amina, Rose, Anissa, Liliana, Arabelle, Lilibeth, Ayla, Nikia, Ciana
Rose and Kiara.
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Hey im 18/f and thank you all for helping me with my last question about tattoos. I Donate plasma 2x a week. I know if you have/get a tattoo/piercing you cant donate for a year after that. Is that because they dont want to risk anything, like aids or hepatitis or anything that could have came from the needle. I know its wrong and such but if i know im clean and whatnot is there a way they can tell i got a tattoo if its hidden? Does it do anything to the plasma where they could tell? If so whats the soonest i can donate. Besides 12 months. Thanks a bunch!
This is a really dangerous idea. How will you know that you're 'clean and whatnot'? Just because you don't have any symptoms does not mean you are clean. I strongly advise you wait for the 12 months or don't get the tattoo. The rules are strict for a very good reason. Sorry.
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For my tattoo, I'd like piano keys across my shoulders and a quote either above or below them. So far I found two beautiful quotes. Shakespeare's "If music is the food of love; play on." and Henry Ward Beecher's "Of all the music that reached farthest into heaven, 'twas the beating of a loving heart." Both have music and love, which is what I wanted since I am in love and love playing piano, but I just cannot pick!
The second one is beautiful, I'd actually consider it for my own tattoo. It shouldn't matter how well known the people are, as long as it means something to YOU.
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14/f
So I just got my period today (not for like the first time in my life, I've had it since last September) and I know how to deal with it and all, but what I don't know is how do I go swimming with my period? My friends keep inviting me to the pool or the beach and I really want to go but I'm afraid something bad will happen...I've never worn a tampon in my life, by the way, and I don't know how to...I'm afraid I'd do it wrong or something. Also, I've never faced this problem because the only times I've had my period, it was like the winter, and now it's the summer... So...any advice please? thanks!
The only way you can swim on your period without it getting messy is by using a tampon.
It's fine to be a little imtimidated the first few times as they do appear scary. You can get tampons specifically designed for first timers. They are slimmer and smaller than regular ones.
Make sure you've got a bit of time and you won't be disturbed and go into the bathroom. Lay out the instructions from the pack somewhere you can see them. Make sure you are relaxed, as if you tense up it will be harder and possibly painful.
Don't worry if you get it wrong, it's normal. Just relax and try again. You'll soon get the hang of it.
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I took two expired aspirins maybe an hour ago. My headache wasn't (and isn't) going away so I looked on the bottle to see when I could take more aspirin and realized that they had been expired for a couple of months. Am I okay or should I go to the hospital? And should I take other medication for my headache or will it interfere with the expired aspirin?
A couple of months shouldn't make much of a difference so I wouldn't worry. However, you should dispose of expired and old medications carefully. Most pharmacies will take them off your hands free of charge to dispose of them properly.
Not all headaches, most commonly tension headaches, respond to Asprin and other painkillers. It would be a good idea to visit your doctor if you continue to get them.
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Recently I've noticed that I seem to be carrying excessive things in my handbag or missing some vital things, so I'm just wondering; what do you, girls, keep in your handbag that you take with you wherever? The things that you always have in your hand bag?
Thanks :)
My keys, my phone, tampons, a spare pair of underwear (lifesaver if you come on your period away from home), a little make-up bag for touch ups (mirror, powder, brush, eyeliner, concealer and lipbalm), a hairbrush, my iPod Touch, my purse (driving license, lots of cards, bus pass, money and a couple of numbers for taxi companies), Hayfever tablets, painkillers (Paracetemol/Ibuprofen etc), Pro-Plus and a pen.
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OK so me and my Bf were having some fun yesterday and well the condom broke and he hade come, i am on the pill and have been for a few monthes now like 6-7 and am also on my period i also took a warm bath and attempeted to clean myself, so my question is how doyou properly clean yourself after this happens and should their be anyworry bou getting pregnant?
Cleaning yourself doesn't stop you from being pregnant, unfortunately. If you mean cleaning yourself so that you're not sticky, a regular bath/shower and as another user said, your vaginal fluids should sort that out.
As you're on the Pill and providing you're taking it correctly, it's highly unlikely that you're pregnant so I wouldn't worry. If you're still concerned, I suggest you take the Morning-After-Pill (although it might be a little late now).
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is it ok to masturbate if ur pregnant?
Yes, and I've heard it can actually be beneficial as orgasms release endorphins which are said to calm and relax the baby.
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I live in the UK
and I want to buy some american apparel clothes online,
If I ordered it from the american site, instead the uk site - I'd save some money right?
Not necessarily, you have to take into account shipping costs. Also, I'm not sure how the exchange rates are at the moment but I'm pretty sure the pound is still really weak, so I doubt it'd make much difference to the price.
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