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I'm a female, and 15 years old. should I forgive my boyfriend, if he thinks he got another girl pregnant? because this only happened one time, and he says he loves me, and it wasn't he's fault that this happened, because the girl forced him to do it with her.
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I'd like to know how she 'forced' him to have sex. You can't force an erection out of someone. I suspect your boyfriend is lying to you.
It IS his fault that it happened and if he's lying about cheating on you in the first place, he's clearly not trustworthy at all. I would get out of this relationship now. This is not the type of person you want to be with.
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You know, it is physically impossible for a girl to force a guy to get an erection. He either does or he doesn't. If he don't want to, he will not get one.
Forgive him if you want to. Just know right up front that he is lying to you.
If she is pregnant he is just as much at fault as the girl is. He is just as responsible for hospital bills and childcare as she is. SO, you are starting out with a guy who will be in debt for the next 18 plus years.
If he gets out of all that, he is still a shitheel for not taking the responsibility for his child. So you are getting a guy who is irresponsible.
One time is all it takes. One itty bitty sperm.
If he didn't know that already, you are also getting a guy who is irresponsible and ignorant.
You might also keep in mind that he probably told the possible mother of his child he loved her too.
This is an age old phrase that has gotten many a male into a females bloomers.
Just my opinion. :)
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I wish girls would force me to have sex with them.
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No. DO NOT FORGIVE HIM.
The whole deal he's telling about you her forcing him is bullshit. If he didn't want to, he would've pushed her off and told her no. But he went through with it, so he made a secondhand decision to sleep with her.
Also, if she's pregnant with his baby, that'll just cause drama for you if you stay with him. Tell him that he's a bullshit liar, and that he doesn't love you, and then tell him you don't want anything to do with him, and to fuck off. You don't need a scumbag like that in your life. You're 15 anyways. There's plenty of other guys out there who will actually love you and not cheat on you. :)
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You can do a billion times better than that guy. He obviously is just using you and he'll probably get another girl "almost pregnant" and then come running back to you, saying how much he's sorry and that she "forced him" thinking that you'll just forgive him and be the backup plan that he is making you. Don't fall for it. You're a strong person and you're only 15, so you'll find someone else, don't worry about it, he doesn't deserve your love, he is lying to you ... I really HIGHLY doubt that the girl forced him into having sex with her, theres just no way that could happen ... I mean, he could have stopped it ... and plus, that'd be called rape, which he should report if it WAS real [which, 99.9% wasnt] teach him a valuable lesson and show him that you're not stupid and you know what he's all about. no matter how much he tries to convince you, don't trust him. Boys will tell you what you want to hear if they think it will get them out of the situation theyre in, just a little heads up :]
and girl, you can do waaaaaaaay better :] good luck, hope i helped ! if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me, xxo.
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Forgive him? Heck no you should not forgive him!
Like Jack said, there's no way she "forced" him to have sex with her, he chose to and now she's having his baby. Why would you stay with a scumbag like that?
You're still young and have PLENTY of time left to find a guy worth your time. Forget about this one and find a good guy.
-Laura (17-f)
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There's no way she "forced" him to have sex with him unless she threatened his life. But that is no plausible. Because if she really forced him to have sex, that would be RAPE, and she could go to jail about it.
Ditch your boyfriend. He doesn't love you. If he had to go to someone else to have sex, and then LIE about it to you, well, then he doesn't really give a crap about you.
Get out while you can.
--Jack
(17/m)
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There is no way that a girl can force a guy into sex, unless she's holding his family at gunpoint.
Getting another woman pregnant while he's supposed to be faithful to you is unforgivable! Find a guy who won't screw around on you and then lie to you.
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Unfortunately he's lying to you. I really doubt that this girl forced him into sex. I don't mean to sound harsh but at fifteen you two don't really know what love is. Does it really matter that this has only happened once? Have some respect for yourself and get away from this person who is using you.
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