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messy situation with ex
My ex broke up with me because I asked him what he thought love was. And he got uncomfortable and scared. So now, a month later, we haven't talked since the break up because I was so upset with him because he made up a reason because he didn't want to admit his fear. And now he finally broke down and talked to me. And explained to me what was going on. And he's desperate to have me back because he made a huge mistake leaving me. And I am torn between sympathy and disappointment. I want to forgive him and for everything to be okay. But he hurt me so badly by doing what he did. I'm not sure if I should take the chance and risk having my heart broken again. Suggestions?
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i agree with what rainbowcherrie said.
just be mature about it. if you want to be with him, give him a 2nd chance. and let him know that you got hurt and you are going to need him to earn your trust back. and that you are going to be careful so u dont get hurt again.
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I think this guy made a stupid mistake and is truly sorry. I really do think it's worth giving the relationship another shot. It's actually more common than you'd think for people to get scared and walk away, even if it's not what they truly want.
Let him know that he really hurt you and that you won't forgive him if he does it again. One time is a mistake, twice is not acceptable. Of course there's a chance that he will hurt you again but if you care about him then it's worth the risk.
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