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My name is McKenzie and I'm a freshman at Reedley College, I love to help people out with problems and to write. I want to be a writer someday. I love to make friends. Ask any question and I'll attempt to answer it.

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I really like this guy that lives down the street from me! We used to hang out all the time. We dont hang out anymore and I guess its just cuz weve beeen so busy... how do I get the 2 of us to hang out more often?

Thx

Find some time for the two of you to hang out! Make it a priority if you really like this guy.

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Well I really really like this guy and he knows it but he doesnt like me back and i really want him to hes a friend of mine but wont see me as more as that, he doesnt have a gf or anything and i dont think he likes anyone so any tips to get him to like me or what i should do about this?
ps. he has liked me before for a while when i didnt like him if that means anything

Thanks so much
I'll rate high!

If he liked you before, there's really no reason as to why he wouldn't like you now. Just be yourself, smile at him and make him feel wanted. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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i hvae one of those huge whitehead pimples on my cheek, and is it easier to put make-up on it if i pop it, or if i let it stay big? and what can i do to make it go away faster? i don't need any products, just should i pop it or wash it or leave it alone?

Leave it alone!!!! If you pop it, you will be sorry! It leaves a big scar and I'm sure you don't want that. Maybe wash it a couple times a day and it should get smaller. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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im 17/f and i have a little acne on my face. the only place i get them is on my forehead and especailly my chin. i was wondering if anyone knew of any good acne products that arent real expensive? what the product is called, how much it costs, how good it works, and where i can find it? thanks so much!

There's a product called Proactiv that's supposed to work really well. I think you get it at the drugstore. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Hey you guys,
My boyfriend, Jesse, is in California to see his sister. He's supposed to be gone for (9) days, and so far there is (6) more days til he gets back. I wanna do something special for him when he comes back. But what? If you have any ideas, do share! Thx!
*Much love, Stay true*
~*~Missc~*~

Spend some time with him, maybe at the movies, get ice cream or at the mall. Make him feel like you really missed him. Spend some quality time together. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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so like my bf and me have been going out for 10 and 1/2 months, and we always fight about the same thing, Him going out, and today he told me that we should take a break, what is a break really and what should I do, I was so upset all I could do was cry... and whats worse i actually let him take his stupid break, and I dont know what to do, im so confused and hurt, and I cant break up with him because i love him, and he told me like a million times today he loves me, but i just feel like this is going to change our relationship, what should I do, i really need some help!@ im 16/f

Sometimes a break is like breaking up, sometimes it's really taking a break. It depends on the guy. If he's the type who says forget it and gets another girl fast, it means he's breaking up.
If he's the type who will show love and respect to the girl, it means he's really taking a break because he may have other things going on. Hope I helped!

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"i think ill sport some sunglasses at the bowling place tonight"
What does 'sport' mean in that sentence?

Sport means like wear or show off.

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Okay I want a boyfriend and stuff and be able to makeout and stuff with him. But I have heard from some people that a couple guys havn't asked me out because they think I won't do anything with them. So my question is how do I let them know that I will and want to without acting like a slut. Thanks in advance!! And if your rude then I will rate you low or not at all!!

Well try and convince them. If they don't listen, they are not worth your time and breath. You need to feel good about yourself without a guy hanging on you. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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I'm 14 and I'm one of 3 people in my grade that doesn't have a cell phone. I'm constantly out with my friends and they don't like me to call home on their phones cus it uses there minutes. *They didn't mind at first but when I have to constantly call home they got frusterated* My parents want me to call all the time when I'm out. I've tried explaining to them all the reasons why I need one, Like how they want me to call home and all that but they still say you dont get one till your 16 like your brothers. Well, im not my brothers, im more responsible, but i tried to tell my parents that and they wont believe me!
What should I do?

Keep convincing your parents that they always need to get a hold of you and that you will only use the cell phone in case of emergency. Keep bugging them and they may say yes. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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My friend has diabetes(sp?) and she eats like a pig! lol no offense but she never gains weight. she's like 5 foot 4 or so and eats all the time but weighs 995 pounds. is this normal? i don't think she's anorexic... but

She needs help fast. Tell her parent to take her to the hospital because when your that big, your heart may stop. I have diabetes and my grandma was overwieght and died from diabetes.

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hey my sister just got over cancer and she gets all of the sttention!! she was always like the "specila child" so i wasnt surprised when my mom and dad kind of forgot about me when she got sick. one night they just left to go to the hospital cuz she had a fever but they didnt tell me they were leaving so i woke up and knowbody was in my house (except for my neighboor). they didnt think i would care if they left and they didnt want to wake me up but bull crap. i dont really care i would have liked to know. and then one night we were out to eat with my grandparents and one of my grandpa's friends were there he went to introduce my family and he left me out!! i was sitting right there next to him and he said every one else's name but he didnt even say any yhing about me!! i know my sister had it bad but i mean would it hurt someone to say "hey how are you doing today"?? my friend recently died of cancer and we were really close. her brother would stya with us when she had to go to the hospital so when she was sick i didnt want him to feel like i did and i tryed to talk to him as much as i could about his sister. when she died people came up to him and said it is kk i no how you feel but they dont no how the siblings of cancer paticents feel!! i love my family but they just dont no any thing about me!! i dont think they care any more. what should i tell them? please can you help me??

It's tough dealing with an older sister. I have an older sister and she travels all the time so I don't have a choice. I always have to go with them. Just talk with your parents and they'll understand what you're going through. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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for summer reading i have to write a 5 paragraph essay and in the first paragraph i have to include a thesis statement on the main topic..lol obviously(sp?) but i forget how to do a thesis statement so can someone please help me on what i have to include? thanks soo much! i rate high!

A thesis is a sentence with a subject and an opinion. Like for example: Dogs are cute. Not everyone thinks dogs are cute so expand on why you think dogs are cute. Like because of their fur, their wet noses, their friendliness, ect. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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OK so there's thig guy I like. I've liked him for like3 or 4 years. Now he met this girl whos like completley gorgeous and they make out and stuff like all the time. I think he might like her. I think he knows I like him, but what do I do?

Talk to this guy and find out if he really likes you. If not, he's not worth drooling over. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Hi,this is CarterGirl, neways I just wanna know is this love. Me and my boyfriend Ken have known each other for like a year now. We started out as best friends, then it seemed like when we wanted to date it was wrong timing. Then we just was like what the heck let's jus do it. Then we started dating, I knew from the first day I met and talked to him It was going to be more than jus friends, well I think I love him (sorry so Long) I can't eat, sleep, Ish, without thinkin about him. He calls me like every hour of the day just to say he loves me, we talk late in the nights, he comes to see me, and always brings a lil token of his love. He is caring, lovin. In my town I am considered one of the Dimes and Descent. i kno he doesn't just like me for that, we have ups and downs, we have stuck out all the obvious, lies, the rumors, sometimes I compare us to my mom and dads relationship which is lovable. But I want to kno is it really love I mean I will do anything for him, He treats me not only like a gf, but a friend, lover, sister, cousin Please Help\

Yes it sounds like its love. If he calls you every day to proclaim his love for you then he means it. Hope I helped!

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16/f
i was wondering, what are some ways to help cheer up someone who suffers from depression? my friend suffers from it a lot and she gets down really easy. thanks in advance.

Let her know your there for her whenever she need a shoulder to cry on. Maybe make her feel good by spending a lot of time with her and smiling at her. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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ok.. i get my braces off soon (august) and i was wondering if anyone knows any good products to whiten your teeth??? i checked my dentist but the lazer treatment is 500$ and not including the stuff you have to keep putting on your teeth every so often.i just want something cheap and easy to start out with. Thanks!!!

Use Crest Whitning Strips. They really work and are about $10 at the drug store. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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I have an OBGYN appointment next Monday @ 3 o' clock and I was just wondering what all they do because my mom told me that at first they were just going to talk to me and I wouldn't have to have a pap smear but now that she knows about me losing my virginity to my boyfriend *that I am still with* she told me that now I would have to have a pap smear...is this true? Does it hurt? I just want to know everything about it before I go. I rate HIGH for good answers, please no foolish things like look it up unless you have a really good website. Thanks in advance!

They take a sample in your vagina of the white stuff in it. It doesn't hurt but it feels wierd. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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14/f. I've read on the internet the signs of having depression. I fit many of them. Though I do not ALWAYS feel depressed and hopeless, it comes often. Certain things in my life have caused me pain, and then there's other times where I just feel horribly down, yet I can't point it to any certain cause at all. I don't feel close enough to either of my parents or anybody..come to think of it that I could tell about me having this problem. Yet, I do think that me getting help is a good idea, because I've become very close to doing something drastic more than once. Is there reason to suspect that I really do have a depression problem, or is it just teenage hormones? Is there a way for me to get help?

The way you state your question, it may be hormones. Its normal to feel up and down for no reason. It may be schoolwork, family, boyfriend problems, ect. It depends on what you want to do. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Okay, im really like overwhelmed. Like 5 guys always iM me and are like would u fuck me? and, there really nice people but like to joke around with me, and they say there jus messin with me. but its hard bc all the guys are all really hott. but it gets really annoying bc now i dont know who to trust. ive been in relationships where ive been cheated on, and theres rumours going around about me having sex with diff people. one of my guy friends said he heard im "loose " an that it seems like i have sex alot which isnt the case at all. i jus feel like giving up on guys all together and jus...be lonely the rest of my life.....any advice on what to do?

Just ignore them. Don't lead them on by saying like, " Wanna have sex?" It just makes it worse. Wait for the rumors to die then explain to people. As for the IM's, some guys are on there just to find girls to fuck, particulary younger girls. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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On Xxrocker's column page, I posted a huge question about this girl who I was friends with, but had a crush on. I asked how to tell her that I like her. Well, now, I've told her, and she sent me a huge long email, where every other word was "sorry", and that she liked me as a friend, didn't want to break the friendship, I'm the coolest guy she's ever met, etc. etc. etc.

I tried to shrug it off, I e-mailed her saying that I really didn't care, I was just wondering, all that jazz. Only problem is, ever since I got one girlfriend, I've developed a need for them in my life. I'm really scrrewed up now, I keep thinking about her... I need her... or someone... only problem is, there's no one else! My only other girlfriend ever was online, and she's never on anymore! I'm kinda messed up now, even more than I had been when I thought she liked me.... Everyone was sure that she liked me and had been flirting with me all year, I shoulda accepted their bets.

Fellow advicenators, what should I do?

Wait it out and maybe she'll come to her senses. If you want a girlfriend, go and meet new people. Someday the right girl will come. Just a matter of time. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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