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Okay, im really like overwhelmed. Like 5 guys always iM me and are like would u fuck me? and, there really nice people but like to joke around with me, and they say there jus messin with me. but its hard bc all the guys are all really hott. but it gets really annoying bc now i dont know who to trust. ive been in relationships where ive been cheated on, and theres rumours going around about me having sex with diff people. one of my guy friends said he heard im "loose " an that it seems like i have sex alot which isnt the case at all. i jus feel like giving up on guys all together and jus...be lonely the rest of my life.....any advice on what to do?
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Well, when people IM you, tell them you won't fuck them, they need to go fuck off. And people are always going to spread rumors. You just need to state to a couple of people you know you can trust that you're not screwing around, and then tell them to spread that. Don't give up on guys, they're just assholes until 25.
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they sound like jerks
sexual harashment isnt good
i had like this one guy that keept imming me saying fuck me or suck my balls and im like wtf dont you have any respect?
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Just ignore them. Don't lead them on by saying like, " Wanna have sex?" It just makes it worse. Wait for the rumors to die then explain to people. As for the IM's, some guys are on there just to find girls to fuck, particulary younger girls. Good luck! Hope I helped!
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First of all if the guys are asking "wanna fuck?" it's unlikely they're looking for a relationship. Since one of your guy friend has told you about he rumor around town, it's likely these guys have heard it too and want in your pants.
Don't give up on guys. Not all guys are like that. Take your time before getting into another relationship and don't have sex. A guy that truly cares about you will not care about the sex. If he tries to change your mind, dump him. He's looking for sex, not a woman.
Enjoy being single for a while and take your time before entering into dating again. Just when you give up on love, that's usually when true love comes along.
Good luck. I wish you the best.
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Don't give up on boys overall, give up on boys who just want to get in you're pants. How will you know if they just want to get in you're pants? Test them. Have them over if you think they arent like that.. and if they try anything, tell them you're not like that and you want to take it slow, or that you're not like that. And if they get mad, send their ass's home. If they seem to be okay with it, have them over again. And if they come, theres a good chance they dont care bout getting with you. Make morals. Then if you're interested in a guy, you will know what you want and when you want it. Share these with him. It will make it more easy for you to say no, instead of being caught up in the moment. And as for these assholes that you call friends that keep saying.. "fuck me" do they know that it bothers you? If it does, and they continue to do it.. screw them.! (not literally)
--goodluck. let me know if i helped.
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First of all, block them.
Tell them that they're making you feel uncomfortable. If they're really nice they'd stop. And remember that if people are spreading rumours about you, if you just ignore them, people will eventually forget. Things will just kind of fade away and everything will be back to normal. That's what happens with all rumors. The reputation of the slut might stay with some people, but most don't really care. About giving up boys, you don't have to close them off yet. You can find someone outside of school, you know. And when you're in college it will be a fresh start and you'll find different guys. You won't be lonely for the rest of your life
sorry for the lecture ;) Hope I helped
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That sounds about normal actually. Society these days has a pesimistic view on relationships. That's why friends with benefits is the new thing. Makes sense right? With that stated, I would go take a nap. When life blows, sleep. If it's bugging you alot take a shower, then sleep. When you wake up things will seem alot better. You'll feel calmer as well. After that don't worry about it. The rumors will blow over. You didn't do anything, and when people sit around using use as their own mental puppet and making up loser stories so you'll dance, you know that you're the best. Also the fact that they have to go out of their way saying bad things about you, that's a pretty big compliment. I'd say wait it out. Once you find somebody that you have that trust factor and isn't in it for the sex, then go for it. As for the other guys that ask "Want to f***?" Laugh it off. That is pretty cool. I'd be their friend. If it's making you feel funky, tell them to lay off a bit. Whatever you do, don't try to be a wise guy. Like if they say "Want to f***?" and you respond with "Sorry, I only eff bananas. B-A-N-A-N-A-S!" Then they'll start rumors that you masturbate and that's not anybetter. Just so you know, this happened to a friend of mine once. Hope that helped, and made sense.
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Just save yourself for someone that will respect you and vice versa. And be sure about it too. Don't have any doubts. If you have doubts, don't get too close until you find out. Don't settle for anyone that's just hot. Look deeper. If you follow that rule, you'll save yourself some heartbreak and rumors. No, you don't have to be lonely for the rest of your life. It's your decision.
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become a nun.
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aww that really sucks! i hate it when guys do that. my advice: dont go with any of them no matter how hott they are, its not worth it! dont do anything with them either...do stuff with guys that can keep their mouths shut about it and dont say stuff like that. dont be lonely! <3
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Hehe, your reputation sucks.
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