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Want to but no one out there...


Question Posted Friday July 22 2005, 12:36 am

Okay I want a boyfriend and stuff and be able to makeout and stuff with him. But I have heard from some people that a couple guys havn't asked me out because they think I won't do anything with them. So my question is how do I let them know that I will and want to without acting like a slut. Thanks in advance!! And if your rude then I will rate you low or not at all!!

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LifesNoStoryBook answered Sunday July 24 2005, 2:26 am:
If the only reason a guy won't go out with you is because you won't make out, then they aren't worth your time. Find a guy who is willing until you're ready to kiss. But, try being a little more flirtatious, like touching them on the arm and giggling at all their crappy jokes that no one could possibly think was funny. :)
♥ Brooke

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Orlandoxluva answered Saturday July 23 2005, 9:54 am:
ok ignore what your friends say you'll find one i promise and when you do you can do whatever you want with them

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*sara* answered Friday July 22 2005, 10:29 pm:
i feel the same way!!! it sucks.. but anyways just give them THE LOOK you kno? you stare deep into there eyes then they talk to you and might ask you out sorry if this dosent work! it does for me!! lol.. i got that one from a guy of myspace haha

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mooch789 answered Friday July 22 2005, 4:05 pm:
Well try and convince them. If they don't listen, they are not worth your time and breath. You need to feel good about yourself without a guy hanging on you. Good luck! Hope I helped!

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Dr_Aggeklint answered Friday July 22 2005, 12:01 pm:
If that is the reason why the guys are not asking you out those guys is not worth it...
Do you fancy someone? If you do YOU should ask him out.
No one ever asked me out when I was in school and when I went to school discos I was never asked to dance so I started asking myself and it worked! Years after finishing school I met some guys from my class and they then admitted that they always liked me it was just the other girls talking bad about me and as I wasn't in "their group". I was also a bit of a "tom-boy" not very girly girly if you know what I mean.
If you want to specify what kind of girl you are maybe I can help you more!!
Good luck! x

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southsideboy answered Friday July 22 2005, 10:00 am:
Why don't you spread a rumor around that you lost your virginity to a guy a couple of months ago and say your ready to take another home but don't say it the way I said it because then you'll sound like a slut just make sure that your friends spread te word that's all.
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X_Amanda_X answered Friday July 22 2005, 9:55 am:
Don't say that you will do stuff just to impress a guy. That's not what a guy should look for in a girl. They should look at like how nice you are, not how much action they'll get.

X_Amanda_X

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rckgrl08 answered Friday July 22 2005, 8:26 am:
this is kinda a hard question to anwser, but if u flirt alot, but dont be like throwing yourself at the guy, but just like ask them to hang out with you and be sure to like touch there arm or somthing when you talk to them, it works very well.

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ncblondie answered Friday July 22 2005, 2:19 am:
I hope you don't consider this rude but I just want to save you some heartbreak. If a guy truly wants to be with you, having sex with him won't be a requirement. Most guys that make a requirement of sex for a relationship will usually move on once they've got it, leaving you wondering what happened. If you don't make sure to protect yourself, you're going to find yourself in the situation of being pregnant and seeing nothing but him running the other way.

I realize that you're in a rush to get a boyfriend and do things that come when you're older, but I would hold off on a boyfriend until you find one that will respect you.

No matter what your friends or these guys might say, sex does not mean love. Most of the time it's just about getting off for these people. The ones that find love and make love as a way of showing their love are the lucky ones.

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LoveNJstyle answered Friday July 22 2005, 1:35 am:
well go with someone that likes you for who you are...not for what you will or wont do with them. just dont be afraid to have some fun you know what i mean? dont be all "my mommy says i cant .." i know people like that. dont be too anxious..the right guy will come around. <3

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