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well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




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I have contacts and I want to get my naisl done but how will I be able to take out my contacts? Does anyone have there nails done and has contacts?

at first it will be difficult but when you get used to it will be really easy.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok, so i like this boy. he's a friend of mine, and i guess you can say that we know each other pretty well. we have fun when we're together, and that's what matters to me. i started liking him about a month ago, and ever since then, i felt like he likes me back, but i don't wanna assume that he does. i only told two of my closest friends that. one of them told me that she kinda thought that i do, and the other one asked if she can tell the person i like that i like him. at first i said no, because last year when i friend of mine liked him, and she told him, they never really spoke to each other. i don't want that to happen to us, because i really do think that friendship is better than a serious relationship. i don't want us to not have the friendship we have now to vanish just because of a crush. i wanna know SO BAD who he likes though. not for the sake of knowing if he likes me or not [[well, prob. partly because of that]], but mostly because i wanna know if he still likes my friend that he's been liking ever since last year. what do you think i should do? PLEASE HELP ME!

i love your idea on how a friendship is better than a realtionship. my advice since you guys are friends talk to him about. not serious though like mess around wit him and then ask. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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i am completely over my ex..but it still bugs me because my sister is a year younger than me..and he is a year older..and they still talk to each other. she definitely doesn't like him..and he doesn't like her either..but it gets me really pissed off. like she always tells me all the funnny stuff he does in their study. or tells me about how they joke around about being mean to each other. i feel like she tells me purposely to rub it in my face. my mom says not to worry about it because its his way of staying connected to me. he always said he was afraid of my sister when we were together. now, we barely ever talk. when we do, we can talk forever about random stuff, or we have absolutely nothing to talk about. we haven't really talked much in person..except when he tells me something about my sister. i just want him to either really be friends with me like he says he wants to be or just completely leave my life. i don't like him sort of being there.

so basically, do i just deal with it..or say something? and what would i say to who?

talk to him and tell him how you feel. just like you told us for either him being your friend or him stayin out of ur life.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok. 15/f
my boyfriend and i have been together for a year. but jwe broke up about 2 weeks ago. is there a way i can keep him as my friend but not cry myself to sleep.

aww hun i am soooo sorry. it must me really hard for you. my advice to you is to talk him maybe even work it out. call him up and tell him if he doenst want to go back together then you guys should at least by friends. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Okay this is probably going to be really confusing, but this guy i work with and i are dating (i really really like him), well he used to be hardcore into drugs and im pretty sure hes slept with a lot of girls... im not sure if all he wants from me is "to get some" or not. he said he quit smoking and all the rest of the drugs, but how can i tell if hes being honest with me, and how can i hint to him that id rather be a couple (goingout/bf/gf) thanks for your help!


(*he was going out with his last girlfriend for almost 2 years, until she cheated on him, if that means anything--he also hasnt been with anyother girls since they broke up apx 6months ago (or so he says)

there realy isnt a way unless you get him tested. but you need to be honest with you. and if i were i wouldnt go out with him. look at what he has done to his past.. do you really think he could have left all that behind. on top of that he still isnt over his ex. and you got no idea if he has any kind of diease now since you dont even know how many girls he has slept with..
*~Stephanie~*

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they say the proof of gods existance is within the bible, but the reason i should believe the bible is because god said it. in other words, i should believe god is real if he said these things. that is like believeing someone who says they are honest, because they told you so. what do you think

well think about it this way you have no way of sayin it isnt real either. just like when someoen says they are honest you cant just say no there not if yo dont have proof of it. and there is a diffence between what scinetest believe and what people of different religons believe.
*~stephanie~*

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im really sorry if this is long, but i dont want to have my first kiss just for pleasure from the guy..13/f.
this guy that is pretty new, but he has gone out with a few girls already in the beginning of school and he said that he just wants to find the "right" one.
he (we will call him "tyler")well tyler was talking to one of his friends about how hot he thinks i'am and his friend asked me out for him, but tyler dint want him to, he just thought i was hot and so i was really confused.
and i talked to him on AIM and he told me about the sitution and he said that he would want to get to know me, and we can go out later
then he ask me if we were going out we i "do stuff" and he said like kiss n stuff. so i told him if i really like the guy and he said "exactly" and he is know for just wanting a girl friend to make out with. I have never really had a conversation with him in person, only on the computer.
so my question is should i go out with him when he asks me and let him kiss me? because i am ready for my first kiss, but i wanted a outlooker's view of the situation that maybe he is just a player. so thanks, i will rate 5's for good advice.

girl please. this guy is tellin you he a player. let your first kiss be from a guy you like that likes you back for who you are not what you look like. honestly when he gets older he goin to go out with a "hot" girl just for sex. i mean come on you dont need a guy like that. brush your shoulders off and find yourself a man not a playa.
*~Stephanie~*

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Okay I asked the question earlier about my blood on my pad ( from my period ) was brown. Well now I checked again and it's so dark its black. Is this STILL normal or do I need to talk to my mom about this ?

Honestly is isnt normal.. naah i am just messing wit you. it PERFECTLY normal nothing to worry about your still cool.. dark colors are ok and if it brown that just means the blood dryed up.
*~Stephanie~*

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what does the spanish word mierda mean in english?

crap or shit.
*~Stephanie~*

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is it natural to have random phases of depressioin. not serious depression, just feel down for a while, and then just get better for no reason.

yes it is ok. i do the same thing.
*~Stephanie*~

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i just had the worst break up ever my boyfriend of 1 month broke up with me today and i found out that he cheated on em. the worst part was he didnt have enough guts to tell me so he ha one of his friends do it. and i thought i loved him what should i do???

get over that jerk you dont need it. if actually cared he wouldnt have done that you. you deserve better than that dont let a guy like that put you down.
*~Stephanie~*

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OMG today someone stole my phone at school i am so pissed off. aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!!what should i do???

first call ur cell phone people and tell then to turn it off so who ever has the phone cant maek you pay for it. second you should go to the school and reprot and and see if anyone will turn it in. hope everything works out for you.
*~Stephanie~*

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Hi my parents found out I look at porn and they said they knew it was normal and stuff. Does this mean I should stop watching it?

if it is normal then it is ok. if it wasnt normal then you shouldntbe looking at it.
*~Stephanie~*

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i weigh 200 pounds...and i'm 15 and a girl is that fat? ((this is serious))
please help♥

i dont want advice on how to lose the wieght, cause i didnt ask for that advice.i just want to know if that is seriously overweight.

it depends on how tall you but. i am 14 and i way 160 so idk.. that is kinda of difficult.
*~stephanie~*

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ever since a party this girl has been droppin hints she likes me. or i think she is droppin hints. how do i know? i'm interested of course

flirt with her and see how she reacts.that is all i can say. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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What should i do i went to my best friends house last weekend and we were all having a good time and i go there every weekend...and she has a brother who is almost 18 and hes cute and well i have hooked up with him befor like 3 knowing it was a one night stand but this time it went to far and we had sex....and i have never had sex with him befor just made out.....and i thought maybe he would like me but no....right as we were doing it like right in the middle he says " don't know anybody about this" who does he think he is really? I mean it hurt my feeling and let along i didnt' enjoy my self from then on out if you know what i'm saying.... and i don't know what i should do...his sister knows cuz i tell her everything...ooo and another thing i get used by everyguy i have ever been with and i have never had a boyfriend but i have been with guys kinda alot and i guess the reason i do it is because i just want somebody to love me for me you know? but they always ask me for sexual favors and i am just tired of it and tired of being treated like a bootie call everytime they want something....but i just can't say know and i don't want to sound like a whore but what should i do....

hun i am soo sorry.. the first and most important think you should do is gain respect for yourself. rule number 1) NEVER LET A GUY TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU.. dont let the guy get the best of you if he doesnt do the same thing back. rule number 2) DONT HAVE SEX WITH A GUY UNLESS YOUR GOING OUT WITH HIM AND YOU AHVE STRONG FEELING FOR HIM.. if you go wit rule number one it should break rule number 2. next thing rule number 3) SAY GOODBYE TO ALL THEM ASSHOLES WHO THINK THEY ARE SPECAIL BC THEY ARE CUTE. ha i learned the hard way looks are deciving espcailly wit a guy that sexy and had a big ass. rule number 4) FIND YOUR SELF A REAL MAN THAT WILL LOVE YOU FOR YOU. dont play around with asshole who use you. well idk know what else to tell you but if you need anything else drop it in my inbox. o and u noe how you asked what that guy was..
well he is a pussy ass bitch mother fucker who is the bigest asshole i have ever heard about..lol. sorry about that..
*~Stephanie~*

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why do people like to follow fashion trends?

ha this is so my best friend she wants everything that is new and out there. i ersonally think it is because she doesnt want people thinking she is werid or strange wit the way she dress.. i personaly dont follow most fashion trends i mean if everyoen did then we all might as well wear uniforms. but that is what i think.
*~Stephanie~*

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This a strange sort of etiquette question that has been bothering me from a while now…

I have a close friend and we live in a large metropolitan city. Whenever we are walking on the street she will do absolutely anything to walk as far away as possible from a homeless person. This really grates my nerves.

If we are walking side by side she will move all the way over to the curb, even if it means crossing in front of me in order to be 6 or 7 feet away from the homeless person (and a few feet any from me as well, since I continue to walk in a straight line). She will move back to me after they are a few feet behind us. I find this unbearably rude and downright heart breaking. She often tries to convince me too cross the street if she can see a person down the road on our side.

Now if they were yelling and screaming I would understand, but these are unfortunate souls who are simply huddled against buildings for warmth.

This is really upsetting me but some of my friends say it is just her irrational fear and I should respect it. But it makes me not want to go out with her, as we live in the core and pretty much walk everywhere. Am I wrong to be upset and/or how can I make her stop this?

to be onest wioth you my teacher was talkin to us about this today.. and if i were you i wouldnt really pay attention to your friend or the homeless guy. personally when i am walkin alone i try doing the same thing. yea i know i should feel sorry for them because they dont have a home but think about it in america education is free if they wanted to amke soemthing for themself they could have finished highschool and got some kind of schoolaship and gone to college except they decided to mess up there life for what so ever reason.. yea i noe this is off the subject ur askin about but i just had to let it out. what i would do is talk to your friend about it. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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Ok. I'm going to this party tongith and the guy I like is gonna be there. My friend likes him to...we are definetly gonna play spin the bottle.

What the heck should I do!!!!!!

ha wonderful plan for you. you go to the party and you guys can play spin the bottle and even 7 minutes in heaven and you can flirt as much as you want and when you guys are doing your thing you can be all over him with nobody except for him knowing. ;] good luck and have fun.
*~Stephanie~*

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Do you believe in God or not? Explain why. Don't say because that's the way you were raised, I'm talking about how you feel now.

Do you really believe that God is real just because a book was written saying there was one? Couldn't it be a fable?

Do you support evolution and the Big Bang Theory or not? Please explain as much as you can. I will give you all 5's!

i believe in God. to me it feel great to know there is someone up there looking down at me and helpin me out in this messed up world that involves so much evil..No i believe that God is real because he created man and because that is what i taught from going to ible studies and to church. and your last question is HELL NO.. i dont believe it becauase it make no sense to me and when it comes down to ur religon it is what you believe and how you feel about not what you read or hear about it.
*~Stephanie~*

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