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jealous
i am completely over my ex..but it still bugs me because my sister is a year younger than me..and he is a year older..and they still talk to each other. she definitely doesn't like him..and he doesn't like her either..but it gets me really pissed off. like she always tells me all the funnny stuff he does in their study. or tells me about how they joke around about being mean to each other. i feel like she tells me purposely to rub it in my face. my mom says not to worry about it because its his way of staying connected to me. he always said he was afraid of my sister when we were together. now, we barely ever talk. when we do, we can talk forever about random stuff, or we have absolutely nothing to talk about. we haven't really talked much in person..except when he tells me something about my sister. i just want him to either really be friends with me like he says he wants to be or just completely leave my life. i don't like him sort of being there.
so basically, do i just deal with it..or say something? and what would i say to who?
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THe thing is there is not one right way to Handle this. You see when you guys were dating his time was with you. HE has to know your sister because you are related to her. She is his one way to know things about you because you might have told him things you used to tell him while you were dating. Don't get mad at either one for becoming friends. They aren't trying to hurt you they are just trying to get along. Don't hold you feelings inside of you. If you wanna hnag out then ask him to hang out and set up a date and time but ask your boyfriend if thats ok with him because you don't want him to get the wrong impression. Just do what you think would be the most beneficial for yourself and just go for it.
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talk to him and tell him how you feel. just like you told us for either him being your friend or him stayin out of ur life.
*~Stephanie~*
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Just be friends with him. Chances are your sister and him are still going to talk to each other. You can try talking to your sister saying not to bring him up and just ignore him when he talks to you. Or, you can just start talking to him again and be friends so then everyone is happy.
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