Hey! My name is Kara and I like to give advice to people because I catch myself doing it a lot. I'm a cheerleader at my high school so I am very social and talkative. I also swim. I love watching football and playing it if its two hand touch or something other than tackle. I think that the topics I am really good at answering Questions on are family, friends and relationships. I hope I can help you with your questions and all you need to do is ask...
E-mail: the_baby_007@comcast.net
Gender: Female
Location: United States
Age: 15
AIM: TYRchica
Member Since: January 23, 2006
Answers: 3
Last Update: February 1, 2006
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There is this guy(16)in my "off season" athletics class, and I've always thought that he was cute but we didn't start talking to this year, and lately we have been having free period and me and him were walking through our training gym and he was like; I like you and kissed me, then the next day i was looking through his wallet and saw a picture of my friend and was like woah you know her and he was like yeah shes my girlfriend you know her? and i was like yeah she is one of my friends and he looked a little embarrassed. Today he kept flirting with me and i was like no were not talking you have a girlfriend and he was like i know but i really like you. What do I do i really like him but me and his girlfriend are friend well more aquaintences but we still talk. Should I wait for him or just blow him off cuz if he did this to her then he'll probably do it to me right? sorry so long i'll rate good
Alix
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Don't do anything with him. I'm not saying dont be friends because you can be dont dont go past the boundaries of that. I just finished reading a book called Dateable and one of the chapters was called if he will do it for you he will do it to you and its just that, if he will cheat for he he will cheat on you, or if he dumps a gf for you he will dump you for someone else....just think of everything that fits into that sentence and then you'll know the right choice to make. And about this friend of yours. You should deffinitly tell her so she can get herself out of a relationship where the guys focus isn't only on her...no girl should be with someone like that. mine was long too...sry
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ok im a 15/f and i lik this guy whos one of my guy friends from swimteam, we always hangout during school and sometimes after and i always see him looking at me, as if he likes me. He's always putting his arm arround me and kicking my butt and stuff but i dont know if that means he likes me too or if that is jus the way guys always act. pleaz help im soo confused as to tell if he likes me or not!!! Guys pleaz answer too! (link)
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Almost every guy that has ever liked me has done that in some way or another. Your best bet would be to hang around him like you are and talk to him like you normally do but flirt with him more to drop hints towards him. Maybe ask him to go to a movie with YOU!!! he could figure out thats something is up and he might tell you if he likes you. If more than a month goes by you should tell him about your feelings and tell him what hints he's been telling you to see if he doe like you or if he's messing you to try to get some.
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i am completely over my ex..but it still bugs me because my sister is a year younger than me..and he is a year older..and they still talk to each other. she definitely doesn't like him..and he doesn't like her either..but it gets me really pissed off. like she always tells me all the funnny stuff he does in their study. or tells me about how they joke around about being mean to each other. i feel like she tells me purposely to rub it in my face. my mom says not to worry about it because its his way of staying connected to me. he always said he was afraid of my sister when we were together. now, we barely ever talk. when we do, we can talk forever about random stuff, or we have absolutely nothing to talk about. we haven't really talked much in person..except when he tells me something about my sister. i just want him to either really be friends with me like he says he wants to be or just completely leave my life. i don't like him sort of being there.
so basically, do i just deal with it..or say something? and what would i say to who? (link)
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THe thing is there is not one right way to Handle this. You see when you guys were dating his time was with you. HE has to know your sister because you are related to her. She is his one way to know things about you because you might have told him things you used to tell him while you were dating. Don't get mad at either one for becoming friends. They aren't trying to hurt you they are just trying to get along. Don't hold you feelings inside of you. If you wanna hnag out then ask him to hang out and set up a date and time but ask your boyfriend if thats ok with him because you don't want him to get the wrong impression. Just do what you think would be the most beneficial for yourself and just go for it.
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