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Gym Class Hottie
There is this guy(16)in my "off season" athletics class, and I've always thought that he was cute but we didn't start talking to this year, and lately we have been having free period and me and him were walking through our training gym and he was like; I like you and kissed me, then the next day i was looking through his wallet and saw a picture of my friend and was like woah you know her and he was like yeah shes my girlfriend you know her? and i was like yeah she is one of my friends and he looked a little embarrassed. Today he kept flirting with me and i was like no were not talking you have a girlfriend and he was like i know but i really like you. What do I do i really like him but me and his girlfriend are friend well more aquaintences but we still talk. Should I wait for him or just blow him off cuz if he did this to her then he'll probably do it to me right? sorry so long i'll rate good
Alix
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Don't do anything with him. I'm not saying dont be friends because you can be dont dont go past the boundaries of that. I just finished reading a book called Dateable and one of the chapters was called if he will do it for you he will do it to you and its just that, if he will cheat for he he will cheat on you, or if he dumps a gf for you he will dump you for someone else....just think of everything that fits into that sentence and then you'll know the right choice to make. And about this friend of yours. You should deffinitly tell her so she can get herself out of a relationship where the guys focus isn't only on her...no girl should be with someone like that. mine was long too...sry
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Tell him he has to make a decision. If he likes you than he needs to break up with the other girl. He can't have more than one girl. At this point he is really using you. Give him some time to make up his mind and if he can't then he's not for you. He has to want to be with you, not flirt and kiss and have another girlfriend. Just tell him how it is. I think that he may actualy choose you to be honest. Good luck!
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I applaud you for having enough sense to know if he did it to her then he will do it to you also. I don't think you should wait for him. Move on, he has a girlfriend. If he liked you so much he would have broken up with his girlfriend by now. You are worth more than to just be waiting around for his cheating behind. With time I hope you find somebody who is worthy of you and only you.
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You sure don't want to be giving him kisses until he is no longer dating the other girl.
If he truly likes you, and you tell him this, he will break up with the other girl before putting the moves on you. If he does this then he is probably trustworthy enough to give a chance to. :)
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