ok, so i like this boy. he's a friend of mine, and i guess you can say that we know each other pretty well. we have fun when we're together, and that's what matters to me. i started liking him about a month ago, and ever since then, i felt like he likes me back, but i don't wanna assume that he does. i only told two of my closest friends that. one of them told me that she kinda thought that i do, and the other one asked if she can tell the person i like that i like him. at first i said no, because last year when i friend of mine liked him, and she told him, they never really spoke to each other. i don't want that to happen to us, because i really do think that friendship is better than a serious relationship. i don't want us to not have the friendship we have now to vanish just because of a crush. i wanna know SO BAD who he likes though. not for the sake of knowing if he likes me or not [[well, prob. partly because of that]], but mostly because i wanna know if he still likes my friend that he's been liking ever since last year. what do you think i should do? PLEASE HELP ME!
Additional info, added Sunday December 11 2005, 2:35 pm: a few minutes a ago, a friend of mine, let's call him john [[not his real name]], that's a pretty good friend of my crush just told me that my crush DOES like me and that he wanted to ask me to dance with him at the dance we had at school friday night, but he was scared that i would say no to him. then john asked if i would wanna go out with my crush, because john was sure that my crush would wanna ask me out. i said i don't know, but if he does ask me out, i would probably say yes to him. i wanted to tell john to tell my crush to ask me out, because i feel bad because it seems like this thing is bothering him so much. hope this helps a little. if you already gave advice to me before i posted this, thank you very much!. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? kelly_clarkson answered Sunday December 11 2005, 2:29 pm: i think you should ask him say because your friend wants to know or just talk and then tell your friend to ask if he like you if he says no it for a reason god has your life planned let it be the way he wants it [ kelly_clarkson's advice column | Ask kelly_clarkson A Question ]
SoInToYoUx0x answered Sunday December 11 2005, 2:27 pm: i love your idea on how a friendship is better than a realtionship. my advice since you guys are friends talk to him about. not serious though like mess around wit him and then ask. hope this helps.
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broken_heartsx3 answered Sunday December 11 2005, 2:20 pm: well, if you really dont want him to no then maybe you should try ask him who he likes like idk secretly. what i would do is i would ask my closest friend to say something like "do you like [your name] because i think you guys would make like an awesome couple" something like that because if you really like him you cant just let this slip away. you have a good chance of him liking you so take a chance and if it turns out he doesnt like you back, you guys will still be friends because like you said, you guys known each other for a long time.
iris answered Sunday December 11 2005, 2:15 pm: I think that you should talk to him about this situation to see what will happen with you and your friend maybe instead of a friend relationship it may go farther than that. has he taken a step up from your friendship like admitting that he likes you or youlike him well i hope i helped out with your situation. bye
xxoBriannax answered Sunday December 11 2005, 2:06 pm: Take a chance. Find out if he does like you. You may regret it in the future because maybe he really does like you. I am sure you two will still be friends if he doesn't like you more than a friend, but I am sure he feels the same way about you as you do about him. [ xxoBriannax's advice column | Ask xxoBriannax A Question ]
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