What should i do i went to my best friends house last weekend and we were all having a good time and i go there every weekend...and she has a brother who is almost 18 and hes cute and well i have hooked up with him befor like 3 knowing it was a one night stand but this time it went to far and we had sex....and i have never had sex with him befor just made out.....and i thought maybe he would like me but no....right as we were doing it like right in the middle he says " don't know anybody about this" who does he think he is really? I mean it hurt my feeling and let along i didnt' enjoy my self from then on out if you know what i'm saying.... and i don't know what i should do...his sister knows cuz i tell her everything...ooo and another thing i get used by everyguy i have ever been with and i have never had a boyfriend but i have been with guys kinda alot and i guess the reason i do it is because i just want somebody to love me for me you know? but they always ask me for sexual favors and i am just tired of it and tired of being treated like a bootie call everytime they want something....but i just can't say know and i don't want to sound like a whore but what should i do....
SoInToYoUx0x answered Friday December 9 2005, 7:44 pm: hun i am soo sorry.. the first and most important think you should do is gain respect for yourself. rule number 1) NEVER LET A GUY TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU.. dont let the guy get the best of you if he doesnt do the same thing back. rule number 2) DONT HAVE SEX WITH A GUY UNLESS YOUR GOING OUT WITH HIM AND YOU AHVE STRONG FEELING FOR HIM.. if you go wit rule number one it should break rule number 2. next thing rule number 3) SAY GOODBYE TO ALL THEM ASSHOLES WHO THINK THEY ARE SPECAIL BC THEY ARE CUTE. ha i learned the hard way looks are deciving espcailly wit a guy that sexy and had a big ass. rule number 4) FIND YOUR SELF A REAL MAN THAT WILL LOVE YOU FOR YOU. dont play around with asshole who use you. well idk know what else to tell you but if you need anything else drop it in my inbox. o and u noe how you asked what that guy was..
well he is a pussy ass bitch mother fucker who is the bigest asshole i have ever heard about..lol. sorry about that..
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xxoBriannax answered Friday December 9 2005, 6:58 pm: You need to get more respect for yourself. You LET guys use you. Don't do anything with anyone until you are in a committed relationship. Know that the guy really cares for you. You won't get hurt if you just stop fooling around with guys. [ xxoBriannax's advice column | Ask xxoBriannax A Question ]
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