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boy troubles
Okay this is probably going to be really confusing, but this guy i work with and i are dating (i really really like him), well he used to be hardcore into drugs and im pretty sure hes slept with a lot of girls... im not sure if all he wants from me is "to get some" or not. he said he quit smoking and all the rest of the drugs, but how can i tell if hes being honest with me, and how can i hint to him that id rather be a couple (goingout/bf/gf) thanks for your help!
(*he was going out with his last girlfriend for almost 2 years, until she cheated on him, if that means anything--he also hasnt been with anyother girls since they broke up apx 6months ago (or so he says)
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talk to him and be honest. all you can do is ask him to be honest.
hope i helped
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Boys have tricky minds, so its hard to tell if he just wants you as a peice of butt or not.
But it seems to me that he wants to turn over a new leaf with u.
if my advice doesnt work, badmouth me all You want. You know i'll laugh at it.
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I am not sure...I think that you should be sure before doing something with him. On the one side his past and on the other side you who know that everyone deserves a second chance.Do you like him so much to take the risk? Do you think that he deserves your stress?
If i were you i would ask him:"How can i know that you will not behave to me like to all others?"Go and talk to him. Talk honestly and tell exactly what you feel.
If finally you will end up with him, don't have sex with him or something like that because as you said he has been with a lot of girls and you can't know if he is healthy.
And if he will tell you that he continues it with drugs and tells you to be handcore in to drugs break up!Then you will understand if he is really a jerk or not.
Now, to be sure that he tells the truth, see how he behaves. If he is dizzy, or has a weird sight or continues to go out with the same "friends", that means that he is not telling the truth. If do not even think to be with him. The guy is apart from all others a lier too!
I hope i helped you honey...Kisses and good luck!
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there realy isnt a way unless you get him tested. but you need to be honest with you. and if i were i wouldnt go out with him. look at what he has done to his past.. do you really think he could have left all that behind. on top of that he still isnt over his ex. and you got no idea if he has any kind of diease now since you dont even know how many girls he has slept with..
*~Stephanie~*
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