Question Posted Saturday December 10 2005, 10:49 pm
How do you overcome jealousy?
The guy i like (along with previous guys) look at pictures of girls and comment on how good/hott they look and it makes me extremly jealous and i always end up creating drama... how can i get over this??? PLEASE HELP!!
CANDii_x_KiiSSEZ answered Sunday December 11 2005, 8:06 pm: Wow, that is EXACTLY what happens to me what i do is remember, theres a small chance that he will actually get them. And if you want to turn the tables do what he does (except with guys pictures) usually guys get annoyed with that as much as we do
Aikens__Angelxo answered Sunday December 11 2005, 3:09 pm: it happens to me too i mean yeahh it just does...i try not to let it bother me because you know u cant really say they're yours or anything but boys, are just something else sometimes i think they'll comment anyone that looks somewhat decent [ Aikens__Angelxo's advice column | Ask Aikens__Angelxo A Question ]
Teza answered Sunday December 11 2005, 12:16 am: Being jelous is a normal thing, however creating drama isn't. You really can't do anything about those guys thinking that. All you can do is ignore it. You know you also look good, but just because they say "You're hot" doesn't really mean anything. That means they are just looking at their bodies. Just try to overcome it. Don't care so much because there are probablly plenty of guys who also think you're hot. When you feel like you're going to start drama, just get over it. It's very unnecessary. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
EvilCheshire answered Sunday December 11 2005, 12:15 am: When you find out let me know. Haha. Im also a very jealous person. This is what I've been told.
Just have a big ego. Tell yourself that you look better than them, and that you don't need to be threatened by their looks and how hot a guy thinks that they are. You're better. [ EvilCheshire's advice column | Ask EvilCheshire A Question ]
helpachick answered Saturday December 10 2005, 11:23 pm: hey! well you probably aren't that bad looking or anything, but they are guys and they like girls. but when they do this in front of you just think of things you like about yourself...and looks are kinda a bonus anyways, its your personality that is the best part!
xoxo helpachick [ helpachick's advice column | Ask helpachick A Question ]
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