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Ok for years there's been dots on my arms and they aren't freckles.
It's only on my arm above my elbow and it's goose bumps but it will never go away and I'm always hot so it can't be that I'm cold.
Is it really bad? How do i get rid of it? Will I die? (link)
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oh my god, i totally have those too! they are only on my right arm though, and i've never known what they were. but i have gone to the doctor before about them, and she said that they are totally natural. no, it's not really bad. i don't think you CAN get rid of them, but if they really bother you, you could get a prescription cream from a doctor / dermatologist. no... you won't die.
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thankss :]
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13/f. I shave down there but should i shave the whole "triangle" or not? (link)
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whatever you feel comfortable with. if you're not sexually active and no one really sees your vajj. then i would suggest keeping the triangle only because you could get a UTI. you should keep SOME pubic hair. it's nice and neat (without the triangle) when you have your period, too. if you feel naked & bare without the triangle, leave it! if you have your period / your boyfriend sees your vaj. a lot, then shave it! but whatever floats your boat, babee.
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My friend is going through a tough time for hie relationship. He was telling me how difficult the situation is the other day, and all the sudden, he said, "on the top of that, something else happened to me..........." but he doen't want to tell me what the "something" is, and asked me not to ask him either......
Now, all I can think about is what the "something" is!! What should I do? he asked me not to ask him, but why he told me "something" happened to him, but don't want me to ask?? (link)
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be all "why tell me if you dont want me to ask" the thing is, he DOES want you to ask, and just wants a lill attention. afta that, i say you slap the guy for being an attention seeker:)
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Ok.. where to start. This could relate to a lot of categories so please just bare with me.
I'm in a bit of a situation. I'm 19 years old, female. I have a boyfriend of two years. He's nearly 21 and I live with my grandparents.
First of all my grandmother is extremely strict on me. Curfews and things like that stopped when I turned 18 last year. Curfews aren't the problem though.
I have been with my boyfriend for two years as I said and she wont let me sleep with him. I have been sleeping with him for the last 12 months. He was my first and is the only guy I have ever been with sexually. I did everything right. I am on the pill and we always use protection.
Recently I had enough of her ways and told her how I felt and told her that I have been sleeping with my boyfriend. She completly hit the roof and went off at me and called me a slut.
I honestly don't think I deserved to be spoken to like that. I have spoken to my Aunty a number of times about this so she knows of everything that had been going on between my boyfriend and myself.
I have tried to speak to my grandmother about this and the last time ended up in tears like every other time. She even told me to pack my f*cking bags and leave if I wasn't happy.
The problem is that I don't do anything wrong and she still seems to think I need all these strict rules. I don't. Just because I can think and do things for myself doesn't mean I don't need her anymore. I told her this.
I asked her what do I do that is so wrong.. She couldn't give me an answer. She's only hurting herself because she is pushing me away.
I did well in school, I use to work for a lawyer now I work for a doctor. I don't drink alcohol except for christmas and things like that. I don't go to the pubs every weekend like most 19 year old girls do.
My boyfriend and I love each other very much and just want to be together. We shouldn't have anyone stand in the way of that. We have in the last few months decided that we want to live together and start our life together. We are good people so why does this happen?
What is she protecting me from?!? She tells me that she loves my boyfriend and he is a lovely person. I can't win. I am on the verge of just moving out. I don't know how to deal with the stress anymore. It hurts.
Am I just being selfish or is she just too over protective? I don't want to feel miserbale anymore!
Thank you for taking the time to read this. (link)
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she's being a hypocrite. when did she give birth to one of your parents? prolly when she was in her late teens to twenties. so she was having sex when she was your age. she now thinks she knows better than you since she's "been there" well experience means a lot in life don't get me wrong here. experience means a hell of a lot in life. it means you've been there, you've done it, you've seen it, and are wiser from it. and wisdom is something irreplacable and to be valued highly. but on that same note she is contstruing her wisdom for morales. and let's face it. if she was having kids or even just alive at the ages of 17-22 she was thinking about sex, and having sex. you know why? because everyone in that age bracket since the dawn of mankind has been in that same hyper hormonal state as everyone else. and whether she is from the worl war II generation, or the baby boomers, or the depression era, the fact is no matter where she was in the 20th century she was prolly wanting to do it.
which leads to today. she now thinks that because she was there she can make you be something she wasn't, and make it out to look bad and wrong even though she was the one doing it. she was the one having sex at that age, and now it's wrong for people to do it at that age. i'm sorry but the bible even tells us "may he who is sinless cast the first stone" and in her trying to keep you down, she's blaspheming and being a hypocrite. i think maybe you might have to move out, which isn't too hard if both you and your boyfriend work full time. but either way it beats getting yelled at by someone who prolly did the same stuff you're doing now.
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Well, I asked this question.
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=493854
But now the situation has changed a tiny bit. Well, on the 27th he called twice, and I missed them. So I called back, and we talked for about 5 minutes, but he had to go, so he said he'd call later and we could talk some more. He never called, and he didn't call on the 28th at all either. Today, I was with my friend, and SHE called him to hang out. Does anyone think he's stopping trying to be a better friend now? Or was he just busy or what? (link)
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Sounds like the two of them are getting close. Just keep trying to hangout with him.
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the only reason they arent allowing me to see him is because i lost my virginity to him when i was drunk and the only reason he is doing these drugs is because his friend rob is getting him to do them and im realli scared of losing him and my parents do know him and my step mom is just pver protective and ik he wont try to get me to do those drugs but its hard letting go becuz i seriously felt safe when i was with him and he was the only one who actually cared and its hard getting over him after likin him for 2 years straight and it may sound weird but ever since the 1st day i started hangin out with him i liked him because he was making sure i wasnt scared because some one was folling us around town and it was some one he had troubles with back then and he got a base ball bat and made sure ik he was there to protect me (link)
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is this a continuation of the previous question? i think it is.
i totally understand how you feel - you felt loved & cared for, right? well, if your parents won't let you see him, it's going to be really hard to carry on a relationship. don't lie to your parents and sneek out. what they are doing, or think they are doing, is just that they are protecting you from bad things like the drugs that he is doing. you should still try to stop him from doing drugs cause it IS destructive to his health.
honestly, there's not much more i can say. unless you convince your parents that you still want to be with him and to LET you be with him [& you'll never do such a stupid thing like that again] there's not much more i can do.
you can always move on. i'm not saying it will be easy, but if it just didn't work out with this guy, there are MILLIONS of other fish in the sea. just keep your chin up & mind open.
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Anyone know any personification on Romeo and Juliet.
i dont seem to get it.
I found a few.
help is appricatred! (link)
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just read this with school...
pretty much anytime they mention death it's personified...i think flowers are too in Friar Lawrence's speech...
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i don't know if you got that or not but i don't know any of the works. It's the one in shrek 3 where snow white is singing if that helps. (link)
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immigrant song
led zeppelin
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I cut. I need help. I want to go to guidance at school.
What happens once I go and tell them?
Other than call my mom. (link)
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Well first off why would you start such a stupid thing? Honestly. You should've known you're going to end up having to do this.
They'll probably guilt trip you. They'll try to make you seem worse then you really are and your excuse will be that you're depressed, which is everybodies excuse even though 90% of them aren't. Anyways, yeah. Good luck.
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is true love possible at 16 if he's told me or is he just trying to get me to do stuff? (link)
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I've always been one to try and make people realise they aren't in love. Personally, I think you're too young. Imagine six years from now you're married to another man, some absolutely amazing man who IS your true love. Will you laugh when you remember THIS guy said he was your true love?
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What does "Love Heralds should be thoughts" Mean
form romeo and juliet
act 2 scene 5 line 4 (link)
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She wishes she could just think him there. As though the nurse wouldn't be able to meet him and she just wanted to talk to him and wish him to be with her righ on the spot.
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does anyone have one of those chi straightners because my birthday is coming up and i want to ask for one. is it worth it? does it work really good?
which one do you have ?
o yeah and my hair is wavy not curly buy not straight lol somewhere in the middle and its semi thick (link)
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i have a chi straightener and it is THE BEST! i have a 2" flat iron and it is amazingg!
it's around like $100-$120 depending on where you buy it. i have the same hair as you! i'm indian so my hair is PRETTY thick, but pretty straight too. when i get out of the shower, it's one great big wave.
BUY ONE! it's the best straightener out there and worth EVERY penny.
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OK well im 13 and i still like me ex Boifriend. and i have liked him for 2 years and last november he asked me out and then in january we broke up and when me and him were goin out i was soo happy like the happiest i have ever been and now im all depressed because i lost him and now hes into serious drugs and im worried about him and i dont wanna lose him but he told my sis he still had feelings for me but my parents dont want me talking to him and hes not allowed near me again and i dont wanna give up on him but i dont know what i should do cuz everytime i think about giving up i think about what would happen if it turned out he asked me out.. and hes the only guy i have felt like this for and im scared to love other guys because its hard im stuck on him and i have been for 2 years... pleas help me (link)
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sweetie, i totally understand. have you tried talking to him about his addiction? maybe if you tell him that it's so bad for him, he'll stop. you have to get him to stop to be with him.
are you sure you really want to be with him still? maybe you'll meet better guys. you're only 13 so you have lots of time to figure out guys and find ones that really deserve you & don't do bad things like drugs. but i understand that you really like this guy, so you may not even consider that.
you can try convincing your parents that he is really a great guy and you won't do drugs when you are near him. however, if i were one of your parents, i still wouldn't allow it. you have to introduce him to your parents. maybe invite him for dinner and show them what a great guy he is. as long as he's not rude or immature during the dinner. talk to him about it.
do what's best for you. i know you like him, but if he gets you hooked on drugs, what happens then?
your parents are only doing what's best for you. if you like him so much, you should be careful about drugs. you never know how he could influence you. be really careful, babe.
good luck.
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Bahh. I need a job.
Problem is, I'm only 15 @_@
and I can't for the life of me think of a job I can do...
I have anxiety problems when it comes to people, *especially* kids...so babysitting is out of the question. Pet sitting is too, we already have way too many animals in our house as it is.
Ehh...if I could get a regular like...fast food job I think I could get over my anxiety/phobia to do it..but yeah. I'm only 15.
My mom wants me to get a part time job to raise money for a trip to NY that I'm going on, something I've been planning for a long time and shes JUST NOW requiring me to get a job.
Any suggestions? Dx (link)
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You could mow lawns? Clean pools? Paint fences? Just offer your services. Hell! You could even offer to help people with grocery runs or running to the store for them. Cleaning rooms or something, too! :)
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There this guy I've know for a couple of year. We recently switched from our old school for a more advanced program at another school(He was the only other person I knew who transfered and vice versa)We're pretty close friends, so a lot of people were under the impression we were going out, and by a lot, I mean practically everyone we know.
Question 1: What's a good way to answer when people say stuff like "How long have you guys been going out for?" or "You guys make such a cute couple!"... It's incredibly ackward to respond to those o_O Especially since he has somewhat of a fanclub within the female population.
I don't blame them for getting the wrong impression though. For example today at lunch, he was practically sprawled over me while reading a book, and I was reading over his shoulder. And he has nicknames for me that he uses constantly. And many other reasons... The thing is I actually like this guy, and have for quite some time. But he keeps on sending me mixed messages about whether he likes me or not. He switches from staring into my eyes for no particular reason to avoiding me.
Question 2: Any ways of finding out if he likes me in that way, without being too blatantly obvious of course because I AM friends with this guy.
Good grief, this is a rather long question. Thanks in advance :D
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Ever heard of the song "Lets Give Them Something To Talk About"..? If you haven't, you should. Maybe you guys give off a vibe. Secret liking, you know? :) Just ask straight out if he does.
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i get really bad cramps when im on my period and i can't swallow pills. How do i ease the pain without using pills? (link)
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try taking a long bath, or masturbating. or a heating pad like the girl underneath me stated. both of those things reduce cramps :]
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hey i was wondering if guys prefered a girl who shaves down there when fingering instead of a girl who does not shave (link)
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guys prefer clean shaven, or at least trimmed up girls. it's less messy & it's cleaner and neater.
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is there any way to make your eyelashes stay curled throughout the day?
i curl them in the morning and then apply curl mascara and they straightenen out in a matter of minutes! is there anything i can do to keep them curled throughout the day? (link)
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that used to happen to me before i realized that i should hold my curling iron for a longer time. i do it for 60 seconds per eye - use a timer instead of counting. also, when you use your lash curler, hold your lashes up with your other hand so they become even curlier. (like against the metal part of your eyelash curler).
i ALSO actually realized that my lashes stay more curler when i DON'T apply mascara for some reason! so you could try that and no i'm not kidding - just try it one day.
other than that, maybe i'd try buying a different mascara?
ooh, another tip is to
- curl
- apply mascara
- let dry
- curl again
that also REALLY helps if i do wanna wear mascara that day.
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me and my man live together and have for like a year and a half now. I was recently looking for a picture in his folder on the computer (with permission of course) and i looked in a folder marked "random" cuz i couldnt find it. Well, in that folder was porn. Tons of it. movies, pictures, sound files ... now none of it was like kid porn (cuz that is sick) but it kind of makes me uncomfortable. What should I do? (link)
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Well, it's none of your business if he looks at porn. It's his business. Let him be. You can tell him it makes you uncomfortable knowing he looks at porn.. It won't do much though probably.
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Hey everyone. I have kind of a stupid question. How many questions do you have to answer to become a featured columnist? ♥fabulous (link)
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that's not a stupid question.
100.
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