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i need help on what i should do about the kid i like
OK well im 13 and i still like me ex Boifriend. and i have liked him for 2 years and last november he asked me out and then in january we broke up and when me and him were goin out i was soo happy like the happiest i have ever been and now im all depressed because i lost him and now hes into serious drugs and im worried about him and i dont wanna lose him but he told my sis he still had feelings for me but my parents dont want me talking to him and hes not allowed near me again and i dont wanna give up on him but i dont know what i should do cuz everytime i think about giving up i think about what would happen if it turned out he asked me out.. and hes the only guy i have felt like this for and im scared to love other guys because its hard im stuck on him and i have been for 2 years... pleas help me
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sweetie, i totally understand. have you tried talking to him about his addiction? maybe if you tell him that it's so bad for him, he'll stop. you have to get him to stop to be with him.
are you sure you really want to be with him still? maybe you'll meet better guys. you're only 13 so you have lots of time to figure out guys and find ones that really deserve you & don't do bad things like drugs. but i understand that you really like this guy, so you may not even consider that.
you can try convincing your parents that he is really a great guy and you won't do drugs when you are near him. however, if i were one of your parents, i still wouldn't allow it. you have to introduce him to your parents. maybe invite him for dinner and show them what a great guy he is. as long as he's not rude or immature during the dinner. talk to him about it.
do what's best for you. i know you like him, but if he gets you hooked on drugs, what happens then?
your parents are only doing what's best for you. if you like him so much, you should be careful about drugs. you never know how he could influence you. be really careful, babe.
good luck.
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