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i found porn...
me and my man live together and have for like a year and a half now. I was recently looking for a picture in his folder on the computer (with permission of course) and i looked in a folder marked "random" cuz i couldnt find it. Well, in that folder was porn. Tons of it. movies, pictures, sound files ... now none of it was like kid porn (cuz that is sick) but it kind of makes me uncomfortable. What should I do?
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The same thing happened to me a while ago.
Personally, I just talked to him about it. About why he watches it, what he likes about it. I let him know that I was comfortable with his porn watching, and that he should be too. I told him that if he wanted to share it with me, I didn't mind him sharing that part of his sexuality.
It's not a really big deal. That is, unless it starts interfering with your sex life.
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I would confront him about it. If you dont he might just keep looking at it and youll worry about it. It doesnt make him a bad person but he needs help. If he becomes angry maybe try going to a therapist or getting advice on your relationship. Good luck! Hope my advice helps!
♥ Jenny
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Well, it's none of your business if he looks at porn. It's his business. Let him be. You can tell him it makes you uncomfortable knowing he looks at porn.. It won't do much though probably.
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