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I'm Christina, and I'm 27. I tend to be brutally honest when I give advice or an opinion. I don't tell people what they want to hear but rather what they need to hear. They don't always appreciate it at first, but I usually get a thank you in the end.


I have 15 tattoos, and 8 piercings. I'm married and just gave birth to a baby boy in May. I'm currently a SAHM so you can find me taking care of my son and binge-watching television while he naps.

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A while ago, one of my best guy friends told me something in total confidence, and told me not to tell anyone about it. But then at a sleepover, my friends asked if anyone had any secrets that they wanted to just get out in the open. I said I did, so I told them what my guy friend said. Now, I feel like the worst person alive...they swore that they'd never tell anyone, but what if it accidentilly slips out?? I'm scared that no one will ever trust me again. What can I do?

The girl below me is half right. Your relationship with the girls will definitely strengthen, but the relationship with your guy friend might not. If he finds out you told, you're right, he might not trust you again.

You should've never said it, & since you can't go back & change it, just hope & pray no one says anything. Or just tell all the girls not to say anything because you weren't supposed to tell. If they're really your friends, they won't say anything about it.

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my best friendm, who i'll call... carly, is about the bestest friend i have ever had since 2nd grade. the problem is, carly has this new friend (shez not a new student) named janis. janis is horrible. she acts very conceited when she hangs w/ me and my cliquey friendz. i act conceited around them too, but i do it playfully and not totally seriously like i do. carly is always hanging out with janis and i can't stand it. i tried opening up, but all she does is fill in my spot like it wouldnt matter if i wasnt even there. it gets me really mad, and i control it. recently, janis guessed to carly that i didnt like her and carly told janis everything that i'm saying now (which i told her). now janis knows that i hate her and gets all up in my face like shez trying to be gangsta or something to a group of totally preppy people. AND, for the icing on the cake, she isnt even good-looking, which kinda matters to me especially when she acts like she is the most gorgeous person in the friggin world, which is like calling a lion a mouse. help please!

I know exactly how it feels when your best friend finds someone new to hang out with. I basically just talked to my best friend about it, and she understood it all. Before I talked to her about it, I ignored her, didn't talk to her & basically didn't do anything to try & help the matter. It took another friend of mine to push & say "You guys are best friends, talk to her. She'll understand."

So I talked to her, and she basically just understood exactly how I felt. So then we started hanging out again & had our own time together, and the other girl & her had their time together. As annoying as she was, I got to being her friend, and things are fine between the three of us now, about two years later. If you don't really like Janis though, then don't hang out with her. She already knows you hate her so for you to just randomly be friends with her would be weird.

And when she gets in your face, curse her out. Seriously, don't let anyone get in your face & try to put you down. Tell her exactly what you think about her, and tell her that if she's got a problem with it then that's too bad and it's her problem to deal with, not yours.

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its spring break and i want to come back with a make over. im talking like look wise. i dont want to dye my hair or anything because im in love with it. =] haha. but just like... anything look wise. im going to go get my eyebrows waxed and thinking maybe about going to a tanning bed. any other ideas =] ? thankss so much!

Get new shoes, get new clothes, new accessories. Get your nails done & get new makeup. Get contacts if it's at all possible.

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my friend emily is totally in love with this guy named... matt. matt is like the epitome of american hottness, with tan skin, blue jeans, blond hair and blue eyes. she is infatutated with him, and has sent him valentines and everything, BUT has not asked him out yet. i am getting sick of hearing sighing and giggling over him from emily, especially since i like love him too, but only for a shorter time than hera nd i haven't sent any valentines or anything, considering itz april now. emily doesnt know that i like matt too, and i dont want her to get all freaked out at me. not to be mean either, but i so think that he would be so more likely to go out w/ me and not her, but i am so afraid of asking him out since emily is one of my best friendz.

I don't get why everyone is concerned with friendship. If you like someone, then go for it. It's gonna hurt people and piss them off, but your happiness should come first.

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when people are making out and about to have sex in a movie and the girl says "one minute i'll be right back" and goes to the bathroom, what is she doing in there? id happens alot and i just want to know what the girls doing

Probably just checking to see if she's still cute.

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Hey. Well, I'm looking for quotes, for like AIM profiles. Preferably depressing/ sad ish ones about like just, sad stuff, or about like people that try to break you down, but they can't do it/ strength. thankss :D

I use this site:

www.wittyprofiles.com

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I am a 17 y/o male. My "love" is not talking to me because she wants someone taller and heavier than herself. I am 5'10", 130 lbs, and she is 5'9", 130 lbs. She feels that i must be heavier, not just the same weight. Since my weight is distributed throughout muscle, she is insecure. I have trouble gaining weight, so what should i do?

You're an inch taller than her & she wants someone taller? Dude, if she really loved you then she wouldn't care how you looked & she'd accept you & she wouldn't want you to change.

When are people going to learn that our imperfections are what makes us beautiful. If everyone were perfect, the world would be boring and annoying.

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On the show The View, Rosie said something like the British and U.S. staged 9/11 to start another war. Does she have a point, or is this complete B.S.?

She also said that if we want to know what's going on in the world, we should go outside the country's media because it's frightening. Is our media really feeding us lies and omitting global events?

I'm not exactly sure. It could've just been her opinion, and if so then it wasn't factual based. Merely a thought.

Yeah. The media does feed us lies. They can only show so much on tv & tell so much in the newpapers & the net. If they were to tell us everything that was going on, it'd be chaos. Most people wouldn't be able to hand it to you. It's not all lies, but it's mostly what we can handle & what they can show.

I'm pretty sure you don't wanna wake up & turn the news on to see someone getting their head blown off. Correct?

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i dont think this is in the right topic but anyway...

how bad does it hurt to get your belly button pierced...like compare it to something..thankss

Pain varies. It hurts for some & not for others.

Make sure they open everything in front of you & explaine everything to you. If their needles are laid out already, leave & go somewhere else.

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I have chocolate, and you know how you can talk with the phone open or closed? does anyone know how to close the phone during a conversation without hanging up?

Answer the phone that way?

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Is it really a real show or just some set-up fake reality tv show?

It's definitely a real show.

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I want to pierce my own lip and belly button.
And I can't go and get it done professioally.
So, can you tell me what to do [in general]?
So it won't get infected?

Wait until you CAN get it done. If you do it yourself, you're gonna fuck it up & probably get it infected. People are certified to do these things for a reason, and those who aren't, aren't for a reason also.

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If I want to make it look like I have a fake lip piercing or a fake nose ring, or even earring, where can I get those??

Claire's.

Just remember though, if you show up with it one day, and another day without it & no hole; you're not gonna look cool. You're gonna look fake & idiotic.

Be cool & get a real one done.

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k, well i kinda guess i need someone whos already been in middle school to answer this..

when you were in middle school, were all the major slutty kids the most popular? like girl wise? & does that mostly change in highschool? because, i mean some of them are my friends & are actually cool, but some are just annoying & guys tottaly use them. but like, i once joined into that, & then for the most part regretted it. but like you always will here these stories about who made out with who & who did what. & then i dont know it makes me feel out of the group. but like i dont know..

im just wondering does it get better?

When I was in middle school, kids were just starting to smoke pot & drink. I mean, there were parties, but they weren't how they are now.

The slutty girls were usually the most rejected among the other girls. You don't have to be a slut to be cool or accepted by guys. Be yourself & stop caring what people think. That usually does it.

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I really like my guy best friend. Ever since i told him two days ago, hes been avoiding me. Im not excatly sure what to do now. Should i leave it or talk to him? Any advice is greatly appreciated.

(14/f)

He's not into you so he's avoiding you. Leave him alone & try to get your friendship back to normal. He's just in shock.

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Im just wondering what is "in" style? Like give me the clothes, and acessories, etc etc. And what is really "out" now. Because I'm about to go shopping and I would like to know what to buy and where to buy it. Thank you!

Skinny jeans are still in. Mini skirts, leggings. Striped tops, big earrings, diamonds, pearls, rings, hairbows, big bags, big sunglasses & flats. Headbands are in too.

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okay so me and one of my really good guy friends just started going out. everything's going great.. except our phone conversations. we never really have anything to talk about. can someone give me things that we can talk about (not like: how's the weather. more personal.) thanks.

Ask about his day. It'll lead to a more in depth conversation.

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i just started going out with this guy and when we talk it seems like we're just friends. are there cute things i can say that lets him know that i'm into him.

Hug him, kiss him. Invite him over & cuddle with him. Tell him how much you really like him.

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For my myspace profile on the section ABOUT ME i never ever know what to put on there. I want to put something interesting but not boring about me. So can you help me with that. I go and look at other peoples profile but there's seems pretty down pointless. So can you show me exactly what a good "about me" profile is really supposed to be given when people read mine.??? It would really help a whole lot! Might rate u a 5 if you give me your all-favorite advice. :)

I'd give you the link to mine, but it's private, so I'll just copy & paste my about me.

"i'm christina. i'm sixteen. music's my life. i never go a day without it. i tell it like it is. i don't care what people think of me. i have ocd, paranoia, adhd & clinical depression. i sleep a lot. i'm lactose intolerant. i'm easy to get along with; i love basically everyone until i'm given a reason not to. i don't trust easily. i fall fast and wear my heart on my sleeve. sometimes i wish i didn't. my parents & i have a love/hate relationship. i love my friends/family. they're everything to me. i'm on probation. i know who i am & what i'm about. my older brother is my best friend. i want love in my life, and i'm still trying to find it. i'm spoiled. i can be a huge bitch; but i'm usually really nice. so with that said, let's be friends!"

Beside that, I have a picture, and underneath it I have the little AIM guy with my sn and then a comment box. And above my description and my picture, I have little pictures to click to add me, message me, and block me. =) You can get most of it here:

http://www.freecodesource.com/index.php?page=myspacegenerators/index

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If you let something go and if it comes back it was yours to begin with. do you think its true?

Yeah.

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