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One of my male friends said that if his wife does not want to satisfy him sexually then he has a right to cheat on her with another woman. Or if she denies him sex then he should cheat. He says that women should always please their husbands. A lot of people agreed with him on this. I don't its okay to cheat just because your wife doesn't feel like having sex. What if your wife can't have sex because of medical conditions? What do you think?
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Unless she is ok with him having sex with other women, then no obviously it's not ok.
If he really feels like he wants sex that bad, they should just get a divorce. Not having sex isn't a good reason at all to cheat, ever. Cheating is never ok.
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I'm 16/f. So, about a month ago, this kid in my class called me a slut. He said "go away, slut." Under his breath when I went to get a pencil. And since then I have been observing myself, and wondering why he said that. It didn't exactly hurt, more like caught me off guard and got me thinking, what could I have done to make anyone think that? I mean, I'm pretty conservative.
The only things I can honestly possibly think of are;
1.The fact that I flirt with the guys that flirt with me,
2. I make a lot of sexual jokes,
3. One day at the end of class when everyone was walking out I waited a little bit and took my top shirt off (I had a tank top under with my bra straps hidden) and left my top shirt on only around my neck, so I could pull my shirt off after my sweater was on to make sure that no skin that wasn't my arms showed. But still, just because he was there, a different boy was like, "Yeah, your clothes. Put them on." Which I can understand, but don't agree with... Only my arm skin was out the whole time.
4. I am horny almost ALL of the time and I find myself fantasizing about some of the boys in my school more and more every week -.-
5. A guy friend of mine once grabbed me as if he was listening to my stomach as I walked by him (he touches me like this a lot, arm around the shoulders, hugs, holds my face briefly, touches my hair and arms, things like that) he was sitting, I was standing. He put his head on my stomach & instead of pushing him away I touched his head, & I don't know, I guess it looked wrong? Everyone that saw said "woahhh" & I just gently backed away from him after a moment I took to process.
6. I stretch in class from time to time (I bend backwards in my seat)
7. When I catch a guy looking at me, I'm flattered instead of disgusted. I don't know if my face shows that or not.
8. When men on the street cat call to me, I smile politely at them (I feel rude ignoring them, even if they might rape me)
9. When the same boy that called me a slut smacked my butt one time, I didn't defend myself, I kind of just stood there & stared at him in shock, & I guess this is why? I don't know. Maybe it's because I'm too nice to the disrespectful guys that surround me?
10. I wore these stretchy leggings that look like jeans with pockets to school for literally the first time yesterday, and my best friend told me "those are the slut pants."
11. When I had swimming last year, I have walked around in my underwear in front of the other girls a few times. I was maybe about 50% comfortable with this,
Looking at this list makes me think I probably am a slut, but I want other comments. If any of you think this makes me a slut, please don't hesitate to tell me, and tell me why. I want honesty. I have been beating myself up about this, I know I should have more of a backbone about this, but I just don't know how, or what to say, or what to do...
Thank you for all of your answers in advance. Anything is appreciated :) (link)
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I hate the word slut. Most people who calls girls slut aren't even the definition anyways. The definition is someone who has many casual sexual partners. You are no where near that. People just throw the words around nowadays to hurt someone because it is a word that does hurt women.
Like Rahzie and Zane said, if you are doing something that you feel like you should change, then change it.
It's fine to flirt. It's fine to be horny and to fantasize (as long as you're not telling everyone about that).
The only thing that is not fine, is the guys who are cat calling you and grabbing you in inappropriate places. If anyone does this again, tell them to stop, even report them at school. Doing this to girls is wrong and completely disrespectful.
If you hear him call you a slut again, look him in the eyes and straight up tell him not to call you a slut or any other name because it is extremely disrespectful. He'll probably be intimidated or he'll try to say something else stupid, then you can just tell a teacher and he'll stop doing this to girls because you're probably not the only one he's done that too.
So my only advice to you is to stand up for yourself and don't let men talk about you like that or touch you.
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I am in middle school in 7th grade.I am 13. There is a boy named Ben, he really likes me. He started liking me when he saw my hair. Every time i try opening my locker, he just comes behind me and hugs me really tight. You know what I mean. I have told like 10 times. He got a lot of this and suspended. i tell the teachers i trust. i tell them cause sometimes they see me curse at that boy who likes me and if i don't tell them they have to write me up for cursing. he always tries to kiss me but i don't let him. one time he looked at me in a love look and i was scared he would do something and he did . he kissed me really fast from the mouth. everybody the hallway saw us. i ran to the restroom and i was crying. my teacher came and talked to me. and she said if you keep telling he will go to jail cause he might do something bad to you.. i really don't have that kind of that hard heart. my parents don't know because if i tell them they will not let me go to school anymore or they will just leave thr whole state. a lot of boys liked me but not as much as this boy does. i just can't describe how much he likes me. he says that he will do anything just for me. every day when he sees me he says "your hair is so cute". in the classroom ,sometimes my teacher steps out to talk with others, he tries to hug me and i just don't let i tell him to get off of me or let go of my hand, and when sometimes i stand up he just pulls me to the wall and tries to kiss me. but my friends save me from him.even if we have a party, i can't enjoy myself. yesterday in the after noon he hugged me from the back,putting his hand around my back and stomach,he said" where ever you go i will follow you. if anybody doesn't give you to me, i will just take from them. and that is a promise" i was crying in the bathroom:(, i am so scared. i really don't know what to do.please help :( (link)
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Well you're not being raped. Raping someone is when you're forced into having sex with someone. What he's doing is sexual harassment.
He doesn't like you. He's more along the lines of creepy obsessed. If he liked you, he would have respected your feelings instead of trying to force you to be with him.
Go talk to a counselor or teacher and let them know that he keeps touching you and grabbing you and it makes you really uncomfortable. Every time he does it, you go tell an adult.
I'm also going to tell you to tell your parents. You can ask them to talk to your principal or something and let them know that you don't want to move schools or anything, you just want this boy to stop.
You obviously have to tell someone about it. I mean if he decided to do more, you could actually end up being raped. If you let him get away with this, he'll do it to other girls too and it would be wrong of you to let that happen.
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Hi,
My best friend moved to a different school recently and she started today. Well after school she told me about it and everything, and she seems really happy there.. I'm happy for her, but I'm scared that she might find a new best friend or something. She said people are aleady calling her their best friend, it's really fun there, etc. I really don't want to lose her, but I'm scared I will. Any advice is much appreciated, thanks :) (link)
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When growing up, you'll lose friends and gain friends. Most of the friends you have now, you won't be friends with in the future.
When people grow up, they find new interests and they just change in general. They're not as compatible as they were before.
It's good that you're happy for her. For the most part, you're going to have to accept that she's going to be spending more time there so she'll be spending time with other people there more.
Put in the effort on your end. Try to make plans with her every other weekend or so. If you still feel anxious about this, just let her know that you really care about her and you don't want the distance that you guys now have to ruin your friendship. I'm sure she'll assure you that she will remain friends with you and try to keep in touch as much as possible.
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Does long distance relationship can be conquered? (link)
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Yes, if the effort is put in on both ends of the relationship.
If only one person is putting in all the effort, it won't work, like any other relationship.
It is ten times more difficult because you need more trust and more communication.
So it's not impossible, it's just more difficult.
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Hi I'm 15 and I recently just broke up with my boyfriend. Well he broke up with me. I know a lot of people will say I'm too young to be going out with someone but what I had with this guy was really special and we were so close, I knew everything about him and I had helped him through so much. Anyway.. I noticed that he was being really distant with me recently and I thought I had done something wrong. So, I texted him and asked if I had done anything wrong and he told me no that it was to do with certain personal problems I know are a touchy subject and affect him a lot. I tried to help him but he kept pushing me away saying there was nothing I could do to help. I started to get upset about something that had been bothering me for a whole and that was him not really making an effort in the relationship. This problem was killing me inside and I needed to get it off my chest to know if he really did care about me so I explained to him I knew he was upset and that he's going through things right now but I needed to get some things off my chest. So I told him. He got even more upset and ended our relationship instead of sorting out the problem. I really thought he would of been more understanding. At this point I obviously felt really bad for what I had done and was apologising to him like crazy, he knew I was sorry and said he forgives me and still cares about me so much but he can't be with someone who would 'kick him while he's down' I don't know what to do.. What we had was really special and I want him back. I feel like I've done so much already to try and make things better but things are still the same. Please, someone tell me it what I did was wrong? Should I do anything else? Will he eventually cool off and realise what I was trying to say? (link)
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What you did wasn't wrong, it's the right thing to do instead of keeping things from him.
He pretty much lost interest in being with you. Everybody goes through hard times. Some worse than others but that doesn't mean you can use it as an excuse to be a bad boyfriend and not put effort into the relationship.
You didn't kick him while he was down. You brought up a problem that needed to be fixed. He just doesn't want to put in the effort anymore.
For the time being, don't go after him. You put in a lot of effort in this relationship. You were trying to be a supportive girlfriend by being there for him when he was going through a hard time but he wasn't there for you.
If you guys end up talking again, don't just get back together again or it'll just go back to what it was before. He needs to realize that you two are in a relationship and if there is a problem going on between you guys, he needs to step up and not break up with you for it. If he really cared for you, he wouldn't be breaking up with you because you have feelings.
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I'm in 7th grade and I have a D in math. I try really hard, and turn all my homework in on time. I don't normally study, but even when I do I still get less than 50% right on my test. My mom puts a lot of pressure on me for failing. Don't tell me to talk to her about it, because I won't. Also don't give me crap saying "we'll quit being stupid then" or "get a tutor" and "just talk to her about it brat" because I already have cutting issues. But I need help (link)
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It's normal for a mom to put pressure on you when you have a D in math.
These are going to be my suggestions..
-Study. You said you normally don't study so change your habits.
-Watch youtube videos on the problems you don't understand. I was never good at math and my dad had me do this.
-Talk to your teacher when you're not understanding a problem.
-Take notes and read.
-Get a tutor. Seriously, I know you said you don't want one, which I really don't understand if you actually want help but tutors can help and they can spend more time with you than a teacher can.
As for the cutting, I'm sure you're already stressed enough about that, but you do need professional help. Unfortunately, there are a lot of people who cut. You need to talk to your mom about that or talk to a teacher or counselor and ask them for help. Once you start talking to a counselor they'll help you find ways to deal with your problems rather than cutting.
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Hi there I'm 16/f and my boyfriend and I have been dating for three weeks now, and well I need your opinions. Let me start from the beginning. My best friend and I used to like obsess over my boyfriend last year before I even knew him. We both saw him at school we made a nickname for him for when we saw him we could talk about him without him knowing. Ok so my best friend she already knew him because they went to middle school together and when we started "stalking" him last year which was our 9th grade year, she told me how she thought he was cute and how they talked and liked each other in 8th grade, but never dated and stopped talking, and how she still thought he was cute and all that hence the reason we talked about him all the time. Well this year, I actually met him and we started talking and started dating. Well when we were about to start dating and I told my best friend, she was like its not a good idea hes mean and saying stuff like that and then if he would want to walk with me in the hallway she would get all mad and yell at me and a lot of the time be like "if your going to walk with him I'm not walking with you and him" and stuff like that. Well that was right before our Christmas break. Well after Christmas break which was last week our first week back, she was suddenly ok with him walking with me and even with him sitting with us at lunch. Then one night all of a sudden my boyfriend and I are snapchatting my boyfriend suddenly sends me these snaps saying "after you went to bed last night, Meghan and I snapchatted a lot. That was the first time ive talked to her in two years. I was upset and shocked especially that my own best friend didn't tell me she is snapchatting MY boyfriend. She tells me everything. Well a couple of days when by and he hasn't snapchatted me sense that night but then three nights ago, I look on his top snaps because you can tell who is your best friends and who you snapchat the most and she is his second top score and same with her!!! so that means hes even snapping her and not even me! plus she told my other two friends in our group and even made a comment where she laughed and mentioned how hes in her top snaps! that really set me off then finally today at lunch, I looked down at my boyfriends phone to notice that they were TEXTING! so now they text and on top of that right when im there they text secretly from across the table. Now I know what the secret little random looks they give to each other is which is the fact that theyre texting! One huge thing that sets me off about all of it is my "best friend" not even telling me. I don't like them doing this it makes me so mad but im scared to bring it up to her that she'll yell at me or something or say your over reacting or something and to him I don't want to say because were working out other issues. Heck I don't know I just want to know what do you guys think about all of this? do you think im over reacting or what? please help!! thank you! (link)
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You're not over reacting. I'd be mad too.
I'll start with your friend. To be honest, your friend doesn't seem to be a real friend. It's completely obvious that she's likes him. I mean before you guys started dating, she was also obsessing over him. She doesn't respect the boundaries in a relationship.
Now as for your boyfriend, I'm really not sure what to say about him. I mean they could be texting completely innocent but since she's into him, it's probably not.
So I'd sit him down somewhere private and tell him that you know that they are talking to each other a lot and you don't have a problem with them talking, but while he's with you, you'd like him to be more respectful about texting other people while he's with you.
Then talk about how you heard your friend bragging about him being in her stop snaps.
If he's a good boyfriend, he won't try to fight all this because you are his girlfriend and you are top priority over your friend.
If he does, then just break up with him and find new friends and a better boyfriend.
So you can't make either of them stop talking. It's up to you to either freak out about it and have them be more secretive or talk to your boyfriend.
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I started dating one of my closest friends awhile ago. Well today she texted me "I kinda just want to be just friends".. Well I really really like her and I don't know how I can just move on..
The thing I'm scared of is losing her. Not exactly relationship wise, but friendship wise aswell. I'm just really confused at this point. Help? (link)
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You can't make her want to be with you. So you're going to have to respect her decision as to just being friends. Don't beg her to be with you or anything. That would just be pressuring her into something she doesn't want.
It takes time to move on. So you won't see it happen overnight.
As for the whole scared of losing her friendship, that does happen once relationships end because they try to go back to how things used to be but there are still feelings there so it's just more heartbreaking.
So it's up to you to decide whether or not to just remain friends or to give yourself some time to get over her before you decide to be friends with her.
I'm going to suggest telling her that you need to some to move on before being just friends. Just because being friends does mean accepting that she could possibly start dating someone else and you'll have to be supportive as her friend and it doesn't seem like you're ready for that.
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My boyfriend and i have had our intimate moments but i notice that the last time he fingered me we were being rough so he practically pumped it. So it kinda hurted but i didnt mind it much. But now my area down there has been hurting. Is that bad? What should i do? (link)
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Well he probably was a little too rough with you and like adviceman said, you're probably a little bruised. Make sure next time, he doesn't go so rough.
If it still hurts after about a week, then go see a Gynecologist.
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I am an 18 year old female, I have been very close to my best friend for years. We have been like sisters and we know everything about each other. I have not for seen this as a problem until recently when I started dating a guy who is a mutual friend of ours we will call sam. Soon after my best friend started dating sam's best friend we will call matt. This didn't seem to be much of a problem until she started to interfere in mine and sam's relationship and getting upset with me when I was spending time with him or when I couldn't talk to her because sam and i were on the phone. She has recently told me that sam and I are getting to close and need to back off, while her and matt are allowed to do whatever and on the rare occasions I say anything I am told to butt out. Before dating sam I did not have much of a social life, as a result she was able to call me whenever. I would like her to stay out of mine and sam's relationship, I understand that she is just worried however I am also starting to wonder if its not just that she doesn't like the change that she can no longer just call me or ask me to do something that I might be busy. (link)
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You just need to sit down and talk to her. You don't have to be mean or anything but just tell her that you guys have boundaries now that you're in a relationship and she needs to respect it and not try to get involved in telling you what you can and can't do in your relationship. Don't argue with her though if she tries to start something up. Just listen to what she has to say, say you understand but this is how it has to be.
I mean no doubt friendships aren't the same when someone gets into a relationship. That person wants to spend more time talking to them and hanging out with them and that's fine. As long as you still have some time for your friends then you're fine and you seem to have it all okay.
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I'm 17 years old, male and gay. I have this friend since 5th grade and we been very close and now we're seniors in High School. I have very deep feelings for him...I want to tell him that i want to be with him but i don't know what he's going to say or do?
what can i do...I love him and he knows that i like him but i want more than a friendship with him. (link)
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You should just talk to him. He already knows you like him so the ball in his court. If he has feelings for you, he needs to speak up about it because you're unsure of where to go with your feelings and your dating life. You don't know whether to wait around or to move on.
So you don't have to straight up tell you him that you want to be with him, but maybe ask him to hang out, just the two of you and see where things go from there. If he's giving you signs that he's interested in you, remind him that you have feelings for him and see what he says.
If he doesn't seem interested, then let the friendship stay and move on.
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Ok, so recently, on a popular site, (not facebook, twitter, or instagram) I ended up in a very long and not yet ending comment conversation with another user (male). Somehow I believe I may have developed a... crush... on him. The only problem is, I have absolutely zero idea how old he is, but it hasn't come up yet because I have my age displayed on my profile but he does not. Looking at his profile, he seems older than 13 but younger than 30. I tend to think about him a lot, and we talk about twice a day. I'm just so fearful that I'll eventually find out he's 27....
I know how dangerous the internet is, but he just seems so... great. He writes so intelectually, but he uses words like 'awesome'. I'm just so flustered. What should I do about this? Thank you. (link)
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I think you should just let it be a crush and not pursue it at all.
I mean you already know how dangerous the internet is so you really don't want to put yourself in that position.
Besides that, if he is who he says he is and all that, if he's 18 years old, he could end up in jail by dating you. I know that's jumping a little far ahead but that's where you're heading if you do something about your feelings and it would just end badly for you.
You should just leave it alone and try meeting boys your age for now.
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(We're both girls by the way, if gender matters)
So my girlfriend is really suicidal. She sometimes tells me she might kill herself soon, and I just didn't know how to respond or to help her. Well me and her were talking last night (Probably until midnight or so), but then I fell asleep. It was just an average conversation, not a fight or anything. Well I texted her when I woke up, and she didn't reply. My best friend texted her too, and she didn't reply either. I understand she might be busy, but she usually tells me if she can't text me the next day or something. I'm just really scared because she's really suicidal and I don't want her to hurt herself :( Any advice? (link)
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I agree with Rahzie. To be a good girlfriend is more than just being supportive. If something happens, you can't help her. Only an adult can so you need to talk to an adult.
Like it's great to be supportive and always there for her but if something happens, you'll end up feelings guilty about not talking about it to an adult.
So talk to her family, or talk to a teacher or counselor. Even if she gets mad, it's better to have her alive and mad than dead.
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Female, 13 years old.
so my best guy friend told me he liked me. and I told him I liked him back because idrk. anyways, I found out he told 3 other girls that he likes them, too. he is kind of a "player" but he really made it seem like he actually cared about me. so I told him off because I wanted him to know that what he does isn't okay. but then he told me he loved me before I went to bed. I didn't know how to respond because
1.i still don't know if I trust him yet. he was actually gonna play me like that.
2.i don't think i like him like that anymore.
What should I say? I just read the message and didn't respond. I was scared. so what do I say to make sure he knows that I forgave him but don't want to "date" him. (link)
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Well obviously he doesn't love you. He told 3 other girls he liked them. If he loved you, there would be no reason to tell the other girls that he liked them.
What do you say to make sure he knows that you forgave him but don't want to date him? Tell him that you forgive him but you don't want to date him. It's simple.
You don't want to date players. You don't want to date guys who play dumb middle school games with girls.
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I'm a 13 year old girl in 8th grade. And I really like this guy but, what are some signs that I'm actually in LOVE with him and that its not just a crush? What questions can I ask myself to tell if it is a crush or love. I have known this guy since school started in August but I didn't really start liking him till the beginning of October. I think about him a lot... (link)
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You have a crush on him. Only because the only thing you described was that you think about him a lot.
It takes time to love someone. Are you dating him? If so, then it definitely can grow into love in time. You get to know them more, you learn the good and the bad about him.
It starts with liking them then when it becomes unconditional, then it becomes love.
Here's some questions I found online.
Do you feel attraction towards him or a deep, romantic attachment?
How is your state of mind? Like would be developing whatever it is that's budding between you the two of you and love is when moods may change but the care is unconditional.
On the phone liking them would be the whole "No you hang up first" and love is when there is not much time on the phone because the majority of the interaction is done in person because it's not common to fall in love over text messages and phone calls.
Your ideal situation for liking them would be that the feelings are being reciprocated, meaning that you are just happy that he likes you back and love would be wanting to grow old with them.
Like would see them as potential and love is seeing them as a life companion.
So anyways, when you're in love you'll know. Since you're guessing it, you're not in love yet. Take your time with him and once you guys get to a deeper level in your relationship, you'll know when you're in love.
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Hi, Im a 16 (almost 17) year old female with a maturity level that proceeds my age and I have a REAL big crush on this guy but he's 24. I know us girls mature much faster than males do so it's normal for me to have feelings for this man. We've been talking for quite a while now and not once has he said anything sexual to me or shown signs that he's interested in me sexually (which is a good thing because that's not what i want..yet.) BUT he has shown signs that he likes me more than just a friend. I'm considering getting into a relationship with him but I just need some opinions from others. ☺Thanks☺ (link)
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There's nothing wrong with crushing on a 24 year old at your age, but it definitely would be wrong to date him even if you are extremely mature.
For one, it's illegal for him to be in a relationship with you. Even if nothing sexual goes on, it can be assumed by the law and can get him in trouble and you don't want that.
Besides that, you both are at totally different places in your life.
I mean if you're mature enough as you say you are, you have to take into consideration why a 24 year old is interested in dating a 16 year old. A 24 year old guy doesn't want to wait that long to sleep with a girl, to spend time alone with her, ect.
It's fine to be friends with him, but anything more would just be illegal and wrong. So don't put yourself in that kind of situation.
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So me and my boyfriend are going through a difficult time. I just found out that he had kissed and had oral sex with another girl. I found this out from his best friend who I'm also close with. His excuse was that he didn't remember because he was so drunk. I decided to give him a second chance, although I am starting to wonder if it was the right choice or not. He hasn't made any effort with our relationship, but still insists to say that I am all he wants. He has no time to come and see me, he'll say he's coming to see me but then go out for a drink with his friends instead. A lot of the time he would not reply to my text messages. He tells me he would never hurt me again and I'm the only person he wants to be in a relationship with although I don't know if I still have the feelings I once had for him, what should I do? (link)
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Well you forgave him for cheating, he should be working like crazy to fix the trust he broke.
He's only talking and not taking any action. You can't just trust his words if his actions are proving any differently.
So either sit down with him and straight up tell him that relationships take two and you don't just want to hear that you're all he wants but you want him to show you that you're all he wants.
It would make me really upset if a guy said he was coming to see me but then goes out with his friends instead. It's rude and it means he'd rather be with them than with you and you aren't at the top of his list.
If he doesn't make any changes, dump him. He's not worth it.
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Okay I'm a female & I'm 14 turning 15 in a few months. Don't even start talking about my age cause I already know y'all are gonna be telling me I'm too young but I feel like I'm ready, so keep your hate to yourselves! My boyfriend is 17. We've been on and off a lot but lately things have been good. We both want to have sex. He's not a virgin but I am. We've done stuff before like fingering , hand jobs , blow jobs ( sorry to describe ) and whenever he does too deep with the fingering I usually bleed a bit. I feel like its because he's tearing my hymen a bit. Well we were going to have sex but I'm kind of scared to bleed a lot. He's gonna have a condom so I don't care if it goes on him but I don't wanna bleed a lot. Is there any way I won't have to bleed a lot? Also I'm embarrassed about my body. I have stretch marks in my thighs, sides, and my lower back kind of on my butt. He says he's gonna love me no matter what but some of those scars are from self harm. Also my inner thighs are a grayish blue color & I feel like he'd be disgusted. Any way to hide that? Or what might it be and is there treatment? Thanks. (link)
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I completely agree with adviceman. I won't go on about your age...except for the fact that it's actually illegal for you to have sex.
Besides that, you're insecure and embarrassed about your body. He'll probably love your body but you're clearly not ready if you're embarrassed to show him your body. You don't feel comfortable with him yet or with yourself yet to be able to enjoy and feel comfortable having sex.
If he's tearing your hymen when you guys are sexually active, he's doing something wrong. You aren't really supposed to bleed or tear. The hymen stretches so if you're bleeding, he's either too rough or you guys aren't using enough lubricant.
Also, I don't think you'd enjoy sex very much right now. Since you're only 14, it'll hurt like crazy since your body is still developing and growing.
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I am a 15 year old girl and I am sexually active with my 17 year old boyfriend. I got my last period November 12. It lasted a week and after me and my boyfriend almost had sex. I decided not to because he didn't have a condom. But he did rub his penis on my vagina for a bit. I'm pretty sure his penis had pre cum on it. I read that you can still get pregnant even if you're a virgin (I'm a virgin btw) because you have a tiny hole in your hymen that allows your period to come out and sperm can also enter through there. I'm not sure if it's true, I just read it. From there I haven't had my period. I'm irregular and if I'm stressing it can be even more late. I'm not sure if I am pregnant or it's cause I'm stressing? Can I be pregnant? I'm way too scared to get a test or see a doctor but is it possible for me to be pregnant? Yes I know I'm young but I felt ready & I at least didn't do it all the way. Thanks! (link)
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It is possible.
If your period doesn't come, just take a pregnancy test to put your mind at ease. Like you said, stressing can make it late.
You should be more careful though. You shouldn't be putting yourself in those situations when you can't handle the outcome. If you plan on continuing to be sexually active with your boyfriend, you need to get on birth control. Condoms can fail too so it's best to be completely protected just in case you end up in this situation again.
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