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Leave Or Love????


Question Posted Saturday January 11 2014, 12:06 pm

Female, 13 years old.
so my best guy friend told me he liked me. and I told him I liked him back because idrk. anyways, I found out he told 3 other girls that he likes them, too. he is kind of a "player" but he really made it seem like he actually cared about me. so I told him off because I wanted him to know that what he does isn't okay. but then he told me he loved me before I went to bed. I didn't know how to respond because
1.i still don't know if I trust him yet. he was actually gonna play me like that.
2.i don't think i like him like that anymore.
What should I say? I just read the message and didn't respond. I was scared. so what do I say to make sure he knows that I forgave him but don't want to "date" him.


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lightoftruth answered Sunday January 12 2014, 1:02 am:
Well obviously he doesn't love you. He told 3 other girls he liked them. If he loved you, there would be no reason to tell the other girls that he liked them.
What do you say to make sure he knows that you forgave him but don't want to date him? Tell him that you forgive him but you don't want to date him. It's simple.

You don't want to date players. You don't want to date guys who play dumb middle school games with girls.

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