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okay so i really neeed soem help. especially from older girls.
im 15/f and lately ive been getting really bad discharge and it smellsss!
its like yellow and/or clear and its thick
i have to wear pantyliners every day
even with a thong! and change it at least once
i told my mom and she bought me that douche thing but its not working
what wrong with me!?!?
i dont want to have this forever i just want to be able to wear under wear without a pantyliner and without the smell/discahrge going through my pants.

and p.s ive never had any sexual things done to me.

pleasee help!!!!

i don't think there's anything wrong with you. everyone has discharge with a light scent. i think that pantyliners make it worse... seriously. i used to think i needed to wear one but i read somewhere that it does make it smell worse. try just wiping yourself off realy good everytime you go to the bathroom. if it ends up on your underwear, no big deal - we're girls, it does dry. as long as it doesnt go on your pants, which i seriously doubt, you're fine.

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14/f
ive been going out with my boyfriend for not even a month but ive liked him for a really long time we were at the movies the other day and i gave him a hand job..it was my first time and now i feel really slutty and i regret it..is this normal?

Also we said that we werent going to tell ne one and that it was going to be "our little secret" but i really wanna tell my best friend..do u think i should?

you're not a slut... it's normal to feel a little guilty sometimes. don't do it often or just spur of the moment if it makes you feel better.
if it's your secret [and you feel slutty] don't tell your friend about it. word gets around... you wouldn't want him telling your friends would you? just keep to yourself for a while.

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Okay for our yearly band trip we are going to dallas. and we are staying in an embassy suite. Is that a good nice hotel? I come from a weathly family and we usually stay in Waldorfs, Hiltons, Marco Polo, Etc, and i didnt kno what to expect. should i make reservations for myself at anpther hotel or will i be able to deal with it? Thanks and it may seem like i am being snobby but i really am not.

Cody*

well part of going with a band is bonding and being with them so don't ditch... even if its not the amazing hotel you've always stayed at. that, and it might be far away from where everyone else is going which wouldn't be good. i'm pretty sure it's a nice hotel. i stayed in one a few years back and i don't have any complaints. i've stayed in other hotels too so compared to marriots & hampton inns & hiltons, they're still good.

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For Dance class I have to wear black leggings or black cutoff stockings, and black shorts. I'm overweight, and have never worn the leggings, so I'd like to know, do they make people with bigger legs look bigger? Should I get the leggings or stockings, which is more flattering? Thanks!

I would go with the leggings. hosiery pinches your middle (unless you get full body tights). i have big legs too but leggings with shorts shouldn't be too bad. (it could be worse... i have to wear a leo & fishnets for tap...) good luck for your dance class.

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Alright, I found a tube of lip gloss on my desk at school today. well, it was victorias Secret, very expensive, it was a full tube, and it seemed like it was only used a few times!
well, what is the chance of me getting anything if i use it? is it even possible to catch anything, other than maybe being sick, but like disease or antyhing from it?

Don't use it.. yes, you could get sick from it. Vicky's lipgloss isn't that expensive- it's 2 for $10 i believe and they last a really long time so just buy your own. i've gotten some on sale for like $2 once... leave that one there for the person to find.

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okay so like a couple week ago i came down stairs at night to throw my stuff in the wash and like walking down the stairs i saw my brother on the comp like with his hand down his pants and then like when he realized i was coming down he exited a website (wonder what kind that was.. ew.) and moved his hands. and i just like blowed it off. i mean i dont want to say anything. and then i think that happened one or two other times. and i think hes embarrassed or thinks im stupid and like dont know what hes doing (or since i blow it off he prob. thinks i don't realize)but serouisly.. im 14. i know what hes doing..
and TONIGHT. EWW. omg so i came down to get paper from the comp at like 11:00 because tomarrow is bring your child to work day and im not going to school so i decided to stay up late and work on a project. and i saw him like naked or no pants on.. on the comp. and i just looked away and walked into the laundry room. and he liked close a web. and again i blew it off. and like he'll just try to blow it off too. and just ew. i think he knows i know but just tries to act stupid. i never say anything about it. cause. how awqward.
and it just like grosses out because its MY BROTHER. and like hes not exacually the most attractive guyy so that just makes it like 1238 times grosser. ah. this is really disturbing me.



oh yeahh and like he makes it obvouis when hes gonna do it or whatever. like since you know i walk past the comp to get into the laundry room he'll always be like so are you going to do your laundry now? or throw your laundry in now. ill just be like okayyyyy.... because he doesnt want me to come downstairs while hess doing whatever. AH. this is GROSS. im getting distgusted. oh freak. its nasty.



advice? anything?
ew.
thanks for reading this all.

ughhh! well you have some options... do your laundry early, go to bed earlier, have him close a door, warn him beofre you go down there, ask him to wear clothing around the house, tell him to watch something and then jack off in the privacy of his bedroom, tell him to get a video ipod, confront him and agree to stay out of each other's way or just ignore him.

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k so i'm going to my friends house this wkend and the person i like is gonna be there soo i'm gonna drink before so i can be more relaxed and like social i guess... it usually takes me like 12 shots of captains to get drunk but i haven't gotten drunk in like 3 months so idk if my tolerence has gone down. i want to be like tipsy but not really noticably drunk cuz my moms driving me there. i'm female, 5' 4" and 100 lbs by the way.

first off, there is no way your body can hold 12 shots of anything... you're not taking full shots if you're drunk on 12. for someone your size (or even someone 50 lbs. heavier) that's wayyy too much.
drinking won't make the person like you more... you can be social without it.
if you take about 3 regular shots, that would be a good enough buzz...
but really tho, take it from someone who has been there... half the fun is drinking it so just showing up mesed up would make things weird, especially if no one else does.

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So me and my boyfriend's 6month anniversary is on April 30th :) I love him soo much! But that's beyond the question haha.

I have no idea what to get him as a gift..
I was thinking a scrapbook but then I realized I had nooo fricken pictures haha. So I need help bad.


Please, ANY suggestions would help!!

bake him some cupcakes and put some cute inside jokes on each one. don't go too crazy over the anniversary or you'll run out of new things to do quickly!

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when do you think is the best time to make out?

i feel like i do it too much in the worst situations..

movies, alone anywhere, dances, and parties.
don't do it at school, places of worship, middle of the street or anywhere where people will feel awkward.. it's just rude. anywhere alone is fine.

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what are some cute STORES to shop at to get that "scene" look? and what do you combine + stuff like that? lol,thanks.

my friends who are scene shop at hottopic (one works there) and forever 21. it's not like prep where as long as you get everything at a&f you're fine, you have to really look and find things to create the style.

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what are some songs about summer and stuff? for example, summertime by kenny chesney, summer by tasty merc, or in the summer by m something? anyways tell me some other ones besides them. thanks

In the summertime - Mungo Jerry

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Hey! I was wondering, would you all rather get an ipod nano or a coach tote for you 15th bday? thanks!

I'm a big purse fan... and i hate when people are constantly hooked on their ipods & being anti-social so i say the coach purse.

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i weigh 121 and my mom weighs about 125. what i dont understand is that i wear a size 3/4 in pants and she wears a 7? how is this possible? she looks bigger then me when i look at her but then every time we weigh were only about 4 pounds different! i dont get this. someone please explain to me how this is possible

her hips are probably bigger and if she wears different fabrics or cuts/styles, that adds more to the size too.

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I'm getting a new cell phone and I don't know which one of these I should get. Any suggestions?

P.S. I have Verizon if that helps at all.

I have the chocolate and if i had to switch phones, i'd pick the samsung. the keys are really tiny but that's what people say about the chocolate too and i'm used to it.

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ok i have two questions.. at what age do most girl lose their virginity and how far have most girls gone by age 14 or 15

i would love as many answers as possible thanks in advance!

at 15 i had only made out and been touched over the clothes.

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hey I read your profile and i think you could help me:( Well im gonna go short.In DEEPLY in Love with my Best friend but he has a gf.I reallly want to tell him how i feel but im scared:(.plz guys tell me what to do..i really really really like him.Do you think theres something i can do to make him leave her??or i dunno plz just hepl out:'( thx.Larissou

don't tell him.. wait until they break up and then start talking to him seriously and go from there. no one likes a bf stealer. find another guy... life is too short to wait around for guys that are taken.

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so for 4/20 im hanging out with some friends
basically im not popular but i guess i sorta am i dunno how to explain it.
anyways for 420 me and 3 of my friends are hanging out with a few reaaaaaaaally popular guys which is pretty nice.
i dont want to do drugs becasue thats gross, but maybe drink a little. but i dont wanna get drunk. so i need advice for how to act drunk
and since ive never been drunk before, what if my mom calls i probabaly wouldnt pick up but like if you were drunk you wouldnt be able to answer normlally right?
thanks!

don't act drunk for attention... even if the other people are drunk and high, they'll know and remember that you didn't have enough to be (that) drunk, trussst me. others there will hate you, no lie so don't do that. most people can act normal around parents when they're messed up... depends how well they can carry themselves i guess. anything else, lemme know.

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I was searching ebay for a white chanel purse, and I found one that's REALLY cute. it pretty much looks reall, but im not 100% sure.http://cgi.ebay.com/authentic-chanel-purse-beautiful-white-leather_W0QQitemZ190104017355QQihZ009QQcategoryZ63852QQrdZ1QQcmdZViewItem
thats the link, if anyone could help me, thatd be great thanks =]

they answered that question on the page... they said the got it in ny- aka fake handbag city. the lining inside looks like the one in my fake coach purse that i got in NYC. i would say fake but don't take my word on it.

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ok so on friday my friends and i want to get a little buzzed before going to a dance. we are each going to drink one bear. then my mom is going to drive us to the dance. is she going to be able to tell that we were drinking? (by the way we look, smell, or acting?) please don't say I am too young. and any other tips on this please share!

one beer won't do ANYTHING to you. it will just show up on your breath but as for feeling different, you'd have to ACT drunk because it won't even give you a good buzz unless you're about 75 pounds and 13 years old. seriously, you wont be different (unless you act like it on purpose like most people now).
don't drink before dances... 2 girls i know got arrested at a dance (they were drunkkkk) and that sucked for them. i'm not against drinking or whatever but just a warning from someone that's seen it.

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I am going to a school dance this weekenn (not my school, my friend's) and I will not know anyone there but 10 other friends that are going. Anyways, I went to one before and it wasn't much fun. How can I have more fun at the dance? I want to dance with alot of guys to ad have fun with them. I just want to totally break loose, go crazy, and not care what people are thinking. How can I do it?

That happened to me not too long ago at my new school's dance. just stick with the people you and remember that most of the people are too caught up in themselves and drama to notice you if you're doing something weird. maybe you'll meet some new people. most people there wont remember you from dance to dance so let that set you free.

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