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caught brother masturbating. AH.
okay so like a couple week ago i came down stairs at night to throw my stuff in the wash and like walking down the stairs i saw my brother on the comp like with his hand down his pants and then like when he realized i was coming down he exited a website (wonder what kind that was.. ew.) and moved his hands. and i just like blowed it off. i mean i dont want to say anything. and then i think that happened one or two other times. and i think hes embarrassed or thinks im stupid and like dont know what hes doing (or since i blow it off he prob. thinks i don't realize)but serouisly.. im 14. i know what hes doing..
and TONIGHT. EWW. omg so i came down to get paper from the comp at like 11:00 because tomarrow is bring your child to work day and im not going to school so i decided to stay up late and work on a project. and i saw him like naked or no pants on.. on the comp. and i just looked away and walked into the laundry room. and he liked close a web. and again i blew it off. and like he'll just try to blow it off too. and just ew. i think he knows i know but just tries to act stupid. i never say anything about it. cause. how awqward.
and it just like grosses out because its MY BROTHER. and like hes not exacually the most attractive guyy so that just makes it like 1238 times grosser. ah. this is really disturbing me.
oh yeahh and like he makes it obvouis when hes gonna do it or whatever. like since you know i walk past the comp to get into the laundry room he'll always be like so are you going to do your laundry now? or throw your laundry in now. ill just be like okayyyyy.... because he doesnt want me to come downstairs while hess doing whatever. AH. this is GROSS. im getting distgusted. oh freak. its nasty.
advice? anything?
ew.
thanks for reading this all.
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ughhh! well you have some options... do your laundry early, go to bed earlier, have him close a door, warn him beofre you go down there, ask him to wear clothing around the house, tell him to watch something and then jack off in the privacy of his bedroom, tell him to get a video ipod, confront him and agree to stay out of each other's way or just ignore him. <3
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Haha, of course your brother isn't going to be attractive to you. That'd be disgusting, immoral, wrong & possibly incest.
Confront your brother about it. Just tell him how you feel about it. Tell him if he wants to masturbate, then to get a magazine & do it in his room but not at the computer where anyone could possibly walk in on him.
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Confront him. It's a natural thing, but you shouldn't have to see it. And porno websites aren't the greatest either. Tell him that you know what he's doing and you would appreciate it if he took it to his room so you didn't have to see.
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Okay, two things we should know: how old is your brother and does he have his own room?
Anyway, you're right - it's gross! He's touching his penis and then the computer?!?! YUCK. Plus he might be getting fluids all over. NASTY. Is this the family computer?
Here's what I would do about it. I'd ask him to stop doing the act there. Tell him he can look at those sites all he wants as far as you're concerned, but you'd appreciate it if he used a locked bathroom or his room to pleasure himself. Make sure he knows, in no uncertain terms, that you are aware of what he is doing and that it causes you distress.
If he will not promise to take it elsewhere, I would, if I were you, make a lot of noise coming down the stairs, announce myself, and yell something like "It's SISTER and I'm coming down the stairs now, so if there's any smut on the computer or private things going on, please pause the action so I can get my laundry from the laundry room without a show. Thank you." He will likely be embarassed enough by this to stop on his own.
I'd also use Lysol on the keyboard until you're sure it's stopped. Yuck. There is a time and a place for everything and your brother needs to learn that masturbating where his sister can discover him is not appropriate.
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most guys masturbate. most girls do too. its a pretty natural thing. just try to ignore it.
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