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okay so i've heard rumors that if someone has tear drops tattooed under their eye, it means their in a gang or killed someone. is that true? (link)
yes it does mean that you killed someone and you usually get it in jail or after you gotout but it does not represent gang


so, recently, i've been realizing, that, i flirt, wayy tooooo much, wiht like any guy. i can't help it.. its just easy and fun. and i feel HORRIBLE about it. are there any suggestions to help me stop flirting so much, or anything at all?
thanks
14/f (link)
its okay to flirt toomuch it whats makes us human so go ahead and have fun with it but remember when you think its too much justcool off a little bit and backoff and if you cant think of this bit ofperson tht you hate it works for me or think of the person you think is ugly


im sleeping over my friend who's metabolism is the opposite of mine. she eats a ton but is super short & skinny. I'm tall & am skinny cause i watch what i eat. You see i'm sleeping over her house sunday. I'm 13 & no one i know who is my age diets like i do, or diets at all. My life is full of super skinny, great metabolized, eat-a-ton girls. At her house, they order from a restaurant usually. My friend always gets a burger & last time i was there i wasnt dieting so i got chicken fingers/fries. But now my problem is i dont want to be rude but i dont know what to order. i think salads are usually expensive & ill be embarassing telling her family i really watch what i eat. my friend has a jacuzzi also & we usually put on our bikinis & Jump on in after dinner. my friend loves deserts so she'll ask if i want a milkshake from the restaurant. for breakfast on sundays, they make eggs, bacon, sausage & pancakes. what should i do? i dont want to seem rude but i need to keep my diet. help!! please do so ASAP
~EAS (link)
well when they offer you something don't take it in both ways you will still keep your diet and be nice.then when you get home eat what you want or need to.or bring food that you want to eat to your friends house.


ok so iam a 16/f and i recently broke up with my boyfriend because he couldn't believe that i trusted him... so i told him its over.. and then i told one of our friends that i wanted to go back out with him and she told me that he said he doesn't date his exes... o yah and also he started being mean t o me in class and like he was calling me stupid and i was like your just saying that because i broke up with you.. well why is he mean to me now? and i still like him and he doesn't want me back so what should i do? (link)
no don't go back out with this guy if he doesn't want you then back off.


I am 15. My boyfriend, 'Danny' is 17. We have been going out for 6 months. I really like him, and he is really sweet. But lately, he has been acting strange. He rarely talks to me outside of class or hugs me. He doesn't call anymore, talk to any of my friends, and has just been aloof. At first, I was worried, until my friend said she saw him hugging some girl (who dislikes me) and making out with her and hanging with her friends (who dislike me also since their ringleader does). I'm pretty sure he wants to break up with me, but I don't know why, since I don't know if what my friend said is true. should I confront him about it, and how? Or should I just let it go and move on? (link)
well tell him to be open to you and if you and him really like each other he would have not done this to you.and get your friends to sneak around him and to see what he really is doing.


so theres this guy who im really good friends with, and we both really like eachother. but his parents hate my guts. they think im a bad influence on him. hes 16 and im 14. (please dont tell me it wont work because of the age.)
they hate me because me and him were aguing about the difference between some inappropriate things, and his sister, whs a total bitch read the IM and told his parents. now im not allowed to chill with him at all, in order to go out we have to sneak around and bend rules all the time and im so tired of it.
what are some good ways to get his parents to let us hang out? id really like some fast tips, cause im going to universal next friday and i really want him to come (link)
Well tell him to tell his parents to tell them good things about you and that argument was just you and him playing around an get him to tell his parents that you are truely a good person.


Hey i'm 17f, and work at a small restrant. The bosses son is about 19/20 y.o. He always looks at me when im at work and comes and talks to me, gets stuff like drinks... (he dosn't do this for any one els).... I like him verry much, he's realy nice and realy good looking.

The problem is next week he's goig away to europ and i wont see him for a month and a half... tomorows the last day i will see him until he comes back, and i would realy like to keep in contact with him.

should i ask him for his e-mail? If so how could i bring it up?... thanks (link)
since you like him alot ask him for his email like this:well i heard you were going away and i really enjoy talking to you and i just want to keep in touch with you so can you give me your email address so i can talk to you.BUT DO NOT SOUND TOO DESPARET OR HE WILL NOT GIVE IT TO YOU.


okay so like a couple week ago i came down stairs at night to throw my stuff in the wash and like walking down the stairs i saw my brother on the comp like with his hand down his pants and then like when he realized i was coming down he exited a website (wonder what kind that was.. ew.) and moved his hands. and i just like blowed it off. i mean i dont want to say anything. and then i think that happened one or two other times. and i think hes embarrassed or thinks im stupid and like dont know what hes doing (or since i blow it off he prob. thinks i don't realize)but serouisly.. im 14. i know what hes doing..
and TONIGHT. EWW. omg so i came down to get paper from the comp at like 11:00 because tomarrow is bring your child to work day and im not going to school so i decided to stay up late and work on a project. and i saw him like naked or no pants on.. on the comp. and i just looked away and walked into the laundry room. and he liked close a web. and again i blew it off. and like he'll just try to blow it off too. and just ew. i think he knows i know but just tries to act stupid. i never say anything about it. cause. how awqward.
and it just like grosses out because its MY BROTHER. and like hes not exacually the most attractive guyy so that just makes it like 1238 times grosser. ah. this is really disturbing me.



oh yeahh and like he makes it obvouis when hes gonna do it or whatever. like since you know i walk past the comp to get into the laundry room he'll always be like so are you going to do your laundry now? or throw your laundry in now. ill just be like okayyyyy.... because he doesnt want me to come downstairs while hess doing whatever. AH. this is GROSS. im getting distgusted. oh freak. its nasty.



advice? anything?
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thanks for reading this all. (link)
what is your question?


The Worlds Hardest Riddle


I turn polar bears white
and I will make you cry.
I make guys have to pee
and girls comb their hair.
I make celebrities look stupid
and normal people look like celebrities.
I turn pancakes brown
and make your champane bubble.
If you sqeeze me, I'll pop.
If you look at me, you'll pop.



Can anyone figure it out and tell me! thanks! (link)
there are too many answers so it does not have one


i have this big problem. there is this girl, her name is alica. she is a freind, and now i wanna be more than freinds but like everything else in my life there is problem. she has a boyfreind, and he lives with me. before i begain to like her like her i was cool with just being freinds. but she was there for me when another girl broke my heart. she was there for me. she gave me advice, and told me there is someone out thier for me. i also have problems with my dad she is there for me for that. we get a long great we have everything in common, she told me she likes hang out with me and i like hanging with her. this week has been hell for me, if it hasn't been for her i would have killed my self. and when im with her all my worries go away. what should i do i know its wrong, i say no but my consous says yes. plus i pray to god that they break up. the boyfrind always gets a girlfreind i don't. i have not had one in 5 years. in that time the boyfreind had 3 kids. plus she told me she is annoyed with him because he is over effesionate. she hates that and tells him to stop. this is really killing me. i've been doing a lote of criyng cause i never had these strong feelings for someone. and i dont cry ever. please tell me what to do. (link)
well tell her straight up how you feel and try to get some feelings from her and try to at least get them to stop talking for a while then when that happens you take that chance and she is all yours but don't let the boyfriend know.get her to start liking you and get used to you then start to uncover dark secrets.


My friend is having a family crisis and her life is falling apart. I've tried comforting her, since I know how it feels. I feel so helpless, though, as if I could do more to help her. Should I call to make sure she's alrite or just give her space? I'm so worried about her. What should I do to help? Thanks in advance. (link)
tell her to ask some sychatrist to help her or let her smoothen out and wait but still be there for her when she needs you most.


Hey everyone, I am 13/f (in eighth grade). So I have this crush on a guy, I have liked him for over a year, hes so funny, I have a feeling he likes me cause its seems like he talks to me whenever he has a chance, and I don't know I just can sense it. What should I do, there is a formal coming up, should I ask him? One of my biggest fears is rejection, and if he rejected me, I don't think I would be able to handle it! HELP, THANKS (link)
just ask some friends to ask him if he likes you and if he does then ask him to the formal and if he doesn't then just ask him if he wants to go with you as friends and go with other people.


I am a bit nervous, and I hope someone can help me. I have never had a regular period, I don't know why, but it's never the same time of month and sometimes I skip a month. So I never really know when it is going to start. I have had my period for 8 years now. Anyway, last night I went to the restroom and there was a little blood, just a few spots. I just thought I had started, though it was weird because normally when I first start it is heavy. Well today, I haven't bled at all. What could that have been? Is something wrong with me? I have heard of girls spotting before, but I don't remember the reason and if it's even close to normal? Does this mean I have started? or is it something else? Thanks anyone who can help me : )
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well if you go to school go to your nurse and tell them that you think that something is wrong or try to look up mybody.com and see what they tell you.




How do i change the background on my view more pictures? (link)
you can't.


hey i am 15/f and i am a really depressed person i have a really really low self esteme and i don't know why i mean i am not ugly but sometimes i feel like i am and feel that i can't go anywhere because of the way i look i feel like i would look grose to people even though there is nothing wrong with me and alot of people like me and alot of people think i am really pretty but sometimes i just don't see it
can you help me find someways that will help me see that i am not ugly
how can i look at myself and actually like the way i look for once (link)
well why should you care about what what other people think just hang out with a group like you but if you are a loner then just ignore them and hang out with friends YOU have a good time with.


i love my best friend [aka. Barley] but she's so annoying..what should i do? HELP!
(link)
Tell her how you really feel and help her change her ways.


Hi.
I am doing a science fair project on if the habitat of a monkey effects its tail length and purpose (prehensile, non prehensile) and I look at New World and Old World monkeys. I am trying to think up a catchy title (NOT question, title) for the projct that might catch peoples eyes.
I need answers fast
Thanks!:)
-YOLIV (link)
think of something odd,but still gets someone's attention and makes sense.write it big and bold and put something sparkly or something that stands out.examples:
1.MONKEY'S TAIL.MONKEY'S HABITAT
2.LOOK AT THAT TAIL!LOOK AT THAT HABITAT!



Hey there,

Tomorrow's my prom night, and I'm really excited.
Of course I want to be dancing with my date, and I'm confident enough that I don't mind if I look like a loser, and I know I'll get out there and actually dance.

Problem is that I never really got any good. I still dance like a white boy.

Are there any general tips I can be thinking about when I'm out there, just for casual hanging-out dancing?

Thanks. (link)
well does it really matter what she thinks just go ahead and do your thing and if she laughs make it look like you are just playing around or something.


how can you search for someone's name on yahoo! mail? this girl wants me to send her something but i totally forget her email address- i remember it was at yahoo mail though. PLEASE HELP! (link)
everytime you talk to a person and you are asking info questions then bring some small piece of paper or write it down.


i have lipstick i like, but it never stays on. is there something i can put over it (like a lcear gloss, etc) that well make it stay on longer??? (link)
just ask somone to borrow a little clear lipgloss than put it on and make sure you don't do much with your lips and pay close attention,but not too much.




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