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his parents hate me!
so theres this guy who im really good friends with, and we both really like eachother. but his parents hate my guts. they think im a bad influence on him. hes 16 and im 14. (please dont tell me it wont work because of the age.)
they hate me because me and him were aguing about the difference between some inappropriate things, and his sister, whs a total bitch read the IM and told his parents. now im not allowed to chill with him at all, in order to go out we have to sneak around and bend rules all the time and im so tired of it.
what are some good ways to get his parents to let us hang out? id really like some fast tips, cause im going to universal next friday and i really want him to come
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Talk to his parents and tell them that acting that way towards you is kind of unfair seeing as how their son was talking about the same things with the same sort of language.
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Well tell him to tell his parents to tell them good things about you and that argument was just you and him playing around an get him to tell his parents that you are truely a good person.
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okay this is answering what you just sent me. since his mom in my opionion seems like a b*tch id just have the guy tell his mom hes going with a couple friends. i mean seriously wats one little white lie gonna hurt (this might be really bad advice but thats wat id do)
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I sense this will get me a bad rating, but I don't really care.
The only way to GET someone's trust is to EARN it. It sounds to me like you don't care how they feel about you as long as you get to be with this guy.
If you actually like him you'll try to get along with his parents. And in order to do that you'll have to prove it to them that you aren't a bad influence on this guy.
Also, I know he's 2 years older than you, but maybe you should ask yourself if you ARE a bad influence on him. Women (or in your case, girls) tend to have a power over guys, and if you're coercing him into sneaking out of the house and breaking his parents' rules when he wouldn't have before, then maybe you are a bad influence on him.
Sneaking out of the house is plain immature. Other than that, it's really stupid on your part. If his parents caught him sneaking around with you or somehow found out, then that would prove to them that you shouldn't be around their son.
They are his parents. They deserve respect. Once you give them respect, you'll get it back from them. You need to be responsible and figure out a way to prove them wrong instead of proving their point.
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