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I have come to fall in love with my best friend.
We almost went out about six months ago but his ex girlfriend came in the picture and stole him away. Then they broke up about two months ago.
I have the password to his account..and I sometimes go in there and check up on him and this girl he's been hanging out with, sent him an email, and said "last night if I would of asked you to kiss me would you of said no?"..
he said "I wouldn't of said no".
its like I've done everything for that boy and been there for him when no one will and yet the thing never goes across his head that "hey I'm looking for love in all the wrong places its been right in front of me the whole time!"
but that just hurts me and I can't approach him about it because thats such in invasion of privacy but the way I see it is I would be blindly chasing after him and get hurt and so I'm being the smarter one here and seeing what he is up to.
he hides him hanging out with girls from me! like if I ask him what he is doing, he'll say he's going here or he's going there when he really goes over to a girls house.
I'm just not sure what to do. Help!!
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i think you should talk to him maybe not bluntly but be like hypathetically i like this guy and he doesnt even realize how much i care about him ect ect and if he still doesnt realize it well that boys a lil slow :laughs:
and maybe why hes not telling you about going to a girls house is because maybe he knows you like him. i dont know there might be that possoblity.
talk to him, who knows maybe he's just afraid that it would mess up your friendship
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I am 15. My boyfriend, 'Danny' is 17. We have been going out for 6 months. I really like him, and he is really sweet. But lately, he has been acting strange. He rarely talks to me outside of class or hugs me. He doesn't call anymore, talk to any of my friends, and has just been aloof. At first, I was worried, until my friend said she saw him hugging some girl (who dislikes me) and making out with her and hanging with her friends (who dislike me also since their ringleader does). I'm pretty sure he wants to break up with me, but I don't know why, since I don't know if what my friend said is true. should I confront him about it, and how? Or should I just let it go and move on? (link)
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i think you should talk to him. in school just go up to him and say can i talk you and flat out ask him if he was making out with this girl. because i think you deserve an explanation if this guy is cheating on you and if he says yes id break up with him even if you like him a lot you dont deserve to be cheated on you are worth a lot more then that
hope all works out
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i have my school dance tonight and i have the worst halter swimsuit tan and im wearing a pink tubetob neckline spaghetti strapped dress if that makes sense. so is there any kind of spray on color smoother or something i can use quickly without getting a tan? and i could get it a drugstore or something? (link)
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can you go to a store and buy tanning stuff and try to even out the whole freakish tan. or if not you could always go to a tanning place and theyd fix it for you
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okay..so i cannot eat right now. like i put food in my mouth andd im hungry but i can't swallow it. i feel fat, and i know im relaly not..that might be why im not eating. idk what im asking i just need some advice.. thanks ♥ :] (link)
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maybe something is going on with you right now that is making you so i want to say depressed but im not sure if thats the right word. if something is going on with you i think you should talk to someone you really trust and tell him/her everything on your mind and hope it helps.
you should eat. even if its something that has no taste like sucking on ice or eating JuJu bees (they are so good and theyr fat free) its better then nothing.
i hope everything works out and if you still want to talk feel free to message me.
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Alright, well i've been with my boyfriend for awhile now and we're really close. I want to have sex with him but i'm a virgin and hes not. The problem is I don't want to give away my virginity knowing he already lost his. It means a lot to me and if this wasn't such a problem we would have probably already done it. I know if we do do it now, the only thing on my mind will be how much I wish I was getting his.. is there something wrong with me? How can I get over this? (link)
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no there is nothing wrong with you. its completly normal to be a little hesitant to give your bf ur virginity knowing your not getting his. i think you should talk to him about it, if he cares about you as much as you care about him i think he'll understand and tell you whats going on his mind too. Who knows he could be as nervous as you or he he wishes he would have waited so he lost his virginity to you too.
hope it all works out
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I am goin to my friend's sweet sixteen at a country club. What would be better to wear:
1) a sundress
2) a skirt with a top
i don't really want to go all out. i want to look hot, cute, you know. Any other suggestions will help! (link)
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sundress! you really cant go wrong with a nice sun dress n cutee flip flops or sandles
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so theres this guy who im really good friends with, and we both really like eachother. but his parents hate my guts. they think im a bad influence on him. hes 16 and im 14. (please dont tell me it wont work because of the age.)
they hate me because me and him were aguing about the difference between some inappropriate things, and his sister, whs a total bitch read the IM and told his parents. now im not allowed to chill with him at all, in order to go out we have to sneak around and bend rules all the time and im so tired of it.
what are some good ways to get his parents to let us hang out? id really like some fast tips, cause im going to universal next friday and i really want him to come (link)
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okay this is answering what you just sent me. since his mom in my opionion seems like a b*tch id just have the guy tell his mom hes going with a couple friends. i mean seriously wats one little white lie gonna hurt (this might be really bad advice but thats wat id do)
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im a girl age 14 turning 15 and well all the guys say i play hard to get and everytime i hang out with guys theres always at least one guy thats like lets do stuff or something and i wont do it and untill maybee laterr and i was wondering do guys like when girls play hard to get? please tell me.
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sometimes guys do like girls who are hard to get but not to an extent that you still are playing hard to get like 2 months after he asked you. also it depends on the guy. some guys really like when a girl plays hard to get but if a sorta shy guy asks you out or something then i dont think hes someone who likes girls who play hard to get. it all depends on the guy and how long you play.
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My mom said sometimes I act ditzy, or dumb. but i don't. i'm just being silly. thats how i am. i make jokes out of everything, and i smile alot and talk alot. and i was telling my mom, how this one girl, got like all mad because i dno whatever i said, and she told me that i have to change how i am around certain people. but i'm having a hard time agreeing with that. like why should i change who i am, just to impress someone? or anything? shouldnt i be who i completely am, all the time. i dont think its right that i should have to, be more quit, or not laugh as much or whatever, just for someone to like me.
what do you think? do you think im being wrong about this? (link)
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okay there r spefic times to calm down n be serious but just around your house or your mom i say dont chnage how you are just because someone doesnt like it even if it is your mom. dont change for anyone
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hello my name is rick barton
heres how it all started i have a freind who helped me out with two things the frist one was when i like a girl i mean really like her until she broke my heart she knew i like her, she said she would go out with me i kept on asking and she said no all the time. then one night when alica was over we were talking then meghan text me from my phone and told me that i don't want to ever go out with you and we should just be freinds. well i was devasated. and i relized she was using me. i ask her to go out and she said no but she asked me for something and i said yes. alica was there and told me you don't desirve her, your a nice guy and shes a female dog. just forget abouy her. then she told me if i needed anything just let her know. then i had problems with my dad. see my mom and i left him because he was very abusave. any way monday he said something so bad i cant even repeat it. i was very hurt. i needed to talk to someone i could trust. it was alica. she help me that night. so that night i texted her saying thanking her for her help. then i told her after talking to her i didn't want to take my own life. she said i'm glad your a nice guy i would miss you terblity if you would do that. i said really. she said yeah i love being arouind you. i told her i loved being around her. from that point i wanted to be more than just freinds.
you may think well thats not so bad. well heres the f up situation i always find myself in. she has a boyfreind who just happens to life at my house. i know its wrong. i say no but my conscious says yes. i also kno that its wrong but i pray to god that they break up. see he can get a girl quicker than a fatman eating a hotdog in a hotdog eatan contest. me no i havent had a girl freind in six years. in that time span hes had 10 girls, 3 to 4 kids and two broken incagements. thats why i pray to god for them to break up.
she tells me that she sick of him being over effectioate. she hates it she tells him to stop but he don't. also she hate the fact that he is a mamas boy. when we are haning out when he come around it looks like shes annoyed. when he leaves she says thank god. i go he annoys you dont he. she goes yeah. is that a good thing for me? owe yeah the other night the three of us were playing truth or dare she asked me on a truth these questions would you quit smoking for a girl that you went out with (cause she wants trying to quit smoking) and i go yes. then she said would you ask me out. i said yes, she answered i would say yes. does that mean she is inteasted? i really like her. i never felt this way before. i'm 21 years old and lately i've been crying because i want to be with her. the fact that the next day they break up he will have a new girl. i pray saying why can't you just have them break up. and i know thats jelously. but i'm 21 years old. i never cry. i make her laugh, and as i said we enjoy each others company. but i don't know what to do should i leave it along or go for it? if it wasnt for her i would have killed myself cause of my dad. im just so confused. i never had these feelings for a gorl like this. please im begging you for your help!
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okay truthfully i think you should talk to the guy you live with. since they dont really seem to be hitting it off to me i think if you talked to him and they broke up you 2 would have a real shot. Plus he doesnt seem to care about her as much as you do, you cry because you want something you dont think you can have since shes taken. if the guy wont break up with her or he wont listen to you talk to the girl. she seems really nice and i think she would listen to anyone especially you since you guys are close.
hope it all works out!
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Well sorry this is sort of long anywho i recently did some things that i know i shouldnt have done so i will just come out and say it but know this first i have never done drugs or anything bad until now but i drank alcohol and smoked cigarettes now these might not seem that bad to some people but it kinda of is to me because i have always promised myself i would never get into drugs and drinking and smoking and that stuff cause i always thought it was gross but alot of people at my school do it and i'm kinda overweight so i'm really not that cool and so i guess i thought if i did these things people would stop teasing me and all that stuff once they new i did these things but then i never came through to tell many people just myclosest friends cause i was kind of embarrassed about it and i know i made that big mistake but i feel like i needed to do it i dont know why and so now i'm kind of disgusted by myself for doing those things so my quetion is, is how can i stop wanting to do bad things like hurting myself like this and stop cutting my wrists and be more happy now before you answer this please i dont need any lecturing you will just make me feel worse and less of myself so please dont and if you have had experiences like this or with drugs and smoking and drinking please share it might help me (link)
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i dont have experience in drugs but i do with smoking. when i was 10 i started smoking because of a lot of bad stuff going on in my life. i smoked for about a year and one day my sisters caught me. what helped me is whenever i saw a cigerate i ripped it in half and reminded myself i dont need it to feel complete. because honestly, smoking will not make people stop making fun of you. if anything it just gives people more reason to actually, they could say you were only doing it to become cool (not a lecture im just saying)
hope it helped a lil
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Hi well I have noticed I have like dimples at the top of my thighs below my but, there not overly noticeable but yano I notice them, and I want them removed. Can you guys think of exercise that can make hem dissaper. I want them gone before july, so I can just walk around in my bikini not self conciously
Also lower stomach I want it as toned as the top, what exercises should I do.
Thanks in advance!!!
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wait r you talking bout dimples or stretch marks? because if its stretch marks you can put coconut oil on it and it helps it disappear. also an exercise you could do is lie on ur side and keep lifting your legs up like 1 day you do it 10 times on each leg next day you do it 15 times on each leg ect ect.
hope it helped
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i'm doing an essay on different medicines.. what kind of medicine (like aspirin or tylenol ect..) will make you pass out if you overdose on it? (link)
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asprin n tylenol definatly! but also nyquil, seizure medications ex keepra. and those are the ones i know definatly.
hope it helped
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Ok so i'm in middles school and this year is almost over and i'll be in high school next year and of course i've been all about guys for a while now and it's kinda driving me crazy because all i can think about is if i like a guy and if he likes me and all that but well bascially my question is would it be better to figure myself out first and figure out who i really am first then worry about guys? (link)
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truthfully i think figuring yourself out is better. guys arent everything and if they are to you maybe stick with a friendship with the guy you like first while u figure yourself out so you sorta get both even if your not dating a guy you like you're still in his life.
hope it helped!
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My friend is having a family crisis and her life is falling apart. I've tried comforting her, since I know how it feels. I feel so helpless, though, as if I could do more to help her. Should I call to make sure she's alrite or just give her space? I'm so worried about her. What should I do to help? Thanks in advance. (link)
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if her life is faling a part i think you being by her side would maybe help her and make her realize you are there for her to catch her if shes about to fall no matter wat. Id call her to make sure shes alright but no like every 5 min. in an annoying way. Be there for her but dont go too far.
hope that helped!
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how do i know if i cum?
Guy's can tell when they cum but i'm not sure what it feels like for a women. (link)
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yea u kinda can just know when u do
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My boyfriend used to be a huge drugaddict. When we first started dating, I told him that if he started that stuff again I was done. It's been 7 months, and now he wants to get back into them. Things such as coke and heroine. I honestly love him to death, but it seems like hes choosing these things over me now. I have no clue what to do.
help please?
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well i think maybe he should get some help maybeb u can take him to meetings or whatever and if he refuses to go then id ask him to choose u or drugs n if he chooses drugs id leave because maybe thats the best thing you could do for him
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Ok so i was just wondering...if we overdose on advil or something what will happen? and about how many do you have to take to get overdosed (link)
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yes you can overdose on advile but u would need to like have a whole bottle to actually die. but even if u dont have a whole bottle they are easy to get addicted to so i hope you are careful!
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so i liked this guy(he will be called A)over the summer A told me he liked me and he would always say really sweet things (we never really talked on the phone all we did was txt) well one night A ask for some pics of my boobs so i give him the pics after he tlks me into it and just bout every night he asked for pics so i gave him the pic. he said how he wouldnt show anyone well when school starts i found out that he did show people. to make a long story short i still liked him after that and he knew it(we also messed around twcie after i found out bout the pics n stuff) so i think i am over him now. so i was talking to his friend (i will call him B) B asked for pics n i gave hime some after he talked me into it.i really like B alot and he said that we sould be special friends (like friends wit benifits)i really wanna tell B that i want a relationship cuz im tired of getting hurt but i dont wanna sound corny bout it u kno..if anyome has advice please give me some!!! (link)
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aw sweetie you and me have the same problem :laughs: what i think you should do is tell him you like him and you don't want to just be the girl that sends guys pictures of your boobs. and if he cant accept that well id just say then i cant be ur special friend, because you are worth more then that (now that sounds corny but its true)
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Ok tomorow is my friends get together with the most popular guys in the 8th grade and im in 7th. I know this guy wants to make out with me whcih im a liitle freaked out but thats not what im worried about. I have no idea what to wear. I have these really cute shirts but i can't decide. Please pick your favorite!
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_328235_-1_12648_12635
but this is in yellow
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_333643_-1_12622_12552
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_332640_-1_12647_12635
Be honestt!! hurry please
and thanks ahead! (link)
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i LOVE the last one! its so cute. if i were you id choose that one.
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