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Best friend
I have come to fall in love with my best friend.
We almost went out about six months ago but his ex girlfriend came in the picture and stole him away. Then they broke up about two months ago.
I have the password to his account..and I sometimes go in there and check up on him and this girl he's been hanging out with, sent him an email, and said "last night if I would of asked you to kiss me would you of said no?"..
he said "I wouldn't of said no".
its like I've done everything for that boy and been there for him when no one will and yet the thing never goes across his head that "hey I'm looking for love in all the wrong places its been right in front of me the whole time!"
but that just hurts me and I can't approach him about it because thats such in invasion of privacy but the way I see it is I would be blindly chasing after him and get hurt and so I'm being the smarter one here and seeing what he is up to.
he hides him hanging out with girls from me! like if I ask him what he is doing, he'll say he's going here or he's going there when he really goes over to a girls house.
I'm just not sure what to do. Help!!
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Tell him how you feel. Tell him he's looking for love in the wrong places. Scream it to him if you have to. Just tell him because he'll never know, and he'll forever be completely oblivious to it. Whether you dated or not, he still deserves to know again.
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i think you should talk to him maybe not bluntly but be like hypathetically i like this guy and he doesnt even realize how much i care about him ect ect and if he still doesnt realize it well that boys a lil slow :laughs:
and maybe why hes not telling you about going to a girls house is because maybe he knows you like him. i dont know there might be that possoblity.
talk to him, who knows maybe he's just afraid that it would mess up your friendship
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hey i know how you feel.
this kinda thing really hurts, its like he doesnt realize how much he means to you and that he and you would be great together and you would love him and u get along great so why shouldnt you be a couple?
sadly, no matter how hard we try, sometimes the guy that we want may never see us in that kind of way. maybe he just sees you as a friend. maybe hes afraid if you go out it will mess up ur friendship. maybe he likes you too but hes afraid you dont like him. there are many possibiblities but the only way to know for sure is to tell him how you feel. tell him that you have feelings for him if you havent already told him.
im in the same situation. my best friend means the world to me and i guess he doesnt see me or something but that is only because i havent been completely honest about my feelings. how can i expect him to give me an answer to a question ive never asked him.
i say to avoid making things awkward you say something like this:
you: do you like me?
him: well as a friend
you: ok good i thought you were mad at me or something.
that way if he says he doesnt like you it wont make anything awkward. and if he says he does then tell him you do too. and if he does say that he only sees you as a friend then you should really try to move on. ive been hurting myself since january over a guy that never liked me but maybe now he does. the only way to find out is by asking him. and i think i need to ask him too. trust me i know this is hard on you. heartbreak is the worst pain ive ever known. but if you ever need anything at all feel free to leave me a message, k? and if you have A I M we can chat. ok i wish you the best of luck. =)
SAM
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