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playing hard to get.
im a girl age 14 turning 15 and well all the guys say i play hard to get and everytime i hang out with guys theres always at least one guy thats like lets do stuff or something and i wont do it and untill maybee laterr and i was wondering do guys like when girls play hard to get? please tell me.
--angie
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Guys do like a bit of mystery. They want to be in suspense with where your relationship may lead but they don't want to be lead on then dumped on then flirted with then totally stopped talked to then fooled around with at your leisure. A little hard to get isn't so bad because guys want to have to try a little but if you're jumping around with his head, he's going to lose interest fast.
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It depends on the guy..all guys are different. ♥
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Some do and some don't. It just depends on the guy.If you'd like, you can just flat out ask them if they like it. And by the way, my name's Angela, kinda like yours. :p
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hey Angie!
Well there are two types of guys out there, patient and impatient. If you get one who wants to go out with you now, and you're like maybe later, and he trys again and you're like oh I'm busy, then he thinks you don't like him and moves on. And that would suck right? So I think that a rule of thumb for playing hard to get is only once. If you say that you're busy the first time, the second time say yeah that'd be cool. Otherwise you'll lose half the awesome guys.
Yeah you might make the guys who are patient and want the hard to get girls, think yopu're too easy, but if you try and object once the second time should be okay. Everyone says third times a charm, but some guys wil ditch by then, hope I helpped, love ya,
Angie91
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sometimes guys do like girls who are hard to get but not to an extent that you still are playing hard to get like 2 months after he asked you. also it depends on the guy. some guys really like when a girl plays hard to get but if a sorta shy guy asks you out or something then i dont think hes someone who likes girls who play hard to get. it all depends on the guy and how long you play.
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dropkickcathy got it right on the dot.
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Some do others don't. Some love it, it's like teasing them. But if you play hard to get for too long, they could get frustrated and begin to lose interest.
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