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Im in a relationship that i would not give up for anything!I truly know that she is the one!Also im only 16 and ive been through more stuff than most 30yr old ppl.i live in Fl. and im in high school.i love sports especially basketball.That is about it.Just onelast thing.....I LOVE YOU CATHY!

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In 8th grade I started liking this guy that my friend liked. We hung out all the time then and were good friends. My friend told him I liked him and he said cool. I went back and told him and we really didn't talk after that. Now We aren't reall yfriends anymore and Ireally never talk to him anymore, but I have to see him everyday at school. What do I do, how do I stop liking him?

i know somebody that could answer that better than me. dropkickcathy she is on my fav. columist list. ask her and she can help you with that.

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i was wondering what time of the month you can most likly get pregnant and when its least likly, like is it more likley right b4 your period or right after, or what, thanks

its more likley right before your period.

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i really want to lose some weight in my legs,thighs and stomach.and just tone up all my body.going into the summer i really want to get back into shape.during the winter i have got flabby in my stomach and thighs which i never had.
i dont look tubby its just i feel i do need to lose weight.im tall for my age.

if you could give me exercises that i could do it would be great.

crunches-abs
lay on your back and hold your legs up 6in off the ground for 10 seconds in sets of 10-thighs, abs.
squats-thighs and abs
put anckle waights on [3-5pounds]and lift your leg to the side and to the front-=thighs and butt.
jogging or walking-cardieovascular
lifting small waights like three pounds not to build muscle but to lose fat in your arms.

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19 f
ok so ive recently gotten a boyfriend and hes really special to me. I also have my friends. theyve both met but thats pretty much it. I feel bad if i go out with him and leave my friend out yet on the other hand were in our first stages of still getting to know each other. I dont want her to be mad at me...ahh any advice would help thanks!

you should make a schedual dividing the week up evenly.it shouldent take to long b4 u can hang out with them both at the same time.but untill then talk to your friends about it, make sure they understand.

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Can anyone explain to me why, after you get a shot, your immune system is weaker?

Just curious.

the stuff in the shot is forighn to your body so all your body defences try to kill it but it is to strong.so the shot cures what it needs to but it leaves everything else vonerable.

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19 f
ok so me and my boyfriend had sex last night and he went in really deep. im just curious if its normal for a girl to look bloated like the day after

that has never happend 2 my girlfriend so i think you should look into it a little more than just this site.

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so im trying to loose some weight in 3 weeks. i dont expect to have a perfect body or anything like that. just to feel better about myself. i mainly want to loose weight & get in shape in the hips thighs & arms area. My thighs touch, & thats one of the things im most self concious about.I will be swimming laps for an hour every mon thru friday till then. so any tips?

for your thighs squats and laying on your back and holding your legs up 6in off the ground in sets of 10 seconds will work.

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i need some new songs NEW only pleasee mostly rap some rock would be okay too =] thankss

bow wow outta my system,mike jones mr jones,solja boy highsmen on that hoe, throw somes d's remix,lloyd get it shawty,shop boys party like a rockstar

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[15/f] i keep gettin my period really late a lot lately. like i always know when im gonna get it but lately its like way outta wack. is it cause of stress? [i've been getting a lot of shit from my friends lately and there's this huge thing going on between me and my exbf.] plzz plzz help. thnx.

it could be that but most of the time thats because your hormones are unballenced.

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whats a good website, with cute purses? but arnt that expensivee? well, i mean i dont want a cheap purse, like 10 dollars. but like 50 or something..

google it

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okay so i really neeed soem help. especially from older girls.
im 15/f and lately ive been getting really bad discharge and it smellsss!
its like yellow and/or clear and its thick
i have to wear pantyliners every day
even with a thong! and change it at least once
i told my mom and she bought me that douche thing but its not working
what wrong with me!?!?
i dont want to have this forever i just want to be able to wear under wear without a pantyliner and without the smell/discahrge going through my pants.

and p.s ive never had any sexual things done to me.

pleasee help!!!!

it could be yeast infection but im not sure you should talk to your doc about it. and you should not put it off.

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my calves or w/e u call them shins or sumthin are small...ALOT smaller than my thighs!!!! my thighs are SOOO BIG!!! are there any exercise/movements i can do with them to make them smaller p.s. i am in track and its not working thanx :D

yes squats,and laying on your back and holding your legs up 6in. off the ground in sets of 10 seconds will help you.;

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Hey guys, I know it is not advice I need, but please help me out.

I have a monitor right?

But the image on my screen is not utilising the entire monitor.

There is aabout an inch border on each side of the monitor. How do I correct this?

right click your screen and go to properties then there should something that says something about size go to it and it says something like 800x900. expiriment by trying differ sizes untill u like the outcome.

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my scanner, just got working, is a microtek one. when i put a picture down i press the scanner symbol. then i go to the program for the scanner and the picture just shows up as colored pixils with an outline for the picture. what the heck can i do?

r u trying to get rid of the outline or make it black & white?

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do you lose calories when you cry? haha weird question

not really unless your hyperventalating really bad.

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My boyfriend always wants to talk to me but he never calls me he just likes to text and talk on AIM. At first I just thought he was scared but he always does it, and I've nagged him before and I call him but he never answers I don't want to keep nagging, but I don't like wasting my texts when I could just be on the phone!

some guys dont like being on the phone for many reasons.he might be avoiding long oquard silences. also he might want to be very carefull about what he is saying to you so he proofreads what he says before he says it.

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I just bought Avril's new CD. I realized it was edited. Some words were clearly noticeable, but one I just noticed now -- For example, in Everything Back But You, she says "Hey hey psycho babe" when I found out she REALLY says, in the unedited version, "Bitch, slut, psycho babe" Whats up with this?! I searched EVERYWHERE for a part on the CD saying this CD was a clean version! Honestly I hate it. When they just block out words, you can clearly tell. It bugs me. Its too late to return the CD, but is it supposed to be like this, and why? Even the little book inside, with the lyrics inside are edited!

new music now days is always like that. all the edits are for are young children that their parents dont want them to hear those words.their is nothing wrong with the cd, editing is just covering up bad words.

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Yesterday at work I was in the breakroom with Laurie, Torry, and Andy. Laurie says to me Nancy is supposed to meet Laurie and if I see Nancy I should tell her that Laurie will be finished with lunch in about 20 minutes. Also Laurie said Nancy looked like me and talked like me. When I saw Nancy I was a little bit insulted because Nancy is pretty and not pretty. Nancy had short cropped hair and black glasses that pointed at the side. Later on I was talking to Laurie and Laurie looked at me and said;you know you are better looking then Nancy and younger looking. Then last night I had to call Laurie to remind her of her appointment today and innocently asked; What did you say I looked like Nancy or I dont; and Laurie said; You are better looking and younger looking then Nancy. KEEP IN MIND I WAS TOLD BY PEOPLE THAT I COULD BE A COVER GIRL AND SARA (A COWORKER) TOLD ME ON THURSDAY THAT I AM PRETTY. MY QUESTION:SHOULD I BE INSULTED BY LAURIES ORIGINAL COMMENT THAT I LOOK LIKE NANCY; AND SHOULD I BE REASSURED THAT I DONT LOOK LIKE NANCY AFTER LAURIE TOLD ME I AM BETTER LOOKING AND YOUNGER LOOKING AND HOW WOULD YOU INTERPRET THE ENTIRE CONVERSATION.

it really depends on how they said it. but it seems that your selfasteam is a little bit low. i would take that as a complement. it feels good to get a complement but what really matters is what you think about your self. but i would interpret that conversation as just a normal conversation not really a big deal.

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The skin under my arms/arm pits is way darker then ,y normal skin color, is there any way to make this go away or keep it from happening so the skin will be the same color. Anything I can put on them?

u should try coca butter if that doesent work than talk 2 your doctor about it.

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what are some good dirty things to say when having sex? or do you not say anything at all? also what are some good things to say for phone sex
?

on the phone its good to discribe everything in detail.that is a turn on. also making sexual noises.as for during sex im not into that so i would not know.sry

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