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Someone help me please
Well sorry this is sort of long anywho i recently did some things that i know i shouldnt have done so i will just come out and say it but know this first i have never done drugs or anything bad until now but i drank alcohol and smoked cigarettes now these might not seem that bad to some people but it kinda of is to me because i have always promised myself i would never get into drugs and drinking and smoking and that stuff cause i always thought it was gross but alot of people at my school do it and i'm kinda overweight so i'm really not that cool and so i guess i thought if i did these things people would stop teasing me and all that stuff once they new i did these things but then i never came through to tell many people just myclosest friends cause i was kind of embarrassed about it and i know i made that big mistake but i feel like i needed to do it i dont know why and so now i'm kind of disgusted by myself for doing those things so my quetion is, is how can i stop wanting to do bad things like hurting myself like this and stop cutting my wrists and be more happy now before you answer this please i dont need any lecturing you will just make me feel worse and less of myself so please dont and if you have had experiences like this or with drugs and smoking and drinking please share it might help me
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You've got to stop trying to be cool. Cool people don't have anything to envy. It might seem like they do, but half of their relationships are a facade.
Being overweight is no hindrance to making friends. I'm overweight (about 200 lbs) and I have tons of friends. And a boyfriend, for that matter. Stop thinking that being overweight is holding you back from anything. Just be confident that who you are is what people are really looking at!
If you do things just to be cool, then people will probably laugh more. Just remind yourself of that. Being who you are, no matter what that is, is always more interesting than trying to turn yourself into something you're not.
Don't be disgusted by smoking or drinking. A lot of people do it. Just don't do it in the future. If you're somewhere where people are drinking, just drink the mixer instead of the alcohol. You'll have a lot more fun sober than drunk. As for smoking, I'm sure you know the health risks involved.
Actually, I knew a girl in my Grade 9 health class who was a heavy smoker. We were shown pictures of some of the things that can happen when you smoke, and this is the one that made her get up, break each and every cigarette in her purse in half, throw them out and declare that she was never going to touch one again... and she didn't.
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I'm going to do one tiny lecture. I promise, this won't hurt ;)
You've got to stop feeling sorry for yourself. Feeling sorry for yourself implies that there's something to be sorry about. Cutting your wrists does not accomplish anything. It's just self-pity. If you want to stop something, stop it. Don't cry in the dark and cut yourself, because that's not going to do anything about the actual problem. Be strong! You can do what it takes to get your life where you want it.
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i dont have experience in drugs but i do with smoking. when i was 10 i started smoking because of a lot of bad stuff going on in my life. i smoked for about a year and one day my sisters caught me. what helped me is whenever i saw a cigerate i ripped it in half and reminded myself i dont need it to feel complete. because honestly, smoking will not make people stop making fun of you. if anything it just gives people more reason to actually, they could say you were only doing it to become cool (not a lecture im just saying)
hope it helped a lil
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