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boyfriend issues
I am 15. My boyfriend, 'Danny' is 17. We have been going out for 6 months. I really like him, and he is really sweet. But lately, he has been acting strange. He rarely talks to me outside of class or hugs me. He doesn't call anymore, talk to any of my friends, and has just been aloof. At first, I was worried, until my friend said she saw him hugging some girl (who dislikes me) and making out with her and hanging with her friends (who dislike me also since their ringleader does). I'm pretty sure he wants to break up with me, but I don't know why, since I don't know if what my friend said is true. should I confront him about it, and how? Or should I just let it go and move on?
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umm you hear of him making out with another girl by one fo your friends and your seriously debating whether or not to confront him?
you definatly should. but dont warn him before hand, make it random so he doesnt have time to think about an answer. if he seems to be lieing than just watch him more carefully. make sure he knows you dont fully trust him anymore, and that he has to earn it back.
more evidence to your friends theory is, hes been aloof, if he DID make out with that girl he could feel guilty and no want to talk to you, or hes afraid hell blurt it out or let it slip on accident.
i say dont just forget about it, cause that'll give him the idea that he can do it again and not get caught.
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Confront him. Say you heard some things but aren't going to believe them until you hear his side of the story. If these things are in fact true, then dump him. If they're not, then you've got nothing to worry about & you need to ask your friend what the hell she was really seeing & why she lied. Then again, he could be pulling a fast one on you. But, don't accuse him of anything until you hear his side. Just ask about it.
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Well first of all, don't just let it go because you deserve to know the truth. Take him aside and tell him there's a rumor going around about him and this girl and you just want to know if it's true. Don't attack him or he'll just deny it. Or if talking to him doesn't work, talk to this girl. She'll most likely tell you the truth before your boyfriend would. And chances are, he is either cheating on you or he's having problems he can't talk about.
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well tell him to be open to you and if you and him really like each other he would have not done this to you.and get your friends to sneak around him and to see what he really is doing.
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It's always better to confront them. Always. Ask him what's been going on with him lately, if he acts clueless, something's probably wrong. You've been together for a pretty long time, so it's best to confront him.
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i think you should talk to him. in school just go up to him and say can i talk you and flat out ask him if he was making out with this girl. because i think you deserve an explanation if this guy is cheating on you and if he says yes id break up with him even if you like him a lot you dont deserve to be cheated on you are worth a lot more then that
hope all works out
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