|
humorist-workshop
I don't know.
Alright, well i've been with my boyfriend for awhile now and we're really close. I want to have sex with him but i'm a virgin and hes not. The problem is I don't want to give away my virginity knowing he already lost his. It means a lot to me and if this wasn't such a problem we would have probably already done it. I know if we do do it now, the only thing on my mind will be how much I wish I was getting his.. is there something wrong with me? How can I get over this?
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Random Weirdos?
No, there's nothing wrong with you. Before I broke up with my ex, I was the 5th girl he had slept with. I felt low, and it bothered me so much, it was only of the many reasons why I dumped him. I'm not saying to let it bother you so much that you leave your boyfriend, but you should give this decision some serious thought. Is he the one for you? Are you sure that giving him your virginity is the right decision? Are you going to regret this? Is it going to bother you even more once you do it? If you can't begin to answer these questions in a positive way, then the best thing to do would be to either dump your boyfriend, or hold off on the sex until you can completely make up your mind.
]
Well you shouldn t be counting on random peoples advices on weather you should loose your virginity or not.
And secondly the criteria you should be thinking about mostly are:
Is he the right one for me?
Am I ready for this?
Is he special enough for me to give him my virginity?
Him NOT being a virgin is the least you should be thinking. Sure...you can find someone who actually is a virgin.
If he is special, go for it.
]
no there is nothing wrong with you. its completly normal to be a little hesitant to give your bf ur virginity knowing your not getting his. i think you should talk to him about it, if he cares about you as much as you care about him i think he'll understand and tell you whats going on his mind too. Who knows he could be as nervous as you or he he wishes he would have waited so he lost his virginity to you too.
hope it all works out
]
More Questions: |