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guy help!!!!!
ok so when i was 12 i had a crush on this dude who moved away like mad far away and we kept intouch and when i was 14 i fell inlove with him and he felt the same and now im 15 and hes some how changed i feel lke he just doesnt care anymore and i kno he still does but he barely shows it and i have all these dudes tht like me in my skool and are giving me all this attention when really i don care about it or them and just want attention from him but he doesnt seem to notice and we barely talk anymore and we arent together or dating we are jus inlove and stuff and my best friend (a dude) he likes me and he like showers me with all this love and attention and i luv him so much (as a friend) for it and im attracted to him physically and i guess he is to well the other day we were at the cinema and we madeout like alot and i dono wut to do kno becus tht dude tht i love is gonna come in a month or so and im jus so confussed and i feel like a slut and ive did something so wrong and i think im developing these feelings for my best friend that i madeout with i need help i wanna know wut to do im so lost and confussed and hurt
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Don't feel guilty or like a slut. You have done nothing wrong.
You are 15 and can't live your life waiting for someone who lives far away. You haven't spent face time with the out of town guy for years. Of course you are friends, and may even love each other in a way, but just putting your lives on hold isn't the smart thing to do.
I am going to guess that he likes someone close to home too and just doesn't want to tell you. That would explain the lack of communication. Its probably something you need to talk about.
For now, I would suggest you think about "dating" someone close enough to take you out and treat you special. Don't give up your friendship with the out of town guy, but you both need time to grow and you have to date people who can go with you to school dances and those kind of things.
You will always have a special relationship with that guy you knew when you were 12. He has done a lot of changing since then and so have you. If it
is meant to be, it will be in the future. Right now though it just isn't going to work. :)
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you have to figure out whitch one means more to you. you shouldent give up something that has been worked on and built for a long time for something that is just starting and feelings are jus being developed.about the slut thing your not, that is normal there will always be that guy that makes you think he is the one untill u realize who really is.
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