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hand job.
14/f
ive been going out with my boyfriend for not even a month but ive liked him for a really long time we were at the movies the other day and i gave him a hand job..it was my first time and now i feel really slutty and i regret it..is this normal?
Also we said that we werent going to tell ne one and that it was going to be "our little secret" but i really wanna tell my best friend..do u think i should?
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I think that if your best friend was your "best" friend that yes you should tell her but if she just calls you her best friend and doesn't show it, don't tell her-you have to trust her
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1] You shouldn't feel slutty. You did something that felt right at the time, and if you regret it a little, that's fine -- but don't beat yourself up about it.
2] If you still regret it, then stop doing it. 'Nuff said.
3] If you want to tell your friend, then you should. It's your business and your decision whether you tell her.
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You deff shouldn't feel slutty because hes your boyfriend and you like him. So there's nothing wrong with that. If you really want to tell your best friend then I think you should because if she's your best friend that means she wouldn't tell others what you tell her. ♥
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well, i have alot of friends who have done the same thing and have had the same reactions. yu shouldn't feel slutty because if yu thought it was time, then it should be yur time and if yu were both ready for it. so it really isn't slutty. also, it's yur decision to tell yur best friend, if yu think yu can trust her with yur "little secret" hah, then yu should tell her, but if yu want it to remain a secret and yu kno she will tell someone, then keep it to yourself [=
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honestly, I don't think its slutty. and pretty much all of my friends don't think so either. but, I wouldn't tell your friend because you don't want that to go arund the school and you and your boyfriend told eachother you would keep it to yourselves. so don't tell anyone & you shouldn't feel guilty
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truthfully,
although he is your boyfriend and you have liked him for a while...
a month is a little soon to be giving him a handjob.
even if you were ready, it's natural to feel a little slutty about it because your scared your moving too fast.
trust me, there are many 14 year olds who have done that before.
but just like you.. they dont want to tell anyone because they think people will think they're a slut.
if you were ready.. its perfectly okay.
if you werent, just tell your boyfriend you need to wait a while before doing it again.
as for your best friend...
if she keeps secrets and will keep it,
theres no problem why you shouldnt tell her.
she is your best friend, right?
it just might be a little better if you ask your boyfriend if you can tell her..
just incase she slips...
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you're not a slut... it's normal to feel a little guilty sometimes. don't do it often or just spur of the moment if it makes you feel better.
if it's your secret [and you feel slutty] don't tell your friend about it. word gets around... you wouldn't want him telling your friends would you? just keep to yourself for a while. <3
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You're definitely not the only one who feels slutty after they do something sexual, especially for the first time. If you regret it that much, then just wait a bit longer before you do something that sexual with him again because doing something for a guy to make him happy isn't worth the regret. And also, if the two of you agreed to keep it to yourselves, then it's probably best to do that. But, if you really want to tell your friend, then before doing so, talk to your boyfriend about it.
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