♥[?]♥ is it realli wrong to date your best friends ex boyfriend? cause this kid likes me..and i realli like him..but i have a feeling my best friend will get mad if i go out with him. cause she gets jealous even if i chill with him! please help soon cause i'm gonna chill with him tonite! i rate high!
Dude, it's a known fRiendship Rule to neveR date a fRiend's ex - it's off limits. HoweveR, if you Really want to caRRy this out, ask heR how'd she feel if the two of you got togetheR. She may not be okay with.. which, if you place youRself in heR shoes.. *may* be undeRstandable. And if it tuRns out that she is NOT okay with it, I'd leave it be... it's pRobably not woRth jepoaRdizing youR fRiendship with heR oveR!! Goodluck; Hope I helped!!
♥[?]♥ I just started using tampons. And when i wear them they hurt like heck. Did i not have it in all the way or what? please help!
Uhm, k.. ReRead the diRections, just in case you did something wRong. And it's veRy possible you go the wrong size... I hope you figuRe things out!! =D
♥[?]♥ i've been friends with this guy for 4 years now.. we were great friends.. adn he liked me since 7th grade .. well we were just firends and then we dated for a little.. and stuff he was really sweet he liked me alot adn stuff.. but i didn't like him like that well then i went out with him a few months after like the end of 8th grade like march 21 adn we went out for 4 months on and off like he cheated on me wtice i didn't cheat on him at all i swear... i tot about it but i didn't then we hung out every day we stayed over eachj other's hosues but nither of us had friends cause we bother very jealoujs.. then he dumped me (he was very controlling) it was like his sweetness went away now it seems like he likes me but then it seems like he is only using me for sex.. i dont know ne more like sumtimes hes like i lvoe u the next hea's like i hate u.. and i fell head over hells in love with him and i still lvoe him and i dont know wut to do lose him as a b./f a best ffriend or both :-(
If his peRsonality switches back and foRth like that, I'd say get out of it while you can. He obviously can't tReat you Right, so why botheR?? You should know just by asking this question... that the Relationship is pointless. You shouldn't have to put up with a.n.y of his cRap. He's not woRth youR time *OR* youR teaRs!! You need to do what's best foR you and move on!! TheRe's a gazillion otheR guys out theRe that I'm shoRe would kill to have you, so go find someone who will appReciate you as much as you appReciate them!! Best wishes!! Hope I helped!! =D
♥[?]♥ ok i have a long distance g/f im talkin outastate ne way i call her alota and she means the world to me i could go on and on about her but there is 1 prob i have only seen 1 pic of her and im not even sure thats her and i prob wont ever see her in person what do i do???
plz get back to me
This pRobably isn't what you wanted to heaR, but the way you say you've only seen one pictuRe of heR obviously lead me to believe that is an online fling -- and those aRe neveR a good idea. I'm not neceassaRily suggesting she would, but it's VERY possible she could be Running aRound with some otheR guy... I mean, you'd neveR know it! It's moRe stRess than it's woRth. PeRhaps you do Really have feelings foR heR... that's undeRstandable, but maybe a fRiendship between the two of you WOULD be best, because an actual Relationship just isn't possible. You can't even see each otheR.. can't hang out.. I mean... it's unfaiR. You guys could be cheating youRselves out of something else that could be Really gReat. I suggest you find some local giRls to date, who can be a biggeR paRt of youR life. WhateveR you do, I wish you the best! Hope I helped!! =D
♥[?]♥ what do you do when your best freind almost always has her bf over when you are around and yet wont do anythign with you and your man? and she almost always has him come over when you are over, knowing that you arent too fond of him, but you are giving him a chance for her sake. but everytime i mention hanging out the four of us, she says no, i gotta do this or that and she wont even hang out, but she even brings him over to my house and thigns like that. what am i supposed to do?
I would talk to heR about it. Tell heR that you always hang out with heR man, so out of Respect foR you... she should do the same. Hope things woRk out!! =D
♥[?]♥ hey..i'm headed to High School in a week..9th grade..in a few advanced classes..bio,geometry..spansish..etc..anyways..
what are some things that are a must have for high school? like as far as notebooks,folders..?stuff like that..
also..i'm very unorganized when it comes to my school papers and such..so plz keep that in mind when thinking of things i should buy..
thanx a bunch..
Make shoRe to stock up on some of the obvious : pencils, diffeRent coloRed pens, plenty of papeR, definitely high-liteRs, and note caRds foR Spanish class; tRust me, you will find they come in VERY handy, and they MAY even be a RequiRement!! Also, make shoRe to make the most out of youR high school days.. you'll find they come and go extRemely quickly!! Hope I helped!! =D
♥[?]♥ When I was about 14 or 15 yrs old.. I dated this kid.... I wont mention a name.. and then we had broken up because he was more expierenced then me and wanted someone who would have sex with him. Well after all this we still stayed friends.. Well then he moved to Florida with his dad for a while.. and then moved back here. and when he got back up here. He told me he had these feelings for me. and that he loved me and wanted to be with me forever. Well. I wasnt ready to be with him. I was unsure of my feelings for him and I told him i didnt know if i wanted to be with him after telling him i wanted to be. and we got in a huge fight and then about a month later I had talked to him and told him i really loved him and I wanted to work things out. but the only bad thing is. my parents really dislike him and they dont really have a reason to dislike him. I mean I'm 17 yrs old I should beable to date who i want. but they say not while i live in their house... What do I do? I really love this guy. :(
Just ReassuRe them that he Really *IS* a good peRson, and if he wasn't.. you wouldn't be hanging aRound with him. Ask them to politely meet with thw two of you, peRhaps oveR dinneR, and to keep an open mind. Let them know how much you'd appReciate it if they would just give him a chance. Goodluck! I hope eveRything woRks out!!
♥[?]♥ ok, im 17 and what do you do when your mom and best freind both hate the guy you are "seeing" and wont even give him a chance? but they dont even know how we are around each other and how we care about each other?
Just ReassuRe them that he Really *IS* a good peRson, and if he wasn't.. you wouldn't be hanging aRound with him. Ask them to politely meet with thw two of you, peRhaps oveR dinneR, and to keep an open mind. Let them know how much you'd appReciate it if they would just give him a chance. Goodluck! I hope eveRything woRks out!!
♥[?]♥ I've had a huge crush on this guy for almost a year now. He know's I like him, but he tries to ignore it like most guys do. He's in with the "popular" croud, but he's still acts really sweet and out-going and doesn't care what other people think. He waves at me a lot, he stares at me a lot, he plays with my hair and asks me to do stuff with him (in school, i.e. be his partner), and he also talks with me a lot more then other people. And just little stuff like that.
I know that a lot of people say "If you like someone, you automatically think they like you back", but I really think he likes me. But that's just me, and my friends think it's stupid to talk about, so does anyone have any adivce? Does he like me? o_O;
I think he quite possible DOES like you!! TRy asking him foR his numbeR... and if you can't come stRaight out and ask, pRetend it's foR some pRoject of some soRt!! Best wishes!! Hope I helped!! =D
♥[?]♥ how to you rate a columnist and how do you see what you are rated?
To Rate a columnist.. they must answeRe a question you have asked them. Then, if you'Re at theiR column.. you'll have to click the "View", "Link", oR "Q" until you get to the white page wheRe you see the entiRe question and it's answeR/s. Then below theiR should be a scale fRom 1 to 5, and you Rate them accoRdingly, five being the highest.. one being the lowest. And to see what YOU aRe Rated.. simply go to youR column, and click.. "View Feedback", oR "Read Feedback", in some cases. Then the numbeRs, along with any comments should just be theRe. You can also click on the little numbeR to RefResh youR memoRy of the question!! Hope I helped!! =D
♥[?]♥ Hi well my need is to find out who I really like, I halready have a boyfriend and then I met this other guy that I really like now, and then i haven't even heard from my boyfriend for a while then all of a sudden he emails me and starts talking like nuthin happened. what do I do?
Dude.. if I haven't heaRd fRom my boyfRiend in a while, I would seRiously end it sooo fast!! It's such a lack of consideRation if they can't even call to say "Hey.. I can't talk now, but I just wanted to say goodnight, and I hope you have a good day tomoRRow"... I mean, come on... how long did that take? If I'm not woRth THAT much of his time... scRew 'em, I can do MUCH better!!! As foR this otheR guy.. you might as well see what the two of you have goin' foR ya! Don't pass by what could bea good thing!! Goodluck!! Hope I helped!! =D
♥[?]♥ i have a hight fever and have been bleeding with pain and i'm not menistrating.
Oh Gosh.. that's not "noRmal". You definitely need to visit a doctoR immediately! AbnoRmal bleeding may lead to something v.e.R.y seRious... I've witnessed this. Please get youRself checked! I wish you the best!!
♥[?]♥ heya im going to be a freshmen this year so its my first time in a public school. i was wondering if most people use backpacks or binders or w.e cause i heard that most people dont and i dont want to look outta place.. any comments would be helpfull and i rate well
~thnx~
Uhm, fRom my expeRience, I would say *most* people don't.. but MANY do, so even if you DO decide to bRing one.. you won't look out of place w.h.a.t.s.o.e.v.e.r!!! Hope I helped!! =D
♥[?]♥ If I have a crush on this guy, or like him, what is the best way to tell him and do i know if he likes me back?
Just tell him flat out,so theRe isn't any confusion. You can do it.. be bRave, take a Risk!! You'll do gReat; I have the utmost faith in you, Young GRasshoppeR! Hope I helped!! =D
♥[?]♥ there is this guy I know his name will be Fred okay so I sorta like Fred but today I was talking to him and he kept telling me how he wanted to go all the way with me but I have been telling him that Im not ready for that and the farthest I will go with him is making out but he won't leave it alone help me please
Ugh.. pushy guys.... theRe's nothing woRse!! If you've told him once, and he keeps asking, that's complete disRespect! Do youRself a favoR and get out while you can!! Hope I helped!! I wish you the best!! =D
♥[?]♥ If your a freshman in High School.. what is the homework load for someone in ALL honors courses?
Uhm, foR me peRsonally... it was only so-so. Langauge will do you in the ASS!!!! They pounded me with RepoRts *EVERYDAY*... *DAY*AFTER*DAY*!!!!! It was unbelivable, and at times.. impossible!! VERY difficult and extRemely stRessful!! HoweveR... my math teacheR didn't usually give us too much homewoRk. She'd assign it in class, and you had to do whateveR you didn't have time to complete as homewoRk, so it was all pRettie much dependant on what you could peRsonally accomplish duRing the houR. I was also in foReign language - Spanish, and homewoRk honestly wasn't a lot. We would test a few times a week, and tests weRe woRth BIG POINTS, but he didn't caRe whetheR we did his small amount of homewoRk oR not... it wasn't HIS gRade, ya know? And with Science.... theRe was haRdly EVER homewoRk. HoweveR, if I was absent.. I'd have sooooooooooo much to make up foR that day.. it'd be outRageous... but no homewoRk in Science. But again, this was only MY high scool expeRience, and teacheRs vaRie fRom each to anotheR.. just like RegulaR people!! =P Hope I helped!! And one moRe thing, whateveR you do.. make the most out of youR high school yeaRs.. you'll find they come and go extRemely quickly!
♥[?]♥ ok, so u hear about these girls who have guys as best friends..well im one of those girls. any ways, brandon os my best guy friend, and i love him..but not like that. well, it turns out he has the biggist crush on me...and he told me he loves me more than anyone else. but the prob. is..is that i just like him as a friend. Hes the sweetest guy a girl culd have..but im just not really ready for a relationship. and hes really hard on himself, and i would do anything to keep from breaking his heart. But if i do end up having feelings for him...i would definatly go out with him. but hes kinda dorky...and i kno i kno it shouldnt matter, but wut if people tried to make fun of us as a couple...so what should i do??
Well fiRst of all, doRky oR not.. you said you love him, so to hell with what eveRyone else thinks!! Honestly.. fuck them! Who caRes!! And secondly, you shouldn't woRRie too much about bReaking his heaRt as you should being honest to him. Just tell him you appReciate him caRing foR you the way he does, and let him know exactly how much he means to you, it's just you cuRRently don't feel any Romantic feelings towaRds him. He may take it haRd, but since you two aRe such good fRiends.. I'm shoRe he'll undeRstand and Respect youR wishes!! Goodluck!! Hope I helped!!
♥[?]♥ well i have twin nabors n there is this one i liek n we were kinda cuddleing on my bros bed n well i was talkin to him n then we went upstairs n he told my bro what i said.. y dose he do that n y do i get shy when by bro ask me about it...
It's completely acceptable to be talleR than the guy. Often times, it's awkwaRd, but it's completely acceptable!! HoweveR, if he would so easily Run off and tell otheR people what the two of you shaRed.. I'd say that's a *VERY* bad sign!! That alone, would be enough to make me foRget them and move on!! It's kind of a hint that he's not veRy tRustwoRthy.. and if THAT'S the case.. he's definitely NOT woRth youR time!!! Hope I helped!! =D
♥[?]♥ ok, i like this guy. and he knows i like him too. but he wont go for it! is there something i should do to like...give him a push to asking me out or something? please help!!!
Dude, ask HIM out!! Really.. go foR it!! Be bRave.. you can do it!! I have the utmost faith in you!! Look at it this way : what if he's too shy to ask you out.. so he thinks to himself that he's just going to wait foR YOU to ask HIM.. and you'Re at home thinking about him waiting foR HIM to ask YOU!! Then you guys won't get ANYWHERE!! And some guys even LIKE the fact that a giRl can ask a guy out! It does take guts, it Really does!! And since we leave in a giRl's woRld, it's okay to be dominant.. some guys like that! Goodluck! I wish you the best!! =D
♥[?]♥ hey. ok there is this older guy i like. we flirt all the time & stuff. im not for sure he likes me but i think he might. he always talks about hooking up and stuff. like today he said u wanna go make out? i really want to cause i like him alot the problem is he is expierenced. and i would feel really funny tellin him i dont know how!!!!
You shouldn't feel funny telling him you'Re inexpeRienced at all!! Infact, MOST guys will tell you that knowing they aRe a giRl's "fiRst" is a MAJOR tuRn on!! I suppose it makes them feel studly and dominant. And even IF this "oldeR guy..." saw youR inexpeRience as a tuRn off... if he Really likes you, he shouldn't caRe whatsoeveR!! Just be confident! Confidence is supeR sexy and shows b.i.g.t.i.m.e!! EveRything will be okay, tRust me!! Hope I helped!! Thanks foR the question; feel fRee to come back if you need anything else!! =D
