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long distance g/f
ok i have a long distance g/f im talkin outastate ne way i call her alota and she means the world to me i could go on and on about her but there is 1 prob i have only seen 1 pic of her and im not even sure thats her and i prob wont ever see her in person what do i do???
plz get back to me
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well umm??? did you meet her in a chat room? lol for all you know that could of been her sister/friend and she might be really awful so best bet is just to ask her to be friends i guess cause u never know...... where are you from and where is she from?
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shes probably a fat 57 year old guy hoo has a blak cat.. and smells.. and stares out thwindow even though the kids werent staring.. they were just lookin at tha cat and chases them down the street.. i thynk you shuud find dumone u kno..
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This pRobably isn't what you wanted to heaR, but the way you say you've only seen one pictuRe of heR obviously lead me to believe that is an online fling -- and those aRe neveR a good idea. I'm not neceassaRily suggesting she would, but it's VERY possible she could be Running aRound with some otheR guy... I mean, you'd neveR know it! It's moRe stRess than it's woRth. PeRhaps you do Really have feelings foR heR... that's undeRstandable, but maybe a fRiendship between the two of you WOULD be best, because an actual Relationship just isn't possible. You can't even see each otheR.. can't hang out.. I mean... it's unfaiR. You guys could be cheating youRselves out of something else that could be Really gReat. I suggest you find some local giRls to date, who can be a biggeR paRt of youR life. WhateveR you do, I wish you the best! Hope I helped!! =D
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how can you NEVER plan on seeing someone you are crazy about?? how old are you?? if you're young, then i think you need to stop with the online romance - it's okay to have friends online, but don't let yourself get caught up in it because you'll be missing out on opportunities for g/fs that live near you!!...and if you're older, then don't necessary rule out the thought of ever meeting, it can be done (and should if you are serious about her)
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Well if you really do trust her, then you ANd your parents should make plans to meet eachother. I know that it might be embarrasing to ask your parents but if you really do want to meet her then you'll have to bcuz u never know who she could b or if she's phyco. If you don't get to see her then I think that you should break up with her because by having a long-distance relationship you are closing off other relationships that you could have. You sound like a Great person and there are probably plenty of girls who like you. ANd wen you get another g/f you'll see how much better it is to acctually go on dates with your g/f. I hope I helped!
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i dont believe in long distance relationships, i mean the girl could be like 12 or something, or she could be out having another bf and u wouldnt know about it. i dont think u should get to close to her, i mean c'mon uve never seen her?? no no no thats not cool, lol get someone in ur area that uve actually seen and know!!!!
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You should meet her first before you ever started to go out with her! 1 picture? You should of saw her in person just call her and tell her to send you a picture of HER just her in the picture okay?
-Juicy
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well most ppl say long distance realationships never work..and youre rite it might not be her see if she has a webcam or anything and if not then idk what to tell you..plus you never know she could be like "yeah youre my bf" on the computer but whose to say she aint with someone else on the side..comp. realationshipd arent exactly real realationships..idk what else to tell you hope i helped..
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Well alot of people do lie over the internet.And if you think you wont ever see her in person and arent talking about it or planning on it why be together?If you really love this girl like you say you do well then talk to her about meeting each other!Well hope everything works out and hope ive helped.:-)
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if you haven't met her in person and you don't know who she is, then you don't know what she could be doing. a lot people lie about themselves over the internet. you'd be surprised. Try to meet her in person somehow before you continue this relationship!
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I know you have probably heard this before, but really long distance relationships most often don't work. Some do, don't get me wrong. I would say that 9 times out of 10, the picture is of a friend of hers, mainly because she is afraid to give away her identity. Maybe she believes that you are out there to con her. I'm not saying anything bad about you or her. I'm just saying that some people won't give that information or material out to just anyone. I would have to see you in person with your parents or my parents around before I would trust you with a picture or any more than just my name and email for a little while. You know what your heart says. Follow it.
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I think long distance relationships can work for some people, but you really need to talk to her about how things are going to work between you, or the entire thing is doomed to failure. You both need to talk honestly about whether you can be a couple when you are unlikely to ever see each other in person. You might decided that, although you are very close emotionally, you can't really be boyfriend and girlfriend whilst there's no chance you can see each other, but decide thats open to change in the future. However, if you do decide that you want to continue along your current route of being together, then you need to be honest, be able to trust each other, and be able to communicate about your problems - you could start by talking about the picture she's sent you and whether it's really her - because, honestly, if you don't see her and you don't trust that she's telilng the truth about herself, then what exactly is the basis of your relationship?
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