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well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




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is there a specail meaning to the song Gasolina i've been wondering this for a long time i know its an old song but what does it mean..because if it doesnt have a meaning its pretty pointless.

ill rate all 5's to people who arnt smart asses.
thanks [ xoxox ]

i used to think the same thing until i had a mexican friend tell me ever word in english and it is basically a very sexual song if you want drop somethin in my inbox and i will send you all the words for it in english.
*~Stephanie~*

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Ok..well I've been going out with this guy and only a fewp people know, and i didnt want them to know bc when everyone knows then people start to screw up everything and can cause us to break up, so one of my friends asked me if i was going out with this one guy and i said no and named somebody else even tho i was going out with that guy and i lied to him for 3 months and i finally told him and now he pretty much hates me, i've been giving him space, is there anything else i can do?

i can understan were your bf is comin from and i suggest to give him some space( which you already did) then after like a 3 days call him up and explain to him how you feel.

*~Stephanie~*

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my boyfriend doesnt find me very attractive.. he thinks i'm cute but not hot, he doesnt seem to have any desire to have sex.. which bugs me lots.. can someone help me with tips to make him want me more? please

i dont know what to tell except not everythign is about sex and that if you bf doenst want have sex with you and doesnt think your attractive leave him. looks arent everything and i bet you have a gorgeous personality and can do a lot better then this guy.
*~Stephanie~*

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alright for this i dont want anyone telling me " that i should just let them be" or anything ..alright so this boy and girl...there going out...i lke the boy and the girl is my friend..they have been going out for like a week and they dont talk on the phone and barely see eachother...and i feel like i talk to the boy more than she does and so i want them to break up..want are some good ways to get them too?


ILL rate 5 for anyways..just not like " thats mean"

hey girly!

trust me everything will be ok.. dont worry about it. if they dont see each other often and do anyting trust me there realtionship wont last long. what you should do in the mean time is show this guy you care adn make him get interest in you.

*~Stephanie~*

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okay, so i like this guy and he flirts with me and stuff and i do back. but the problem is that he has a girlfrienf. they have been going out over a month now and i dont know how serious it is. he never bring her up when we talk so i dont know if he knows i knows that he has a girlfriend. but i really really like this guy i mean a whole lot. and i thought he would be my first guy to go out with and we almost danced at charity ball, but he had a girlfriend which i knew, but he never said "no" we just didnt. and he felt bad and asked one of his friends to dance with me. but i said no. does he really like me or am i just like his little pitty friend?? thanks-- michelle

my advice to you is just back off for a lil while. you dont want to start trouble between all three of you guys. he has a girl right now and just let him be for the time bein.

*~Stephanie~*

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my boyfriend and i were messing around the other night and he fingered me. after it kinda hurt, he went pretty far out. then when i went to pee there was a little blood. did my cherry pop? or can it only pop if you have sex? (which i havent)
thanks for the help!

your cherry can pop when ever. it isnt difficult for it to pop. it probaly was your cherry poppin but i wouldnt worry about it so much.
*~Stephanie~*

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hey my name is Jess im 13. well my boyfriend is really sweet and nice but he always thinks i have to be around him. im always canceling my plans just for him. Well im sick of it. Today i told him i was going out with my friends cause i had this all planned to go out tolunch but of course he wants me to hangout with him. he says i was being a bitch taking ym friends over him. its annoying but i really love him. what can i do to make him stop acting like this. I know if i say my friends are important to me to he wll get mad. Please Help
Sincerely, Jess

tell him you want your space. tell himt hat you want to spend some time with your friends not only him. explai to him that it isnt that you dotn love him it is just that you want some time to hang out with other people.
*~Stephanie~*

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My name is Alex, I am a female, and I’m thirteen years old.

Well I have this friend I knew since the 5th grade, and now we are in the 8th grade, and she has changed, a lot. And she has been telling me I changed but I think it's the opposite, she's changed! She has gotten meaner than ever since Elementary school. Anyways, the day before a dance at our school, I told her that I like a guy that she knows & that is in every single one of her classes. May I add, he is also my ex-boyfriend. But then when the dance came, she started dancing with the guy I like. I got pretty mad, after all, she knows I like him and she just dances with him in front of me! I don’t know what to do, I am not going out with the guy, but I like him. But then I don’t want to ruin our friendship over a guy. But I really like this guy though. Please Help!

well if she has changed and you dont like what she has changed into i think you should leave her and find yourself a ture friend that wont do stuff like that right infront of you.

~*Stephanie~*

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i like this guy who is one year younger then me.he liked my friend before but my friend didnt.i think he still like her couse she is clearly pretier then me.he told me he like her and all and told me im like his pet sis.dat really hurts me.but he doesnt know i like him im acting normal when he around.but i do really like him.what should i do.

you got to understand that this guy likes you only as a friend and nothin else right now. and dont put yourself down thinking your ugly because your not. you both are beautiful in your own way and if this guy cant find out that you like him and still has feeling folr someone that doesnt like him then he is wasting his time adn i think you should look for a better guy.
*~Stephanie~*

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I like finger myself every other Night. And I feel nasty and guilty Afterwards. How Can I Stop? Please Someone.. Its Really Bothering Me!!

just stop dont think about it and do stuff that will influcne you to do it.
*~Stephanie~*

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I am aware that this will not get an award for brevity, but humor me.

Background info: I am someone who is known to have an incredibly individual, crazy, random style. I love uniqueness, and I hate wearing things that I know what 1 million other people are wearing. This goes for anything of the sort, whether it's a studded belt or a short little Hollister skirt- BUT this question is mostly geared towards the latter (to clarify, the clothing that the so-called "pretty people" wear).

I'm really trying to comprehend how people can like clothing like what is sold at Hollister or those type of stores. I guess it's almost humorous since I know the majority of people ask the same question about my outfits a good deal of the time- what could she possibly be thinking with that outfit? But I just don't understand...and I'm honestly trying to be as accepting of others expressions as I wish they would be of my own.

What joy do you get out of wearing these mass manufactured clothes that aren't even worth taking two looks at? They are so BORING and unoriginal and so..lacking in any creativity. Not to mention, those skirts practically show butt cheeks and things I DO NOT WANT TO SEE! EW! Between the false advertising (Feefee's stupid ass coconut shack, etc.) and the atrocious amount of skin shown, I can only wonder what America's "pretty people" are thinking and if they really are so "pretty."

Can someone please help me understand?

i understand were you coming from 100% i dont get it either and the best part of all that is the prices are rediculus a shirt wtih no creativity or nothin is 20 dollars that isnt truely worth it. i guess it is all beacause they think it willmake fit in..

*~Stephanie~*

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I am 16/F. At home I don’t use panty or any thing underneath to feel relax . I feel uncomfortable always wearing so many things, my skin not so good with elastic materials. Few days back I was alone at home in my room wearing frock, no panty. Door bell rang , my uncle was there. We were sitting in living room on opposite sofas and have a chat on various topics as he visited almost after two months. After about one hour suddenly my mind sparked and I realized that I was without underwear and uncle must have seen my private parts. So I swiftly change my sitting position. Uncle left the home after half an hour. This incident was worst for me. I am feeling embarrassment as my uncle might think about my acts and character. Please advice me what should I do for my piece of mind. Should I explain my uncle the situation.

NJ

honestly i dont think he say i think he if he did he would have done 2 things either one move or two tell you to sit currently. i suggest not to bring it up unless he does so if he does bring it up tell him what up. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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my boyfriend and i have been together three months,, it was going great untill he started hanging out with this one guy who i'll call Mikey, well i dont really like mikey, he creeps me out, and i told my boyfriend this and he said i was over reating.. well last week i wanted to see my boyfriend and mikey made sure that chris didnt leave him behind.. so he went with us to the mall, well we were with another couple and we decided to go back to my house.. mikey (for unknown reasons) didnt want to go, and makes my boyfriend want to stay with him and not be with me.. (me and chris live and hour away from each other and him and "mikey" live one minute away from each other.. THEY GO TO SCHOOL TOGETHER!!) chris eventually says he'll go and mikey foubnd a ride home.. but all night all chris did was mope because i made his friend mad,, and now when i ask him to do anything with me.. mikey has to go! and i dont like that, and he said that i'll have to deal with it.. i really love chris.. but hes being such a jerk.. i cant leave him because it would hurt me too much. some one please help.. i really really want chris to realize that i'm part of his life stil.. i mean we cant do anything romantic because mikey is always with us.. i dont know what to do.. i hate hate hate mikey for this.. i need help!

to be honest with you i would put my foot down on this and make him choice bewteen you and mikey. if he says mikey then i would just leave him and move on i guess it owuld be like he is more in love with his friend then you which to me is personaly mess up. but you cant keeop goin like likin him and him not liking you back.
*~Stephanie~*

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I've been dating this boy for two months and i love him so much. when his around i feel secure and loved. His a good boy towards me. But the problem is that im 16 and his 19. What if i cant reach up to his standers. I mean his way of thinking is not like mine. Could this affect us? and Secound thing is that his school is far from his home therefore he has to stay there and comes only for holidays. These are the only times i see him. And its like 3 Months before i could see him. But we call or sms each other everday. Im scared that it could affect our relationship. We talked about it earlier and i said it doesnt affect me but now it does, and very much.

i would tell him eveyrthing that you just told us. dont be scared tell him how feel. explain to him how much you love beign with him and how you dont want to through all that away. long distance realtionships are hard to have but if you both care a lot about each other and trust each other you can make it work. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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http://www.xanga.com/Llx3_033
in the box there are 2 hearts how do you make those with like what program and brush...
can you do it with psp8?
thanks

honestly i would ask who ever made how they got the hearts like that. you probably can do it on psp8 but i havent tryed doin it on it so i dont want to tell you yea you can when i am not 110% sure. sorry if this didnt help.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok im going to a basketball game today with my friends & idk what to wear..like should i wear a long sleeve, a hoodie, hair up, hair down, hair straight, hair curly, make up, no make up, etc etc. if you have any ideas let me know.

thanks!!

since i play basketball i think i got a good idea for what you should wear. hair goes up ( i suggest but you dont have to) wear some jeans or baggy loose something you can be comfrotnable in and still look good. no make up is my advice but if you want to look great some reason put some on but not too much. hope this helps.

*~Stephanei~*

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is there any way for boys to "finger" themselves?

honestly they can but i dont think they want to stick a finger up there ass.lol.. all the mostly can do si mess with there dicks.. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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ok so my bf calls me liek every day or every other day and we talk for ever but the only reason we talk for ever is becasue it is total silence i mean its not a sighn to break up i know this becasue healways calls me i try hard to think of a topic but we are still at the stage that is like we are uncomfortable around eachother but he is great and awsoem and realy kool to talk to but on the phone he doesnt realy do anything i need HELP PLEZZ what should i try to talk about to get the conversation going

some people are good talkin when they are with each other but then not so well when they are on the phone. you got to remember guys are not all used to always being on the phone it isnt soemthing the know how to do so well. but other than i suggest bringing up anythign and everythin on the phone with him.
*~Stephanie~*

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My boyfriend hasnt talked to me for like three days. he wont answer my texts or anything so i decided i was going to go to his house and make him talk to me and tell me what was going on so...I txted him and told him that i was coming to his house and he was like no and i was like yea what ever im coming and i only told him so that way if he wasnt there he would tell me before i got to his house so then he told me that he was going to lock the doors so i couldnt get in then i told him that i was going to knock and he said his mom wouldnt let me in then i was like ill tell her its important and he was like no and i was like yea and then i was like corey are we breaking up and hes like 'i dont know' and i was like how dont you know and he was like ya i guess i was like omg are you for real ad he didnt say anything then i got really pissed off and walked my ass over to his house...not good...i was like corey whats going on and he said he didnt know if he wanted to break up with me but he liked the way it felt to not have to talk to someone everynight...i was sitting there thinking you dont talk to me every night you havent talked to me for three days!! but i love this boy so much and we didnt even fight so i dont know why this was so random? should i just let it go or should i try to get him back? and how do i do that if yes

15F

you deserve a man and a boy that plays these little games with you. he isnt worth wasting your time on. if he really cared about you he wouldnt have done what he did. go find yourself a guy who truely cares about you not this werid guy.
*~Stephanie~*

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16/F.
My 2 best friends have been going out since the summer (don't worry, it's a guy/girl....) I'm really happy for them & all, but sometimes it gets annoying, because whenever I do get to spend time with either one of them (since they're constantly with each other), we always end up discussing the person's bf / gf. They are always asking, "So what does he/she say about me??" & I always end up having to spill the juicy, mushy details of all the "oh she/he's so hot" & all that. I feel less like their friend & more like their spy now! It really makes me feel used. So, my question is... is it wrong for me to want them / encourage them to break up (I know that seems kind of selfish, but....) or what am I supposed to do about this? I rate 5's for non-crap answers. ;)

i understand were you coming from but it isnt a good idea to try to break them up because then you will be stuck in the middle of it and each of them wants to get over the other and the might even talk trash about each other to you and i dont think you want that. my suggestion is to tell them how you feel about not wanting to tell each other about what the other says. just be like if you want to know how he feels about you all you have to do is ask him and he will tell you himself not me. hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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