i like this guy who is one year younger then me.he liked my friend before but my friend didnt.i think he still like her couse she is clearly pretier then me.he told me he like her and all and told me im like his pet sis.dat really hurts me.but he doesnt know i like him im acting normal when he around.but i do really like him.what should i do.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? SurpriseYourself answered Tuesday December 27 2005, 1:43 pm: i have a friend in the exact same situation as you,but the guys 1 year older, not younger, and since i can see this from a diffrent view from her it helps me give you advice,
first ask yourself why you like him, and anything that your secretly denying about him, dont deny it if you truely know its true,like if you know that he really dosent like you and your denieing it,dont denie that,it makes things more complicated, and if this guy is in anyway a jerk, think about that, dont go crying over him if he is, because he wont care, and after thinking about his personality for a while(about what your denying if anything, and about the level at which he cares about you)then you need to personally decide if you should tell him that you like him,you really need to think about what he would do in this situation, cause my friend told the guy she likes and he was a total a$$hole about it,if you do decide to tell him, face to face is always good, but if you cant a letter is perfectly acceptable too,
basically you need to think about why you like him,why he(might)not like you like you like him, and whether you should tell him or not
SoInToYoUx0x answered Tuesday December 27 2005, 1:32 pm: you got to understand that this guy likes you only as a friend and nothin else right now. and dont put yourself down thinking your ugly because your not. you both are beautiful in your own way and if this guy cant find out that you like him and still has feeling folr someone that doesnt like him then he is wasting his time adn i think you should look for a better guy.
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xOViLLYxO answered Tuesday December 27 2005, 1:31 pm: Aw babe, just talk to him and tell him how you really feel.You don't have anything to lose.And you never know, he can have the same feelings for you too.Don't say your friend is prettier than you,because you prob just think your not pretty but you are. : ) ♥ [ xOViLLYxO's advice column | Ask xOViLLYxO A Question ]
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