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what to talk about
ok so my bf calls me liek every day or every other day and we talk for ever but the only reason we talk for ever is becasue it is total silence i mean its not a sighn to break up i know this becasue healways calls me i try hard to think of a topic but we are still at the stage that is like we are uncomfortable around eachother but he is great and awsoem and realy kool to talk to but on the phone he doesnt realy do anything i need HELP PLEZZ what should i try to talk about to get the conversation going
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This is what you should talk about
-Food
-You guys
-Stuff you like
-Stuff he like
-Sports
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well heres what i do: turn the tv on and start watching , when he asks what you`re watching tell him , usually that begins a good conversation
hope that helps
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Discuss old times, if you knew eachother before and even in the akward silences singing wouldnt hurt. Ask him simple things like his favorite band where he heard of them. I personally like to talk about what my girlfriend enjoys to do. She goes on about what she enjoys then she ends up telling stories from her childhood. So thats cool. Well dont let the conversation get dull!
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some people are good talkin when they are with each other but then not so well when they are on the phone. you got to remember guys are not all used to always being on the phone it isnt soemthing the know how to do so well. but other than i suggest bringing up anythign and everythin on the phone with him.
*~Stephanie~*
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oh gosh. haha .everyone goes through this, well most people. but yeah i don't know when i was younger i literally made a list haha. of what to talk about. like recent dances, parties, friends, movies, favortie things, plans for the week, memories, good times, insiders, yous, tv, food, interesting stuff though, don't bore him, and don't talk to much. i don't know, i hope i helpd though. <3
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Some people just aren't good on the phone. That's how it is. And coming up with a list of topics probably isn't going to help much.
I think the best thing to do is talk about what's on your mind: in this case, you should talk about what to talk about. You could ask him what he wants to talk about, or if he likes talking on the phone. Maybe he's just not comfortable with it. Or maybe it would be better to just talk about plans for the next time you get together, and not draw the conversation out.
You don't want awkwardness on the phone to morph into awkwardness in your face-to-face relationship, after all.
Good luck!
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ohh boyy. i had this problemm. i asked him everything from whats your favorite colour too do you like your mom or dad better. haha, i adventually ran out of things to say and he never stared any conversations. but you could talk about:
memories*
embarassign moments*
family*
future?*
what makes yous happy*
favorite things. such as animals, colours, dogs, etc.*
what he wants to be when he growns up*
theres a whole bunch more stuff. f you need more askk<3
hope i helped
Nicholee
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