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my boyfriend and i have been together three months,, it was going great untill he started hanging out with this one guy who i'll call Mikey, well i dont really like mikey, he creeps me out, and i told my boyfriend this and he said i was over reating.. well last week i wanted to see my boyfriend and mikey made sure that chris didnt leave him behind.. so he went with us to the mall, well we were with another couple and we decided to go back to my house.. mikey (for unknown reasons) didnt want to go, and makes my boyfriend want to stay with him and not be with me.. (me and chris live and hour away from each other and him and "mikey" live one minute away from each other.. THEY GO TO SCHOOL TOGETHER!!) chris eventually says he'll go and mikey foubnd a ride home.. but all night all chris did was mope because i made his friend mad,, and now when i ask him to do anything with me.. mikey has to go! and i dont like that, and he said that i'll have to deal with it.. i really love chris.. but hes being such a jerk.. i cant leave him because it would hurt me too much. some one please help.. i really really want chris to realize that i'm part of his life stil.. i mean we cant do anything romantic because mikey is always with us.. i dont know what to do.. i hate hate hate mikey for this.. i need help!
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well maybe chris just wants tomake sure mikey doesnt get into trouble or something because he sounds like the type that get in trouble alot. maybe he is just loking out for his friend and maybe the only way you can be happy with chris is to be friends with mikey. but i can understand why you would want some alone time with your boyfriend, so it is somewhat chris's fault and mikey does seem really weird. i would ask chris whats really going on because thats just weird. hope i helped - - <3 michelle
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to be honest with you i would put my foot down on this and make him choice bewteen you and mikey. if he says mikey then i would just leave him and move on i guess it owuld be like he is more in love with his friend then you which to me is personaly mess up. but you cant keeop goin like likin him and him not liking you back.
*~Stephanie~*
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It sounds like Chris has decided he likes Mikey...a lot. If you have already talked to him and he said to deal with it, then either you lay the smack down or find a guy who will respect your concerns. Mikey might be some sort of rebellion against coupledom. I have seen that happen before.
Talk to him again. Tell him that you need at least some time with him alone. If he is unwilling to do so, then that is a huge problem and you may end up breaking up anyway.
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