about

well i am a 15 years old girl that is soft hearted and i loves helping other people out. i love giving out advice. i can relate to a lot of peoples problems because i have been through a lot in my life. i have done a lot of stupid things in my life that i regert but i cant change the past but i can try to change the future. i love to dance and enjoy life to the fullest. i love my best friends to death i would do anything for them..




advice

what goes best with a black tube top..

- dark blue jeans
- denim mini skirt
- or white white

thanks. i rate 5's

denim mini skirt

*~Stephanie~*

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Is it possible for girls to have wet dreams? because i wake up and theres always clearish gooey stuff in my underwear. Oh, and in school i get it to. what is it? Thank you, i rate high :)

yes it is but it really isnt you havein wet dreams.
*~Stephanie~*

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my hair is very hard to straighten..what are sum products i can use to straighten it.

thanks. i rate 5's

my hair is the same way what i do is when i get out of the shower i blow dry it stiraght then i take my flat iron and striaghten it all the way. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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whats your opinion on a freshman dating a junior?
Please Help all i want is opinions
I RATE!
kthnkxbye

there is nothin wrong wit that.
*~Stephanie~*

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So i spent the night at my friends house.
Her brother and I were watching a movie.
He got up to get something to drink.
I put my feet on the sofa,then he came back he didnt move my feet instead he grabed a pillow and layed on me.
Then later on her grabed my hands.
Awhile after that,i was on him.
As in he was siting down,and my legs were over his.
He out his face on mine.
As if,he wanted me to kiss him.
But i just huged him.
Later after everyone fell alseep,he kissed my on my forehead.
We talked a bit,then he stole my pillow.
So i was forced to get up and sit on the floor and take my pillow back.
He didnt let me have it back,so instead i layed down with him.
He held my hand,kissed are hands.
And kissed me couple more times on my forehead.
Then fell alseep.
Next day,It was like nothing happened.
Im confused,i mean did he just want someone to lay on and hold hands?

Please,dont delete.

Im not sure,what to think.


this is a hard question to answer but i will try my best to answer it.

i think this guy likes you but is tryin to hide it. it mgiht have been that last night he was feelin a lil horny and wanted you to do someing wit him but didnt. my advice to you is to go talk to this guy in private and explain to him why did what happened that night happen.
*~Stephanie~*

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My boyfriend and I have been going out for 1 month,tomorrow.We have been planning on going to the movies, but neither one of us thought about it being our anniversary. I just now remembered.So, I'm just wondering if I should get him anything for it? or what?
any help would be appreciated!
I rate 5's!

it really isnt nessary. it has only been 1 month you kno. you might want to wait until like 4-6 months.
*~Stephanie~*

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can people instant message eachother if lets say, one has aim and the other has yahoo instant messager

nope they are two differnet things. sorry.
*~Stephanie~*

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what exactly does it mean to be friends with benefits? like what is different about it than being b/f and g/f? thanks

your not really going out with them they are just your friends. you like cant have a serious realtionship with them.
*~Stephanie~*

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Recently I was messing around with my boyfriend. We didn't have sex. But we both got his cum on our fingers.. Then he fingered me not long after.
My period isn't here yet; it's late. Could I be pregnant?

there is a slit chance you are but probably not because it takes less then a minute for sperm to die after touchin the air.
*~Stephanie~*

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Ok here we go. Ok im 16 and ive made a commitment to myself that i would never have sex until i am married. Im not saying now but in the future..can i still do stuff that wouldnt be considered having sex. and is that all guys want...i mean i had a bf for 2 and 1/2 weeks (not long) and he told his friends that he was going to have sex soon. I dont know y he thought that b/c i was uncomfortable even kissing him..(he was 2 yrs older) and im just worried that in the future ill find this amazing guy and all he'll want is sex and i wont give it to him (unless we get married) is that so hard for guys to handle...will he end up cheating on me and have sex w/ someone who will give it to him? so is there pleasureable stuff that we can still do ...thats not sex?

if this guy doesnt understand you want to wait until you are married than dump him. because that shows that he doesnt have any respect for you.
*~Stephanie~*

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I always wondered how long does sex usually last. like i always thought it was a while but on tv they are done in like 5 min. i mean i know everyone is dif. but what is your average or whatever?

5 minutes to 3 hours. it all really depends on the person and how long they can make it last.
*~Stephanie~*

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16/f

I have alot of stuff on my mind lately. A little over a month ago, me and this guy (we'll call him Ed) broke up. We were together for 5 months. They were best 5 months of my life, but at the same time the worst. I've tried for a whole month to get over him and move on. I was "talking" to this other guy (we'll call him Bob). Four days ago, I had sex with him. Now it turns out, at the same he was "talking" to me, he was "talking" to two other girls. Now, this other guy (we'll call him George) wants to go out with me and I think I may have led him on. Not purposely. See, i thought I was finally ready for "commitment"..an actual boyfriend. But I'm not. I just want to have fun. I'm almost positive I'm in love with Ed, and I'm never going to forget Bob. I need to stop hanging out with Bob because he's been lying to me. But I can't, it's like I'm addicted to him. I have feelings for him but in a different way. It's like I just want us to be "friends with benefits". Tonight, George is supposed to come over but I'd rather sit at home alone and think about everything. So I have to tell him I don't want a boyfriend. I need advice (obviously). What should I do about Ed? Should I stop hanging out with Bob or just talk to him about it? How do I tell George I don't want to be with him, or anyone..for a long time? If someone could give me their AIM screen name, that'd be appreciated. I need someone, other than my friends, to talk to.

the easiest and best thing for you to do is to tell all of them how you feel. explain to them that you need to time to think and that you cant get over your x and need sometime.
*~Stephanie~*

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Its going to be long but i`ll rate.

It seems as if everythings good in most of my friends lives. I mean I have 3 best friends and two of them have had boyfriends for over 8 months. They are Kelly 13& Chrissi 15 And I'm kinda jealous. I dont want to be single. I absolutly hate it. My other friend Nichole doesn't have a boyfriend.[well she got dumped.] and when she did have a boyfriend she rubbed it in my face. And kept telling me she that she was going out with Kelly. [She doesn't really talk to Chrissi] Well she got on my nerves about that so I laughed when she was crying about being dumped. (I'll admit I'm not the bestest friend. But she did rub it in my face) Well okay lets get to the point I'm kind of jealous of Kelly and Chrissi. But I wouldn't EVER ruin their relationships.
I just don't understand why guys don't like me I mean I think I'm pretty... [urm... sometimes]. I'm okay looking I guess. But it seems that guys think I'm invisable. Kellys mom said I'm pretty to Nichole[when she was in a relationship] and I had to try harder. But I really don't feel like looking because I always get in trouble. [with girls]I'm just confused. I used to have a good self-esteem but it seems to be going away because of this. I just really hate being single. And I don't want to be single. I wish I had a boyfriend. I mean this is literally tearing me apart. I'm depressed and stuff all over this.
=( Please help.

hey girly! cheer up i used to be just like you except i had 5 best friends and they all had boyfriends and i didnt. and to be honest with you i never had a boyfriend until i was 14 and that was when i had my first kiss,and firts make out. to tell you the truth when i was 13 i didnt give a fuck about guys all i needed was my best friends and nothin else bc that is what made me happy. no guy can replace my best friends is what i always though and i personaly thought i was ugly and i always thought i would never have a boyfriend. but i never let that bother me when i was with my friends. dont let that bother you either because you might ruin your friendship with your friends even when you dont want. plus any guy who would go out with you would be one lucky guy because you sound like a great girl. hun you got over 80 years left of you life. dont worry about it.
*~Stephanie~*

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I have been dating a girl for almost a year now. I am 29, she is 27. I recently found out that she cheated on her previous boyfriends. Do you think there is a better chance that I'll be cheated on than if I was dating a girl who had never cheated?

once a cheater always a cheater. but if i were i would give her a chacne if you get any feelin of her doin somethin behind ur back wit another guy dump her.
*~Stephanie~*

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i was just wondering how old do u have to be to be able tolike get your own apartment? because i dont wanna live at home anymore and like could i go on welfare or something??

14/f

i have great news for you can when you are 16 if your grades are up and get yourself a lawyer and prove to the court that you are old enough and mature enough to live on your own. otherwise you got to wate just like the rest of us until you are 18 which sucks.
*~Stephanie~*

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alright.. My boyfriend was saying goodbye over the internet and he said I love you so much and i said i love you more & i'll see you tomorrow & then he said "in that we must agree to disagree." what does that mean?

I'll rate you

that is actually a very cute thing for him to tell you. it means he disagress that you love him more because he think he loves you more. but you both agree that you love each other.
*~Stephanie~*

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what is love really about?

love is finding someone who you cant stay without. someone who you will do anythin and everythin for.
*~Stephanie~*

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Ok, both me and my boyfriend prefer..having it shaved "down there". The only thing whe I try to shave i still have littel studs that don't totally go away. I want it to be completley smooth there. Can I use nair down then? Or what can I use beside waxing it..thnx

i am just like you and i hoesntly wouldnt use nair if you read the back of it it says this was not made to be used on vignias. so i wouldnt use that.
*~Stephanie~*

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Is there any possible way to get pregnant from swallowing a guy's cum? I know it sounds stupid, I'm just making absolutely certain that there's like no way it could leak into any body cavity. So no smart ass answers. Thanks.

no there isnt.
*~Stephanie~*

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is the media play store closing by you?

honestly i dont use the media player store but i checked for you and it isnt.
*~Stephanie~*

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