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It seems as if everythings good in most of my friends lives. I mean I have 3 best friends and two of them have had boyfriends for over 8 months. They are Kelly 13& Chrissi 15 And I'm kinda jealous. I dont want to be single. I absolutly hate it. My other friend Nichole doesn't have a boyfriend.[well she got dumped.] and when she did have a boyfriend she rubbed it in my face. And kept telling me she that she was going out with Kelly. [She doesn't really talk to Chrissi] Well she got on my nerves about that so I laughed when she was crying about being dumped. (I'll admit I'm not the bestest friend. But she did rub it in my face) Well okay lets get to the point I'm kind of jealous of Kelly and Chrissi. But I wouldn't EVER ruin their relationships.
I just don't understand why guys don't like me I mean I think I'm pretty... [urm... sometimes]. I'm okay looking I guess. But it seems that guys think I'm invisable. Kellys mom said I'm pretty to Nichole[when she was in a relationship] and I had to try harder. But I really don't feel like looking because I always get in trouble. [with girls]I'm just confused. I used to have a good self-esteem but it seems to be going away because of this. I just really hate being single. And I don't want to be single. I wish I had a boyfriend. I mean this is literally tearing me apart. I'm depressed and stuff all over this.
=( Please help.
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its ok you're not the only one dont be upset because you havent gotten that far yet lots of girls dont until much later so you're not alone, if you're feeling jealous its ok because everybody gets a little jealous of other people's relationships i know i have and finding a boyfriend is difficult but soon they will come to you and you will be happy just dont change for no boy because they will think they have complete control over you and thats not right if you want to try to catch a boy's eye all you have to do is be feminine and aggressive at the same time like wear something hott ((NOT sexy)) and ask a boy out and if he says no its his lost at least you know you triend and you wont regret it dont be afraid to take risks because you never know what the results will be
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It's understandable that you're feeling this way I mean everyone wants to be with someone.Like I told someone else before it doesn't mean you're ugly perhaps maybe a lot are taken or they are just not looking in the right direction,and don't realize it.If you know you're an attractive girl then there is nothing to worry about just have patience even though it may suck to wait have confidence in yourself.
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hey girly! cheer up i used to be just like you except i had 5 best friends and they all had boyfriends and i didnt. and to be honest with you i never had a boyfriend until i was 14 and that was when i had my first kiss,and firts make out. to tell you the truth when i was 13 i didnt give a fuck about guys all i needed was my best friends and nothin else bc that is what made me happy. no guy can replace my best friends is what i always though and i personaly thought i was ugly and i always thought i would never have a boyfriend. but i never let that bother me when i was with my friends. dont let that bother you either because you might ruin your friendship with your friends even when you dont want. plus any guy who would go out with you would be one lucky guy because you sound like a great girl. hun you got over 80 years left of you life. dont worry about it.
*~Stephanie~*
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