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Tonite I am going to a party with my boyfriend. We haven't had sex or any thing yet but he says he wants to do anal tonite. The only reason I'm nervouse is because I feel like it will hurt. What position should I be in so that it is not as painful? Also what other stuff can I do with him tonite to not stop after we do anal? (link)
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Yes it will hurt.
There are methods to lessen the pain a bit.
Use TONS of lubrication, and make sure you go slow.
If it hurts too bad you need to stop, if your boyfriend respects you he'll listen.
I suggest this position:
http://sexinfo101.com/sp_spooning.shtml
I tried something like that with my boyfriend and it didn't hurt nearly as much as
http://sexinfo101.com/sp_asiancowgirl.shtml
[like i said go slow, it takes a while for the anus to stretch]
However, if you don't really want to have anal sex you don't have to. You guys could always experiment with oral or other things.
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I get pimples just like everyone else, but for the most part I am breakout free but whenever I do get a pimple it always leaves a scar.
I don't pick at it or try and pop it but usually when it does pop its when I'm in the shower or washing my face.
What can I do to prevent it from scarring? And what products can I use to get rid whatever scars I have?
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An expensive treatment is acne lasers, another great thing is direct steroid injection to the face. Ask your dermatologist about this. I'm so fed up with acne, however, that the only thing that bothers me anymore is Cystic acne. I've tried so hard to remove it, but I don't really care anymore.
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So me and my boyfriend have been in a relationship for 7 months and 2 days to date. We're sophmores in highschool and extremely close. The point of my post is what exactly should I tell my mom in the way of guiding her to let me spend the night at his house? I've come out and asked her once or twice before and I've gotten "no" and "I didn't in the same bed as your father until we were married." (link)
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Sleeping in the same bed often leads to sex. If you had sex and said you were just sleeping with him you would be lying to you mom, after you promised not to.
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i have a white pimple on my upper lip. it's red, but white in the middle. i have very little facial hair on my upper lip. and when i apply a little pressure on it it hurts. yesturday night i used neutrogena acne scrub and it was like...a normal pimple yesturday. today it was a white pimple. what should i do to get rid of it? i cant go to the doctor...
how do i get rid of it in 2 days? (link)
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Just pop the thing. Will be gone in 2 days, easy. Man up and go through the pain, it isn't that bad.
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http://i2.photobucket.com/albums/y11/Zeilay/hoih.jpg
I've put on weight. And today two seperate people were like
"Oh,Jordann you've put on weight."
One even was like you were like this [ ], now you're like this [ ]" (with her hands)
I'm feleign really self-conscious, and insecure.
Should I try and drop a few?
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Babe, I don't think you even have weight to lose if you wanted to :O Girls with a tad bit of chub on them in the right places are very attractive =)
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ok yea so basically i have been doing all kinds of stomach exercises for almost a year and nothing i dont have a 4 pack that i have been tryin to get. I can feel it but i cant see it. Is there any other exercises where ill get fast easy results because i have been tryin to get a 4 pack for the longest time and nothin is appearing. its frustrating me
ya so help thanks
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Your not going to like what I have to say... but you need the help. Some people have bad abdomin genetics, and are doomed to FOREVER be 4-6 packless. Make sure you have large abdomin muscles (not overwhelming as to make your Pecs look outgunned). A key factor is being below 7% bodyfat. Go to your local gym and request someone use CALIPERS to measure your body fat. Body Fat Index or any other formulas requiring no physical examination are highly inaccurate and are based only off of population averages.
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OK so Im 5ft 8 and I weigh around 130 something...Am I fat? People call me fat and all I can do is cry about it. I eat a lot. I dont notice I eat that much but I do :( (link)
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Your far from it. 100 to 130 pounds is a very nice weight. Any less and it looks unhealthy. Don't listen to what the idiots have to say, your fine. However, depending on how much of that weight is muscle might change my opinion, fat takes up more space than muscle, hence making you look larger. It also could be your bone structure, and if your face is chubby.
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Okay, well today I'm going to the movies with a couple friends, nothin' big. But I've been putting on my jeans and some of them don't fit and others really show my love handles. I'm not fat or anything, i don't have any fat on my body really just my love handles, and my butt's pretty big. So I was just wondering how to get rid of the love handles, would just running help or is there other exercises, I know eat right obviously, but what else? (link)
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Anything with cardo. Eat right. Do crunches targeting the obliques! (Cross one leg over the other, like if you were sitting down with a laptop in your lap, and put the opposite arm behind you head and crunch to make the elbow and riht above the knee touch. Your other arm should remain at your side.
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Hi, i'm a female, im not sure if that matters or not, but i was wondering how i could lose 45 pounds and 9 inches off my waiste? Also how long will it take? Thanks (link)
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Depends entirely on your diet and exercise. DO NOT DO ANYTHING UNHEALTHY IT WILL COME BACK AND KICK YOU IN THE ASS. In 3 months of varsity wrestling with side trying I lost 23 pounds, and alot of it was muscle. Very unhealth. I would say 45 pounds would take a year if you do cardio AT LEAST every otther day. It depends on how heavy you are though. If your significantly overweight the main thing is watch your diet, you can lose 45 pounds easy if you just watch what your eating.
NUMBER 1 RULE: Burn off more calories than you consume. Absolutely no other way to do it. If it was easy everyone would be doing it.
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my face is kind of fat right now. if i take 2 30-minute walks a day (leisurely pace) how long will it take to see results? will dancing help? how long should i dance & how do i keep that from making my boobs smaller? (link)
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My face went from just a insignifcantly bit chubby to lean, but that took 3 months of varsity wrestling, as I don't think you can target your face muscles :/ Try jogging, you'll lose calories much faster all around and you will have more energy. Power Walking is time consuming, dull (in my opinion) and results are poorer. You will notice your legs tone up mainly if you Power Walk.
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i have the video game ddr (dance dance revolution) and i would definitely get bored and lose motivation quickly doing a regular running/walking workout. so do you think if i did ddr for a set time daily or like 5 days a week that i could lose a few pounds? im only looking to lose maybe 5, at most 10 pounds. im not in a rush but the sooner the better. im trying to eat healthier also, but thats a different story. if it would be a good cardio workout, how long should i do it for daily? a half hour? 45 minutes? im willing to try to fit it into my days if it will help. thanks (link)
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I'm not trying to be offensive, but get off your ass and do something. DDR will help you lose some water weight from sweating (5-10 lbs at most) but it's water weight, you'll gain it back within a week. Get active, ride a bike, skateboard, scooter, join a sport, etc. And a nice bit of information is that tone muscle maintains itself by constantly burning calories, so once you lose the fat and work the muscles you'll keep the pounds off. Good luck.
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My parents fight sometimes and my dad almost left once but he didn't because he wanted to stay and raise us. I have a little brother too and he can be anoying. I mean I am really confused of whats going on. And then I have things I have to work on at school and then I go to church every week and my dad doesn't believe in God so he doesn't like me going but he still lets me. Then I like this guy so I'm confused about everything in my life. And my friend doesn't really treat me like a friend and she is the only thing I got. So any advice would be appreciated (link)
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Go to church definately, try to go to the youth groups they provide. Get involved in sports, and make friends on the team. Ask the guy, guys don't mind when girls ask, but don't take it the wrong way if he rejects you. Don't beat around the bush though, take initiative and self-discipline!
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Ok, I know questions about hair cuts are asked alot, but....Does anyone know any sites with emo/punk hairstyles for girls? I searched on google and all I could find was guys..... so please let me know a good site
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Well first of all you kinda need to be a punk or emo before getting one... but girls with huge liberty spikes and mohawks (NOT FAUXHAWKS!) are very attractive on girls, and not trendy at all. I would date a girl with a mohawk in a heartbeat. I lean towards the mohawk, as I had a foot long one and I only needed to spend 15 mins of putting elmers glue w/ hair dryer to get the desired straightness. Liberty spikes will take you at LEAST 3 hours, if your lucky and have fine hair. Be warned though, unless you dress punk/emo your gonna look rediculous!
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I really want to get a piercing. Really really badly. not like a normal piercing but a unique kind of one. Nothing big just something thats different. I've tried talking my grandma [I live with her] about it and she wont let me. I've talked about getting my eyebrow pierced and she said she didn't want me to do that. I've been thinking about a Marylyn Monroe [sry if spelled wrong] because I've been told that it would look good on me. I have two questions kind of, How can I try to convence my g-ma to let me get the piercing [knowing her, I would most likely be able to get one if it wasn't too extreme and if I had info about piercings and stuff] and what other piercings would be a good idea? [I do not want a nose or another ear piercing though]
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Your conflicting with yourself. If you want to look different, piercings are not the way. EVERYONE has peircings now, be it those bars, snake bits, nose rings, etc. Don't do anything you will regret! Unless you are thoroughly certain you want this piercing, AND have wante dto for quite some time (very important, you would be suprised how fast you can change your opinion within 6 months!) If you reaaaallly want it just tell your grandma its your own damn ear and your gonna do it wether she likes it or not (in a polite way of course :D)
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My boyfriend and I have lost the passion in our relationship. We both are trying to get it back by becoming more "friend like" and holding off on everything physical. Do you think that will work? What else can we do? (link)
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How old are you and your boyfriend, how long have you two been together? Maybe you rushed into the relationship? Trying to be more friend like wont help, you need to be more of a girlfriend, not a friend OR a piece of meat. (Especially not a piece of meat, then you will definately lose interest!) Get to know each other as much as you can. Do you two get along well, share the same interests, or maybe see each other too often?
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all the boys i like r real cute but look nice and innocient and i know looks can be decieveing but im into the quiet boys. they are nice sometimes but when it comes to girs theyre mean can please explain y they probably act like that
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Obviously I cannot catagorize all of the quiet guys in the world, but heres my opinion.
Quiet guys often have low self esteem, or are anti-social. They might not have experience with women and don't know how to act when approached by them. It depends largely on how old these "boys" are. Maybe they don't want a girlfriend. I'm quiet, anti-social, don't want a girlfriend, and I attract a few here and there. It's just who I am. I don't mind flirting with a few good female friends but I'm really looking for anything. I'm just living my teenage years while I still can.
Try and be more detailed, can you give examples, ages, personalities, etc.? Take a chance of getting to know them better, don't surprise them by coming off controling or needy, play it smooth and find out who they are.
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I have this friend, lets call him Bob. Well now I'm on summer vacation and we dont talk. We used to talk in school all the time. After school and now all I do is think about Bob. I have no physical attraction toward Bob though. Bob just has a great personality. Bob could always make me laugh, and I was confused on wether I liked Bob for a bit, but I thought well I dont because I dont think he's physically attractive. And I base everything on looks. Bob gave me his number,but I dont call bob, bob dont call me. But what the heck, I CANT stop thinking about Bob. I dont want to like Bob though. I least I dont think I do. What should I do ? and do I like like him ? (link)
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Want advice? Stop being shallow. Unless he looks so bad you would classify his as another species, give it a try. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain! He has a great personality, which means the more you get to know him, the more appealing he becomes! When you are old neither of you will have looks, you'll just have each others imputs. Is it possible that Bob can just be a good friend, and you haven't had one in such a while that it feels foreign to have alternative, positive attention?
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My best friend (D) told me not to long ago that she had sex when she was 12, now shes 14. I was shocked and disgusted too, because people always thought she was a whore. My other best friend told me that D told her that it happened more than once. Once in the bed, once in the shower, once on the beach, and once somewhere else, and a couple other times. This was all with her boyfriend (M). M died last year, and he was only 13. Anyway, she didn't tell me it happened all those times,because she knew I'd be even more disapointed I guess. When D told me about the first time, I told her I had lost respect for her. I think she is a whore. One time in class we were counting all the guys she dated, and I was naming random names and she would be like Yup. The total was 17. D turned 14 a few months ago. Would you agree that D is a whore? Also, would it be wrong to stop talking to her, because of that. (link)
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At 12 years old!? Wow... half of 12 year olds only are sprouting their first pubes! Anyways, I'm sorry shes a whore. That doesn't meen stop being her friend though, because that would make you a shitty friend. Lifes rough, but you only live it once so let the negative and pointless things slide, and remember that she IS your friend, not some prostitue running wild in the streets. If she needs help, help her. If she doesn't let her know that you're their for her. Just because shes premicious DOESN'T meen that shes a bad person. It's shocking, but I have a friend whois going down the same path, and however she has a few personality problems I'm there for her. Why? Because I'm her friend, and I don't care what people have to say about her, shes a good person, just foolish.
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do you have to have a pap smear before getting on the pill for the first time? (link)
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I don't believe you have to anymore. I didn't when I got mine, the lady there told me I didn't need one for about 3 more years, then again I'm only 15 so I'm not sure if age is a factor or not. I hope I helped a little though.
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ok my friend told me today that chris brown and channing tatum are gayy is that truee? (link)
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Well, this is an advice column...
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