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LIKE A FRIEND ?
I have this friend, lets call him Bob. Well now I'm on summer vacation and we dont talk. We used to talk in school all the time. After school and now all I do is think about Bob. I have no physical attraction toward Bob though. Bob just has a great personality. Bob could always make me laugh, and I was confused on wether I liked Bob for a bit, but I thought well I dont because I dont think he's physically attractive. And I base everything on looks. Bob gave me his number,but I dont call bob, bob dont call me. But what the heck, I CANT stop thinking about Bob. I dont want to like Bob though. I least I dont think I do. What should I do ? and do I like like him ?
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Want advice? Stop being shallow. Unless he looks so bad you would classify his as another species, give it a try. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain! He has a great personality, which means the more you get to know him, the more appealing he becomes! When you are old neither of you will have looks, you'll just have each others imputs. Is it possible that Bob can just be a good friend, and you haven't had one in such a while that it feels foreign to have alternative, positive attention?
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Normally your basing wether you like someone or not on how they look which is shallow but anyways. You found this guy who has a great personality but might not be goodlooking and your confused because you dont know why your having feelings for him.
You like this guy. You like him because of who he is rather than what he looks like. Call him. Talk to him. Try to hang out with him.
Not everything is about looks and usually when you like someone on their personality their appearance grows on you and you end up loving it.
Love xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx
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dear, person,
well it is possible that you might have a thing for bob. remember, beauty is whats inside not whats outside and if you realy like bob then you already know that. call bob give eachother a time to talk.
you never know; you might end up having a wonderful conversation with him. you will neevr know till you try.
and if you keep thinking about bob i guess you might have a thing for him so call him find out whats going on. you never knwo til you try. you nd bob might end up having a good relationship and then again it might not work out. but atleast you gave it a try and look at it this way, if you try it out you wouldnt be wondering your whole life what it would have been if you actually called him.
good luck!
xoxo blackluna7111
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