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Hi My name is Nicole, Well most of my friends do drugs and well i dont because i have head on my sholders.Anyways so i told my bestfriends boyfriend that she was still smoking and later on she came up to me and yelld at me. And well her and her bf broke up because she lied to him and i guess there was more to the story so yea.....anyways so now she got allof myfriends agenst me for some stupid reason and i dont even know what i did to the rest of them....Do you guys think i made the rigth choice by going to her boyfriend and not teacher because she would be grounded for the rest of her life if her parents found out..... so what can i do to get my friends back..
PLEASE HELP PLEASE (link)
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No, I for one don't think you made the right choice. She should have been the one to tell her boyfriend. That totally screwed up their relationship. I can definitely understand her anger. I completely agree with Dr.Anqel. You need to talk to some of your friends and try to figure out why they're mad at you. Then explain yourself and then I'm sure they'll start to forgive you. A lot of anger is spread from miscommunication.
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I am a 14 year old female
ok, my boyfriend and i have just started going out so the relationship is still a little akward. He is really shy so we dont talk much. But his best friend; who hooked us up, i think likes me too. b/c he is always talking to me n flirting. I whink i could have a better relationship with the other guy(not my boyfriend)but i dont want to throw away a good relaionship b/c he might just be a little nervous. I am so confused.
PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Im sorry its so long!! (link)
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Poor boyfriend. I empathize with him. Anyway, give him some time. You know he's shy, so some things you'll have to initiate. His best friend is an ass. If I was your boyfriend I'd kill him. Friends shouldn't flirt with other friend's girlfriends. I can almost guarantee you if you dump him for his best friend, he'll hate both of you, you wouldn't want that.
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heyyyyyy
i saw these songs on motormouth(mtv) jus wonderin....what they r n all
is there a group called huey luey and news?
and the part of the song i remember is...
*theres nothing a hundred men or more could ever do*
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There is no such band called "Huey Luey and News" and there never was, and those lyrics are from the ancient long forgotten band called Toto. The song is Africa.
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I had a dream about my bestfriend (he's a guy) ok well i had a dream about my bestfiend this is what happened:I the dream we are like 17 or 18 still i high school.(but we really ar 13&14)we were on the phone then he asked me to come over and i did.Then we were in his apartment hanging out.Then this wome around the age of 40 came over.I openedthe doorand then he(my bestfriend) asks me to leave so i do but i come back and i see them 2 having sex!!And when i see him at school (in my dream the next day)im am so mad at im and i yell at him and push him but he is still there then h grabsmy shouldes and looks me in the eye.that all im cofued i dont know why i was s madcn you tell me what this might mean.thanx (link)
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Absolutely nothing. It was just a dream, don't read too far into it. I dreamt that a rabbit stabbed me. I refuse to believe that that has anything to do with anything.
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this gurl likes me but she goes to a different and i want to ask her out wat do i do (link)
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Tell her you need to talk alone the next time you see her, then tell her how you feel when your alone. If you tell her any other way, she may not take you seriously. She may even consider it a joke. Trust me, in person is by far the best way to do it. Even though it might hurt more and be a little more awkward to get rejected face to face, your chances that she'll be honest with you are much greater.
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my best friend is popular and all of these guys like her and shes really pretty and has alot of friends and is really outgoing and is a really good dancer so sometimes i cant help being jealous of her. i want to be more like her but i cant. like i want to be more outgoing and be a better dancer and stuff. what should i do? (link)
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Take lessons, dance more, be more outgoing. It all sounds simple, but it's nigh impossible when it's not really you. What you really need is to accept who you are. Stop comparing yourself to someone else, you don't want to be a copycat of your friend, that's just annoying to everyone. Be happy with yourself, concentrate a little more on your good qualities and less on your bad ones. We all have them.
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ok well my mom is a slut and always sleeps with guys she meets online. she never spends time with her kids and whenever we try to talk to her about it she gets all kissy kissy and does it all over again. she stays out until 7 pm to 3 am and comes home with dumb lame and unbelievable excuses. we really need help from someone because she is going to end up hurting herself as well as her kids. please help! (link)
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Keep on getting on her case about it. Show her what it's like for you to see her like this. Drill it through her head what type of person she's becoming. Call her on her lies. If she still doesn't change, you'll have to get professional help. This lifestyle isn't healthy at all, let alone when you're raising children.
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Hi. My names Kylie and this is my situation. I live with my older sister because my dad left and my mom died when I was born. I'm 13 and she’s 29. Anyways when I was 4 one of her friends was watching me while she went out and he was touching me sexually. I didn’t tell her and the next time he babysat me he did it again. He did it 4 different times that I can remember. Anyways I never told my sister about it. And they’re still really good friends today. He comes all the time so I see him a lot. And I feel really awkward around him. What I'm wondering is should I tell my sister about it? I don’t know if shed believe me and if she did I don’t know if shed do anything about it. I know its sexual abuse but can he actually get in trouble for it? Like since it happened a long time ago?
Please reply. I really don’t know what to do here.
Please email me if you think you can help.
hollisterhunni0628@yahoo.com
- Kylie (link)
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Yes you should tell your sister. As for if he would get into trouble, I can almost guarantee it. I wouldn't worry about it anyway, if he does he deserves it. Anyone who will try to take advantage of a four year old deserves to be shot. She'll believe you, why on earth would you make something up like this? Anyway, you have to tell her. If it's eating you up to the point where you need advice here, then you have to tell her. Besides, do you really want your sister to be hanging around a guy whose capable of such acts.
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does anyone know any good poem sites? because i wanted to add some to mybuddy4u.....thanx in advanced... (link)
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If you can't spell "except" right, what are the chances that you can write a decent poem?
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I think my clitoris is oversized or something because whenever I wear panties, I have an orgasm. What should I do? (link)
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grow up.
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jus b4 i was talking to mi friend online:
the conversation:
me: hey
her: OH HI
me: wuts up
her: n2mmu?
me: n2m
her: KOOL
me: yup
her: look at my pro
me: ok h/o
her: kk
me: its cool
her: ty
her: im not ut friend thanks alot
then she signed off nd i dk what to do.
any advice (link)
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What?
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im in a bad situation... or kinda odd... ok now i know my guy friend isn't mad at me and so im still waiting for HIM to im ME but theres one small problem.. he doesnt know my new sn and so its going to be IMPOSSIBLE for HIM to im ME! what do i do?!
p.s. REMEMBER i dont want to im HIM, i want HIM to im ME, and its just a test so... ya (link)
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Clearly NOT a good test, he can't PASS it because like YOU said, HE doesn't KNOW your SN.
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Well I know this might be difficult. But I can't ask anybody or anything so I was just wondering if anybody could help me.. My project says..
Make an illustarted map of the thirteen original colonies (i did this already)
Using a legend, indicate the following:
a) when each was started
b) by whom
c) origin of the early settlers
d) special features
e) any other pertinent information you have found while researching this topic.
Does a legend mean, a story? or does it mean like a key ?? please help!! (link)
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A key.
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ok, the drugs are coricidin and although i haveheard stories about them being harmful, i personally have taken them many times and have had no bad experiences or reactions. so i don't see what the issue is. i take them so i can write. they help me reach other planes in order to make my writing more interesting. (link)
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http://www.the-index.org/cgi-bin/story.pl?1005coricidin
http://www.acep.org/1%2C33362%2C0.html.
In case you haven't read the information sites like this provide. In small doses, it of course seems harmless. Just be careful, there's no such thing as a harmless drug. Read this if you haven't, become an expert on this drug if you plan to continue taking it, and inform your boyfriend with what you learn. If I recall right, no one has died from it, but it isn't harmless.
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the drugs in question are legal, OTC drugs, but my boyfriend is completely over-reacting on the matter. they are harmless but he has some kind of paranoia about them. what should i tell him to ease his fears so i can expand my mind? (link)
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Just because they're over-the-counter drugs doesn't mean they're harmless. Just tell him it's your body and you are the one who makes the choices concerning it. If you want to fuck it up to "expand your mind", it's your choice to do so. What are the drugs in question, and to what degree are they being used? How do you know that they are harmless? Why are you taking them?
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I'll try to get all the details. So, since me and my ex broke up as you know, I've made my fair share of drunken mistakes. I'm quite sick of it. I feel like the only way to stay far away from assholes is if I have a nice guy who gives me a reason to stay faithfull. That's where my problem starts.
My male roommate's name is Josh. He had a friend over to one of our drunken get-togethers a while ago. This friend was very shy, but he seems very nice. I would like to get to know him. Perhaps just for the friendship. The problem is that I am also extremely shy. Even more so when I'm not talking online.
Here's a few things I know about the guy, that make me want to get to know him more. Firstly, he's into art. I've seen a few things that he's done, and while I wasn't really interested in them, it's still cool that he's at least into art. Also, he mentioned trying to fix up an El Camino once. Although it never got fixed, El Camino's are cool. Or at least they look cool. :) Other than his name, that's really all I know about him.
Well, that's not true. I do know more. My female roommate, has told me that he hasn't had a girlfriend in a while and he doesn't enjoy drinking very much. I talk to her about him, and have asked her to tell my guy roommate, who is her boyfriend, to invite him over each time we drink and hang out.
But he never does. He tells her it's because the guy is shy and doesn't like drinking very much. But I feel like these are just excuses. I can't help but think that Josh does not invite him over because he knows I am interested in getting to know him, and he thinks I'm no good because of the mistakes that I have already made in my life. I always imagine that people think the worst of me, but I'm not sure if it's true. Things are awkward between me and my guy roommate, and we never have conversations about these kind of situations.
Now, here's on to the advice question that I set out to ask in the first place.
After reading all that, I need help from you to over come my shyness and try to get to know a shy guy. Coming from a shy guy yourself. I'm not sure if this guy will ever come here again, but if he does, then I want to know how to talk to someone who doesn't particularly enjoy drinking and who is very shy. I was thinking of getting his email address. I do better online than on the phone. I come off as an even bigger bitch on the phone than I do online, if that is at all possible.
Of course this does mean that I wont be able to get wasted like I normally do.
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It is definitely possible that those are just excuses, but it's more likely that he simply doesn't like to go to parties with a lot of drinking if he doesn't like to drink very much. Trust me, I have friends of all kinds. The ones who "don't drink very often" are often found ducking out of parties with a lot of drinking. And I doubt people think the worst of you, everyone remembers what people dislike about them moreso than what people like. And since your so shy, you never find out what people are really thinking.
That's the problem with us shy people. Coincidences occur, and we assume the worst. On my part, I've found out (through being fed up with everyone seemingly against me) that it's rarely the case. Everyone's so involved with themselves that they probably wouldn't even fathom making a fool of/back stabbing/ lying to me.
As for getting to know him, I doubt a party is a good place to do it. He's extremely uncomfortable and your drunk, neither of you will find out much and won't get any closer. Since the art thing is all we have to go on, try finding something art related to invite him to. Maybe an exibit, or museum, or something. Car talks are generally boring, and you can't expand much on them. Well, at least I can't. You can start with art as a topic and expand on it. Ask him about the basics, school, work, hobbies, etc. When I keep a constant eye contact when I'm listening, people almost always tell me all sorts of private things. i'm not quite sure if that would work with you, could be just me. Some of my casual, shy friends have shocked me by just pouring out to me. So, constantly look in his eyes. It might be hard because your shy, and I used to have a problem with it, but I've finally trained myself to do it.
As for inviting him, what do you know about him? Do you know what classes he's taking if he's in school, where he works, anything? If so, you can "accidently" run into him. I've done that recently with this girl I have a crush on. Coming up with what to say should be easy, just tell him you knew he was interested in art and that you wondered if he wanted to see whatever display is up. Something to that effect. What else? Well, really I'd rather talk to you if you need anything else or if I'm missing something. So I'll just talk to you the next time you're online. Sorry about the massive paragraph. I asked the admin about it but she ignored my question.
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For a school dance I'm the music person...one problem I dont know what to play. Its a highschool dance for like the winter and stuff and one of the songs they asked me to get goes like "and in the end its right I hope you had the time of your life." but I dont know who sings it...ahhh what do i do...please help!
*no style* (link)
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Winter? Just play Christmas songs the entire time. They'll love it.
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my boy friend has been ubducted by the new game halo 2...he is obsessed! how can i get him back??? (link)
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Halo 2, huh? It's too late now, you lost him. Even if you do pry him from the game, the game is all he'll want to talk about. You'll have to wait through the phases of a guy getting a new game.
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If I start exercising almost every morning for 30-60 minutes by walking and I start doing Pilates and also start eating healthy, how long do you think it will take to lose some weight and get skinnier? Thanks!! :) (link)
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Not long at all so long as you don't miss any. Your diet/exercise routine needs to be constant for the best results. I'm guessing you'll notice a difference in no time, but there's no telling how fast you'll lose weight. Everyone is different.
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Well!My name is Sami and I am in a big old miss hap right now with a lot of things in my life.
I have not takled to my ex bf in over a month ya kno but yesterday I was online and he IMed me. He said some really mean comments to me. Like he kept on calling me a slut and stuff like that. I am not a slut either.I asked him what I did to him and he didnt say anything for a lil while. On halloween I went to six flags with my ex bf adam bc I thought that I still had feelings for him, all that we did was kiss. We didnt really even make out, just lil pecks here and there. My old friend nichole is telling dominic stuff that isnt true. Shes telling him that I did more with adam, when I didnt. So after I asked dominic what I did to him he was like, you went and saw adam on halloween.I told him that we didnt do more then kiss, but he was like," thats not what i heard". He has never even met my friend nichole, they have only talked on the phone. they dont really even kno eachother, and he is gonna believe her over me. Well I found out when I saw adam that I DIDNT have ANY feelings for him anymore. Atfer he and I kissed I went in the bathroom and cried bc I made the mistake of kissing him. It just hurts to much that dominic doesnt believe me bc last year when we dated we were in a mis hap just like this, where he didnt believe me, he believed everyone else. But in the end he figured out that I was not lying to him and that I WAS TELLING HIM THE TRUTH. Dominic has a gf and I can honestly say that I am happy for him. Its good to kno that he is happy. He thinks that I am all sad and miserable when I am not. Yeah I miss him and stuff but I am slowing moving on. Okay another thing is last weekend I went and saw my best friends: phoebe, dylan and tara. We all were at taras house watching a movie ok. Dylan and I are really good friends. Hes my bestest friend in the entire world. When we were watching the movie he and I were cuddling and kissiing. And yesterday online I put stuff to dylan like...Dylan-your my best friend in the entire world. I love you to death.LoL!We had fun last weekend didnt we? Your a good kisser, I hope I get to kiss you again." I am not the type of gurl that is going to kiss any guy. I have to like a guy to kiss him.I really like dylan more then a friend. I can say that I am falling in love with him. Maybe I already am. Dylans just difffernt then other guys. He excepts me for who I am. He has never hurt me in any way at all since Ive known him. Yeah dominic to me is the perfect guy but he has changed so much since we have broken up. I still really dont kno what was so bad that I did to him. I stoped talking to to dominic last night at 9 pm and I signed ofline and called Dylan right away. I cried like the whole time on the phone. I know that dominic is mad, its how he gets about situations like this. Yeah his feelings for me are fading but he still cares. It hurts more that he doesnt believe me about he adam thing, then him calling me a slut. How can he believe my old best friend nichole over a gurl (me)who is was in love with and knows inside and out. He doesnt kno nichole at all? I am at school right now and all I have been doing for the past 4 hrs is crying. Should I be crying over this or just let it pass bc I know that he is just mad and doesnt mean it. Its like Im single anyways. I have a right to kiss a guy if I like them ya know. Well please help me I am so confused. (link)
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I think crying is okay, but you need to learn to get over this already. He's clearly not the "perfect" guy. You said you were already slowly getting over him, so I don't see the problem. Just let it pass. It seems everyone has moved on now except you. He already has another girlfriend. Guys say hurtful things, it's universal. You need to learn to deal with this.
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