I had a dream about my bestfriend (he's a guy) ok well i had a dream about my bestfiend this is what happened:I the dream we are like 17 or 18 still i high school.(but we really ar 13&14)we were on the phone then he asked me to come over and i did.Then we were in his apartment hanging out.Then this wome around the age of 40 came over.I openedthe doorand then he(my bestfriend) asks me to leave so i do but i come back and i see them 2 having sex!!And when i see him at school (in my dream the next day)im am so mad at im and i yell at him and push him but he is still there then h grabsmy shouldes and looks me in the eye.that all im cofued i dont know why i was s madcn you tell me what this might mean.thanx
Cath answered Sunday November 21 2004, 5:42 pm: Hi Sweetie,
I don't think it meant anything. Maybe you were just thinking about him or the future or how creepy it is for 18yr old boys to do it with 40yr old ladies. L.O.L. Don't worry, it seems like you just suggested yourself the dream. Meaning it was just your subconcious mind reflecting on your thoughts and visions you ahve seen and stuff.
Sorry I wasn't of more help. Best wishes. Sleep well! ~Blessed Be... [ Cath's advice column | Ask Cath A Question ]
AsKmE135 answered Sunday November 21 2004, 1:06 pm: It sounds like you've been thinking about your best friend a lot lately. He's definitately been on your mind. Does this guy have a girlfriend right now that maybe subconsciously you are jealous of? Or maybe you've been seeing him flirting with other girls lately and you don't know it but you are jealous because you have feelings for him. Or maybe you DONT have feelings for him like that, but you are simply afraid that someday your best friend will be taken away from you by another woman and he won't be your best friend anymore. Anyway I hope this helped! (rate me plz, let me know what u think!) [ AsKmE135's advice column | Ask AsKmE135 A Question ]
confusedbabii answered Sunday November 21 2004, 12:55 pm: a dream may or may not mean something. at the age of 17/18, he will probably not be having sex with some 40 year old woman. don't worry about it. it's just a dream.
JJbear answered Sunday November 21 2004, 12:21 pm: i think that you should forget about for a couple days. try to tell him as a joke or tell him in a letter, or just ask him if he would do that. that happened to me before. it probley means nothing. talk to him on the phone or let it go. [ JJbear's advice column | Ask JJbear A Question ]
HunniBunni answered Sunday November 21 2004, 10:09 am: It probably means that you like this guy and you want to have a relationship but your afraid that he might want a another girl or cheat on you with another girl because he kicked you out, get it? I don't think that her age made any difference it just resembled maybe in the future you two will be together, and your just scare that he will cheat on you. I hope I helped. Send me some feedback if ya want. -Bianca/HunniBunni [ HunniBunni's advice column | Ask HunniBunni A Question ]
hailebop answered Sunday November 21 2004, 6:01 am: It's easy to read meaning into dreams, and someimes analysing them can give you really interesting answers. More often than not however dreams are just your brains way of letting of steam - a collection of random images, things you've been thinking a lot recently and things influenced by what's going on around you (such as a noise in the real world translating into an explosion in your dream).<p>
If you do want to analyse the dream, I'd say that it's not so much what was happening, but how you felt about it. Were you comfortable with your friend when you were together at his apartment? Was there a romantic undercurrent? How did you feel when you 'caught' him in the dream? Jealous? Revulsed? How do you feel when he grabbed hold of you?<p>
Maybe the dream shows that you have strong feelings, either platonic or romantic, for this friend of yours. Maybe it shows that your worried about where your relationship is heading. Honestly though, you are likely to get a much more concrete answer by examining whats in your head now rather than dream. Good luck. [ hailebop's advice column | Ask hailebop A Question ]
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